Personally I'm 18 and a virgin male by choice for the same reasons as some others i don't just want meaningless sex I've had opportunity before but turned them down.

 

I like experience and I like experimenting. I don't think I would like teaching, but maybe as an experiment. Maybe not. I like to fuck and I like to suck and be sucked. I don't want someone who is squeamish and I don't like to lie still. No I don't think I would like a virgin.It definitely doesn't turn me on.

 

For me? Three things: shyness, romanticized ideas about love, and attempted molestation by a neighborhood pedo-phile that left me believing my own "lustful" feelings were unhealthy/unsafe to embrace.

Its funny that you say "broken goods". You realize in the past (and even now among some religious folks) they consider themselves "damaged goods" if they aren't able to offer their virginity to their spouse? Ironic.

That put a funny image in my head. Normally, we associate bleeding with a woman's loss of virginity. Sounds like male virgins getting deflowered by you would experience blood loss as well, at the least!

Or self-delusion. There was a great article I read in an underground newspaper about Christian teenagers who were "preserving their virginity"
by only engaging in unprotected anal intercourse. Oh yeah, you're pure as the driven snow. But some people only count it as "sex" if the cock is in the pussy. Thats why a politician can say "I did not have sex with that woman" and be telling the truth, even though she blew him
(and I liked that particular Politician, I just thought the logic was flawed).
See, I think the OP is even of borderline virginity, because of his self-professed skill at fingering pussy. Thats not sex? You were just giving her a "deep tissue massage?"

To all you late-blooming male virgins, my advice to you is: find yourself a MILF. Someone in her 40s or late 30s. By that age she'll probably be so used to being dissappointed by men, that she will have decided the only hope is to start from scratch and hand-train one. And she will know herself well enough to be able to show you exactly what she wants.
Plus, as an added bennefit, she will know your body as well as her's.
One word of warning though - if she offers to show you the ropes, and then leaves the room to get the actual chords she will tie you up with,
you might want to think twice.

 

This is to generalized, it all depends on the guy.

 

That was one of the main reasons why my now gf liked me. she didnt care i was a virgin and she thought it was well cool because she got to be the first for me

 

Honestly for me it depends on the guy.
If he is confident, and isn't afraid to get rough. Then him being a virgin is irrelevant.

If he is a virgin because he is waiting on marriage, then thats a turn off. I respect their decision to wait, but I have needs.

 

I've made a promise to myself and save myself....



by never admitting.

 

I've never had a male virgin before, but know of one special one here I would love to break in! I'd be gentle. :-E

 

I've never had the chance

I joined the Marines when I was 17 to help my Mom and Dad out and havent ben in the country sence then...help me plez

 

screw iraqi women (the burquas might be a problem, because you might be getting a heffer, but you can't afford to be picky) or screw a guy from your squad and blackmail him into secrecy.

easy!

 

"I joined the Marines when I was 17"

Wow...shows what I know. I thought joining the military and getting sent overseas was a guaranteed way to lose your virginity? Or do you have to be a sailor on shore leave? Hasn't that always been an inherent problem for the armed forces for hundreds (thousands) of years...trying to keep their troops from contracting diseases from the local "entertainers?"

Also, times are different than they used to be. Soldiers aren't all male, and Iraq is filled with civilian contractors. Maybe it depends on where you are, but I've heard from friends over there who describe a fair amount of hooking up going on. But obviously, the females who are there are a small
percentage, and would have their pick of many interested guys.