Sex never really happened for me as a teenager. Wasn't always my first priority. I grew up wanting/looking for a relationship, not looking to get my dick sucked. Now I'm older, I can take a realistic look at it and approach it properly, instead of just jumping into bed with anyone and everyone like kids seem to do these days. I'm just a late bloomer.

 

Well I'm not exactly talking about staying a virgin because I've had sex before. But nowadays I'm more reluctant to "give it up" because

1) I feel restraint demonstrates power. If I just jump into bed with any girl that will "let me", isn't that like someone else making my decisions for me? Fuck that, I'll choose whether or not I want to have sex with you instead of jumping at any opportunity.

2) I"ll opt for quality over quantity. I'd rather pick and choose the right people to have sex with instead of fucking anyone and everyone. I realize you don't necessarily have to choose between the two, but additionally I feel like If I just give it up to anyone it kind of dilutes every other sexual experience I've had. Know what I mean?

 

Well most men wont bring up the topic of being a virgin. Makes you sound like broken goods. But if I was asked I would give a strate answer.

 

It isn't so much a turn off as I would feel bad for taking your innocence.

I can't even spell it right.

 

haha come teach me then

 

The thought of being with a virgin makes me too nervous. Haven't, nor do I ever plan to.

 

I love my sex to much to have a virgin,I like my men knowing what they are doing..

Sorry guys...

 

at the same time though, how are virgins suppose to get experience if no one wants to teach them? it's like finding that first job, no one wants to hire you because you have no previous experience (and I had a hell of a time getting a first job because of that reason alone)....

 

I worry too much that I will get frustrated. I have no patience. I get frustrated with men who aren't virgins, I could not see a virgin making it out alive. Lol

 

whilel I can't speak for other guys, I can only speak for myself...

I have been preparing myself for the grand day of battle against the all mighty vagina.. while I have no prior battle experience, I am confident that when I am staring down at the enemy, the hungry tiger inside of me will be awaken... the sexual demon will break out of me and take his rightful reign in sexual conquest..

in all seriousness, I know that I won't be a red hot stud in bed for the first time.. however I am a very quick learner and I have studied and educated myself on a thing or two.. so I anticipate that I can bring joy... if some gal ever decides to let me try...

 

I wasn't trying to insult of question your natural abilities my friend, just stating that I am rough in bed, especially when I have been any amount of time without sex. My point is that your confidence would be substantially less if you saw what I did to an exs back after a year with no sex. Thank goodness he likes it rough, but he was no where near a virgin, and he could not satisfy me. I'm just difficult.

 

I know, I was just speaking in general terms for myself...

sounds like a challenge to me

 

Haha. Sorry OP, I'll take it back to my bored board. Hope you get the response you want ^_^

 

wow so far male virgins turning you females on is winning by a whole 4 votes.

 

I'm still a male virgin. I just grew up around unhealthy relationships that wouldn't take responsibilities for there actions. A lot of the girls have children now, but they are teenagers not adults. I'm 18 and fresh out of high school


So even though it's more likely to run into someone my age being a virgin I would say it's harder to find the 20-40 year old virgin obviously. I have had blow Jobs and I have had anal, however I look at myself as one. I'm an average weight guy with red hair and hazael eyes. I get hit on all the time, and I do tell them I am a virgin. I've went out with a lot of girls for very long term relationships that were sexually active.

I am a Christian, but I don't fucking care about waiting until i'm married, the reason why I am is because I want a decent relationship that I could never find or someone that I felt comfotable doing it with.

But.....who knows I just thought everyone should know my story lol.

 

ok, so you've had both anal and oral sex and you call yourself a virgin? personally i think that's false advertising. or just plain lying.

 

I do call myself a virgin, that's my choice and I beleive you need to have intercourse vaginally to have it taken away. A lot of people have differnt views on what a virgin is. This is my opinion and I reflect off of it. I would most certainly tell the girl the things I have done if I was asked. I don't false advertise, plus it's not a big deal. I'm a relationship guy, it shouldn't be about what I havn't done. I don't quite understand why you accuse me of lying,:?( I wouldn't have posted anything if I wasn't going to be honest about wanting to tell people about myself and my own view of it.

 

I thought a virgin is someone who is ready to have sex with someone and undergoes it?

 

vir·gin (vûrjn) n. 1. A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.
2. A chaste or unmarried woman; a maiden.
3. An unmarried woman who has taken religious vows of chastity.
4. Virgin The Virgin Mary.
5. Zoology A female insect or other arthropod that produces fertile eggs without copulating



SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
Definition 1: "Sexual intercourse" means vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, fellatio or cunnilingus between persons regardless of sex. Its meaning is limited to persons not married to each other. Penetration, however slight, is sufficient to complete vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse or fellatio and does not require emission of semen. Penetration may be committed by an object manipulated by the actor into the genital or anal opening of the complainant's body.

Definition 2: "Sexual intercourse" means intercourse, real or simulated, whether genital-genital, oral-genital, anal-genital or oral-anal, whether between persons of the same or opposite sex or between a human and an animal, or with an artificial genital.

sexual intercourse Function:noun Date:17991 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis : coitus 2 : intercourse (as anal or oral intercourse) that does not involve penetration of the vagina by the penis

So lowerdoggymasta you are not a virgin as you have had sexual intercourse which is the presequite for losing your virginity.

 

I like the unconfident ones, it brings out my dominating side, I like taking control over them

Plus it's nice knowing I'm the best they've ever had XD