I'd definitely be picking her brains for information. She's certainly not in a position to judge, and by the sounds of it, both of you have a lot in common!

I'm sure you've tried to play the role of the "good girl" with her - you know, nice respectable woman who would never do that sort of thing etc etc - but she isn't one, and neither are you. You both obviously enjoy being dominant, both are comfortable with your sexuality, and it could actually be a lot of fun to talk it over with her. Obviously, she's not the easily shocked type, and she knows now anyway, so why not take her in confidence?

I'm sure there are a lot of people who would love to have a mature, sexually experienced, open minded female figure to talk things over with. She already knows the worst, so why not turn a negative, embarassing situation, into a positive one?

Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo.

 

Well, you said in a nice way what I said in a more flippant way...but I totally agree.

Nevertheless, I do understand her reluctance. As sexually liberated as MY mother is, I can't imagine my husband talking to HER about what goes on, or might go on, in our bedroom. And I REALLY can't imagine talking to HIS mom about it....

 

Well, when I try to count past my fingers and toes, I'm screwed!!

 

So THAT'S how all those guys seduce you!

 

I dont know....i ripped him a new one for it. so it wont happen again...but still it freaks me out.

 

Huh! No wonder 11 is my lucky number!!!

It will probably feel awkward for awhile, but your dh needed to know how you felt and respect your feelings. And who knows, it might be something you'll both laugh about years down the road.

 

lol sounds like someone is nearly as good at excuses as I am lol and is that a serious offer? Because if it is, and its on a subject im interested in I might take you up on that lol lol if it is pm me

As for the OP: I do feel your pain, my gf has a very VERY close relationship with her mom. So her mom knows EVERYTHING that we have done. Worst was a time like you, we had talked about trying something and they my gf told me how she had talked to her mom about it. I had to go around there the next day for Sunday dinner, and I was sitting next to her mom just thinking about how she knew everything that me and my gf had talked about. Ive never felt so awkward in my life! At least now my gf understands how it made me feel and at least doesnt tell me if she does talk to her mom so I can relax a little more lol :lol:

 

Divorce

 

I don't think its a big deal, if my mother in law was a dominatrix, and my wife asked her about it, I think in the long run I would be happy about it, she could give my wife ideas, and hell, maybe even loan her some things to use to make it even better.

 

".and now thats the image she'll see everytime she thinks of me."
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Is dominatrix the image you always see every time you think of her ?
I really think that you're over reacting, here. Sex should be fun. Stop caring what anybody else thinks. It's not like you're doing anything very unusual.

 

He isn't yet, but he is working very hard on it!

 

anything to do with family + nudity and/or porn/sexuality is a fucking mistake...ugh this sucks lol

 

Yeah, this is a bad situation that's gonna be hard to get out of.
I would say never ever talk to mom-in-law again. Too awkward.