I have a new girlfriend who is really into domination and whips and cuffs, any tips on the best way to make her happy as I have never done that. I have only recently lost my virginity anyway. How do i turn her on with her fantasies?

 

Try it. What do you have to lose?

 

Quite a lot actually.

 

It's all in your head.

 

Try it , you might like it. If not get another girl frined.

 

Any tips on how to act and what to do. I am kind of turned on by the kinky stuff and i want to show her a night she will never forget.

 

If she knows about it, why don't you talk to her? Take turns. Let her explain what turns her on.

The discussion alone should get her buttered up.

 

I was afraid talking about it might be involved lol. But its a good idea. I like to just dive straight in and try new things but she wants me to be the dominate one and so i need to know more than just seeing how it goes and what she does to me. Why does everything come down to talking to each other :d

 

Because that is the best way to solve problems. The reason why so many marriages/relationships fail is because of the lack of communication. With ever advancing technology, you'd think it would make it easier to talk to people but we get lazier. So do the right thing and talk.

 

Plus it's better to start the conversation now than when you have to explain later on that you thought she was just playing when she was screaming "seriously, stop, that hurts."

 

caffeine has a point....either use a 'safety word' or just listen when she says stop, that or you'll scar her for life