I doubt it is you. I have never fallen asleep during a bj before, but I have turned them down (along with sex) because I was too exhausted to hold my eyes open as it was, let alone with the relaxation from sex or BJ. I also slept right through a BJ before. I was napping, gf came home and decided to wake me up by starting to suck. She said I made pretty much the same moans and movements as I usually do. I woke up right when I was cumming and said "what the FUUUCCKKK?" So anyway, I can really understand the exhaustion to fall asleep during one.

 

Not really! I think you need to get a little more aggressive with this guy. If he dozes off while you are trying to please him, smack him and walk away. I think its sort of rude to fall asleep like that personally, so ya.

 

well hey!

3 times! once maybe if he's REALLY tired, but 3 times? Me thinks there may be a problem somewhere. And really don't think the problem is on your end....
Maybe a little conversation with him would reveal more.
Just a thought. Have Fun!

 

I agree that if it bothers you you should talk about it with your partner, however it most likely has nothing to do with you. I've been exuasted enough to fall asleep while being ridden. It wasn't that I wasn't enjoying it, or that I didn't want it. I REALLY REALLY wanted it, but had been working 12 hour shifts during a military exercise for 10 days straight. Sometimes the body's needs supersede the desires of it's owner. Amusingly, I stayed hard, and she still got off.

Sexual pleasure is actually a bit of a trigger for me. When I am close to orgasm, I even seem to nod off for a moment. It's almost as if I've developed situational narcolepsy. It's different from falling asleep, because my muscles just sort of fail to hold me up for a fraction of a second, and all the noise of the world goes away. My eyes close, and I'm somewhere else for a moment. When it's really really good, I snap in and out of this state incredibly rapidly, which then appears to my partners as a rapid tensing and untensing of my body.

Anyway, even if it wasn't his trip to "zombie-land," which is what I jokingly call the place my partners go, when their eyes roll back in their head, (though never WHILE they are doing it) it doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Sometimes the body is demanding sleep, for whatever reason and the incredible relaxation that can sometimes accompany oral service is just enough to push you over into slumber.

My reccomendation: If he stays hard, keep going. He's probably dreaming about it, and there's something to be said for pleasing a partner while they sleep.

 

I can definitely see this happening to me. If I was up for 24 hours I'd fall asleep in the middle of an orgy with the sports illustrated swimsuit models.

 

o hai!
you suck a wiener worse than your mother. but then again, she doesn't have teeth.
kthanxbai!

 

IMO..... its VERY RUDE of him... Its not you... I doubt you give boring head since you keep going back to him... Keep off his ass and make some gag sounds as you're doing your thing... If a little Guk-Guk-Guk doesn't wake him up then there is no hope - something is heavy on his mind..!!

 

make him stand while you do it. ... its way harder to fall asleep standing up.

 

Does he like work all day?

 

yes

 

i have never had any1 fall asleep during bj's

 

he probably just that tired?

 

ok thanks everyone...but any advice on technique at all?

 

After 24 hours being awake and active a guy would have to be receiving some porn quality head to stay awake.

Maybe just don't give him a BJ after he's been up that long???

I mean, all it's doing is making you feel bad and he's passing out so...

 

I'm headed to bed for the evening, (have to get my five hours sleep before I get up for work tomorrow) but I'll compile a good group of suggestions for you by tomorrow night.

 

This may be some consolation I am not sure, but I have fallen asleep standing before. So maybe there is nothing wrong with your technique and his body just shut down?

Chin up- I am sure it was just something with his body needing sleep and had nothing to do with you :excited:

 

id say start blowing him only when he is standing, cause while i have heard of some people falling asleep standing most people cant so problem solved oh and i doubt its you...but if he does fall asleep do something that will wake him up and get his attention (usually a small bit of pain is good for that)

 

yes bite now and again to keep his attention

 

Ask him what he likes.

 

Listen up Cutie, you are pretty hot and seem very open minded about sex which would suggest that you likely have all the right moves. If some dude is fallin asleep on you while you pleasure him orally i'd begin to wonder if he were maybe gay and just real good at denying it. It just doesn't make sense that a young straight guy could lose interest in you no matter how "relaxed" he claims to be.
My vote: Relaxed = 0 gay = 1