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AR~thank you for sharing. great introspection. and so happy for your seatbelts as well.

also, thank you ML for the thread.

 

Well, Her seatbelt did not function properly, which is why she got injured more badly than I, but thank goodness for survival anyway. I'm more than happy to share my experiences whenever I think they can be helpful to others.

 

This defines it perfectly.

 

That is the perfect defintion.

 

I stand corrected and apologies to all for being so flippant.

What ever dominance and submissiveness is present in my relationship is quite mild and only really manifests itself during sex. My girl dislikes the terms hence my comment about semantics. It has been a very instuctive read.

Thinskin

 

Apologies accepted, thinskin. If you're ever curious, feel free to ask. I will always be passionate about these things, but i'm certainly less bitey when not provoked.

 

for me, Dominance is usualy lettig someone else tell me what to do. I also think it has something to do with being subject to your partner's desires and...involuntry movements, the feeling of thighs clamped on either side of my head during her climax is so very sexy..
careful not to overdo it mind^^

 

i think we can all agree that there is both sexual and non-sexual dominance. if you feel like you have more to share then by all means share, thats what this thread is for.

my pleasure :-H

 

Dominance is a big part our lives...

Only it's the flip side, submission. I was going to reply to this thread the other day when I saw it. I've written several accounts of my lovely wife Janet and my involvement in this lifestyle. I'm speaking sexually and not referring to any other form of submission. I can't relate in a paragraph or in a few comments or enen in a few pages how we've developed and come around. Besides, most people can't relate so that's another reason I didn't comment the other night. Why attempt to respond to a particular thread when people won't take you seriously because they can't relate? It's like pushing a piece of string or trying to herd a cat.

Charlie Sanders

 

Some of us can relate to one another... like many of us in the thread.

I mean, if you can't find someone on the internet to relate to... lol.

Seriously though, this is one of the better threads i've seen on here lately, in my opinion. Hence why i keep coming back.

 

I'll try to share some more when I can, I've been very busy the last few days, and I have a busy weekend coming up too. I'll be back to say more though.

 

My bf and I are both just beginning to experiment with D/s as a sex thing. I like being the sub. I find this thread fascinating. Thank you all for your comments. I hope it continues. :rose::rose:

 

Good luck with D/s and welcome to the thread. It's my opinion that you should consider finding a BDSM based social group near you, if you decide you're ready to.

 

it's like what you said, and what's in your signature don't match... but perhaps i'm missing something.

anyways, if you're starting, the thing to remember is that you don't have to do anything you don't want - play the way that works for you and your partner despite whatever you might hear about something being "the right way" or about a particular relationship being better than others somehow. if you're safe and happy, then whatever your doing is just fine.

 

Agree with what you're saying, but want to clarify that there are certain types of play for which there is a right way, and a way that leads to the hospital. Please be careful out there, but as long as you're playing with levels of risk which you are willing to be responsible for, then go for it!

 

Depraved13, i think one of the most important things to remember in D/s is that its all pretend, you pretend to be your masters sex slave just as he pretends to dominate you. as I said before if you were truly being forced against your will it would be a horrible experience. dont be afraid to say "i absolutely wont do that" safe words are a great way to do this without throwing a wrench into an hours worth of foreplay

 

Thanks! I don't know if we're ready to join a social group yet or even if that's our thing (Who knows?), but just being on this forum is cool. It turns us both on a lot, having people look at us. Neither of us has ever really done anything like this before, both in terms of the thread we started or the bdsm.

If you want to encourage us, here's a shameless plug for our thread. Sorry my cam is not good. We're going to get a new one.

Be sure to actually read our posts. I'll consider it an extra courtesy if you read my long (and uncut...he he) one. :excited:

https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=90471