annnnnnd thats called DENIAL.
If your're screwing people behind your wifes back..thats cheating..whether you think so or not.

Sometimes.. i make up fake rules to make myself feel better too...

If your're going to cheat.. dont get in a relationship. You apparently cant respect it, and your ruining it for the people who want to be faithful.

 

Just once while drunk at a club. Didn't have intercourse but I guess we did everything short of that. EVERY one of my married girlfriends messed around with these guys we met that night. Two of the girls ended up having sex that night and kept seeing their guy for a few weeks. We were very popular that night because we were married and the guys were in their early twenties. They wanted milfs and we wanted to be seen as sex objects by young fresh dick I guess.

 

no

cheating is disgusting, i could never, i have been cheated on tho, destroyed my world.. the bitch kept trying to get back together for like 6 months after.. i would never even want to do it i dont know how anyone could. i think im just never getting married, or having a serious realationship.. too many women out there are untrustworthy

 

People.

Until you find the right one that you can trust.

 

Cheating isnt always a bad thing. You dont know how they feel , what is actually happening in their relationship. I think after a certain time , when trust is completly earned and jealousy isnt an issue , all couples should "see other people" or swing. My wife and i were together 12years (married 5) she always said she could never stand the thought of another woman touching me. Things got alittle "routine" around the house.We got alittle bored of each other so we decided to swap. It was great. Being with other people and bringing back their expereinces and how they do things can really make a difference. But most people think " i know He/She's thinking about them all the time now" and thats what kills it. If trust is truly there it wont be an issue.

Religion is what told us one man one woman. Cause its all about control. Women are branded sluts of they have more than one man and men are branded studs for having many women. That just doesnt work when a man and woman get together , especially over time.

I have a stripper friend. who's been married 7years. He is 36 ,she is 28. He's had 5 kids with 4 women, including one from cheating on my friend. Right now he has little interest in sex, so he told her to choose 2 guys she knows and trusts to have sex with on regular basis. She tells him when she goes out and when she gets home , they have sex. sounds weird but its worked for them for a year. U tell that to some people and they'd say " she is cheating, plain and simple". But they dont know what going on in the relationship.

i dont think i made sense with this post..sounds like rambling , but i'll post nayway

 

Just remember that there's a big difference between swinging and cheating. The trust of your partner, namely.

 

i could probably write a series of books on why i'm totally against cheating, but what's the point? i mean people would still do it anyway...

a lasting, solid and healthy relationship is based on 2 things...love and trust...you fuck up either one and that's it, game over; please insert another coin and try again...and who says you can't learn anything from video games?? lol....

 

no way, cuz i know this guy who cheated and his gf kicked him so hard in the balls that his right testical poped.
i aint takin the chance

dang lol she must of been a nutter, thats fucking harsh though, if a gal done that to me,,,, well, i say no more lol

 

never, ok, well, not anymore.....lol!

 

I dont know of anyone besides my self that hasnt cheated in a relationship. Maybe my mom but not sure.

 

not with my current guy. and we're engaged, so he'll be the only one that touches me sexually for the rest of my life. and i'm 100% fine with that. if he ever cheated on me it would rip my heart out.

 

agreed

 

Define cheating.

 

cheated on my ex bf of 5 years. one night we got in a huge argument and that night i was at the club with some girlfriends of mine and i ended up going home with a black guy. we made out and stuff and when he started to put his cock in my pussy i couldnt do it and i ended up talking about my bf for a long time and getting even madder at him.

i ended up letting the black guy do me in my ass.
my bf never found out about it I did feel really bad about what i did but i cant beat my self up forever.

 

Never have, never will

 

i guess i can also say i never cheated

 

I havee cheated, and I have been cheated on.

Having experienced both sides of it, I can honestly say I would never do it again.

 

+1


I wish I didn't but my first payback was
when it came time I just couldn't get it up thought I wanted to
I guess deep inside of me I knew I was doing something wrong
I felt like shit

don't do it

 

I never have, but always wanted to try it, since I've been cheated on enough, I figure it must be fun...I strongly considered it when my relationship was falling to pieces, but never brought myself to it. Stupid morals, where the hell did I pick those up from anyway???

 

My wife of 24 years and I love each other very much, and are compatible in all other areas of marriage - except sex. Though she says she enjoys it, she has no desire for it, and has refused to see a physician or psychologist to see if there is an underlying physical or mental reason why not, and seek any kind of treatment. Early on she told me if sex meant so much to me, to look for it somewhere else. I have, for twenty years or so now. She knows about it, though not the specifics (who, when, etc), and I have her approval to do so, so I do not consider it cheating.