Maybe but she wouldnt go for it

 

Thank you. I also agree that it's a fantasy for more men than we might think.

That's extremely hot, especially being able to watch her with two guys at once. Do you ever participate, or do you just enjoy watching? You're a lucky man to be able to be in a secure relationship where the sharing works out.

 

This brings up an interesting question. I myself am bi, but I'm betting most of the people responding "yes" to this poll or others who enjoy the idea of sharing their gf/wife with another man are completely straight. For those of us who like this sort of thing, what exactly IS the attraction? What is it that we like about seeing our significant other with another man/men? I have my own ideas and opinion, of course, but I'd love to hear what others have to say.

 

i want to give it a try but it would have to be with a total strainger or some one els for who there could never be any perminant ties

but dont realy know why

 

no, her pics only

 

I have this fantasy and I'm not bi - but I don't get freaked t by the sight of another cock, but that's because I'm secure enough in who I am.

Basically, I think my wife is an amazingly beautiful and sexy woman and it turns me on to think that others would feel the same way if given the chance. It's also a giving fantasy - I love to please her more than even being pleased myself, so I'd love to see her get all that attention and sexual pleasure. Also, in my fantasies, she is entirely in control of me and the other guy, which is extremely hot.

 

yes in deed

 

I would, but there would be boundaries, I would have to insist on directing the second cock, and I would definitely involve myself. To me, sex is just as much about the attention as the physical. Now, I'm Bi curious, but haven't really mentioned it to her yet, so I look forward to lightly testing the possibilities, which probably has a great deal to do with my motivations here. On the other hand, and at the same time, its just the thought that she will enjoy such pleasure, excitement and attention (and I know the dirty little closet succumbus would like it all!) that I can't possibly give her as just one cock (but still being the one "giving" it to her) that phys, ment, emot, excites me the most.

With the consideration I've given this in contemplating a first time experience, I also think that it's more about you and your partners own (in)securities, love and the ability and willingness to divide attention unevenly during the experience, devoting a considerable portion to your partner...

But Yeah maybe I'm thinking too much on this and, as many have said, finding the right guy/couple IS such a bitch. Any cool ones around here in the US area between DC and Richmond, VA, feel free to send a message. Surprised there isn't more of a community for this kinda "help" on the xnxx forums (Don't bother mentioning Personals, it seems to be more a hot dog joke then any real communication forum).

My new favorite thread! Sorry if that came out kinda emo, but I guess i was speaking more from a long term relationship standpoint, which involves feelings I'm a softy, mostly bark with a little nibble

 

Men never miss what their wife's or girlfriends give away

 

great discussion

this is great discussion - I had a feeling most men like this (and the poll is a strong yes so far - so that means men want it or the men in this forum are different

For me - and I think I said it - it is like watching a real life porn with my wife in it (when I get a chance to watch), when I am just told about what happens, or she shows me photos/video - it is also a turn on to think that guys are hot for my wife, and I think she gets a kick as it validates her attractiveness, plus it makes our one on one sex sessions very hot.

 

The idea of it as a giving fantasy is what does it for me as well. I know that my girlfriend enjoys fantasizing about being with two men at once and, when we watch porn together, the dp scenes seem to turn her on the most. The idea of other men wanting her that much, and the idea of her receiving that much sexual pleasure is a huge turn-on for me as well. I can't even begin to tell you how much I agree with you that having her be in control of the two (or more) guys would be incredibly hot.

This is very well-articulated. I particularly like/agree with this sentiment:

"its just the thought that she will enjoy such pleasure, excitement and attention (and I know the dirty little closet succumbus would like it all!) that I can't possibly give her as just one cock (but still being the one "giving" it to her) that phys, ment, emot, excites me the most."

For me, this is what it's all about--being able to give her that gift of pleasure and excitement of being with multiple partners. Of course, my guilty pleasure is in wanting to watch her enjoy it, and in enjoying watching her get off.

I agree that this is a great discussion, and I hope that it continues. I'm pretty much a voyeur myself, so the idea of sharing with another man as being sort of like a real-life porn scene makes a lot of sense to me.

It sounds like you and your wife have struck a great balance between sharing and also being in a committed relationship. Congratulations.

 

My wife and I have done it with other people before! We love it. We are trying to get a buddy of mine to fuck her, but he wont yet. She has kissed him and jacked him off though,but I wasnt there. Dammit!!!

 

I would definately be willing to share her as long as it was with someone that we knew and were comfortable with. We have talked about it and have been looking for someone but unfortunately no luck so far.

 

no but i would let her be in a solo video

 

not a chance

 

Have done it before, will do it again.

Last two girls I dated were nymphos. First one,I conditioned her mind to crave cum. Second one was just horny all the time. I was out of town a lot during both relationships, so I gave them permission to find other guys to fuck them.

The first one found a few guys to satisfy her cum craving. She sucked them and let them fuck her without a condom on. She was very happy and thankful.

The second one turned to a few of the guys she had been fucked by in the past. She got fucked like crazy whenever she wanted. I also had a MFM with her and my best friend. It was so hot to watch another guy fuck her and then watch her take his cum in her mouth as I fucked her.

So yeah, it's a lot of fun.

 

First post (new to these forums!) "Hi!"

First off, I voted "Yes" -- the idea of my girl being with another man is a complete turn on for me.

Bit of history, I'm 31 and my girl is 23. We have been together for 4 years and got engaged just over 2 years ago, we are to be married in a few years.

I am very much into the idea of her being with others, be it men or women. It's the voyeur in me. My girl, on the hand is not into it at all.

She knows I have this fantasy, I am very honest with her and share even the most intimate of fantasies with her. She views it as this, if I'm with her, and her with me, then that should be enough. If we wanted to be with other people, why would we be together?

I would tend to agree with her, If I wanted to be with someone else, but I don't want to be. I enjoy the idea of someone else able to pleasure her in ways that I can't. The thought of her swallowing another man's cum while I watch or even if I wasn't there and she told me what she had got up to while she was away.. mmmm, that would be so hot!

I agree with the post about it being like a "real life porn" -- the porn I enjoy is with blondes, and guys with huge cocks, and I imagine my girl is in it, with someone else.

She has told me in no uncertain terms, it won't happen. She doesn't want anyone else than me, and if she woke one day and wanted to be with someone else, then she would leave me, to save me from being hurt. I suppose I should be happy, safe in the knowledge that she won't be unfaithful, but when your fantasy is for her to stray it's hard not to feel as if something is missing.

 

I'll bet you loved hearing her tell you all about jerking him off though, didn't you?:excited:

Finding the right guy or guys is the most difficult part, I think.

That's an extremely hot post; you're a very lucky guy.

Congratulations on your first post and welcome to the forum.

I'm sorry that your fiancee is so opposed to the possibility of sharing. On the plus side, at least you have the kind of relationship in which you feel comfortable sharing such a fantasy with her. Maybe she'll come around.

When I read your last sentence: "I suppose I should be happy, safe in the knowledge that she won't be unfaithful, but when your fantasy is for her to stray it's hard not to feel as if something is missing" it really makes me think. While I totally agree with you, it also makes me realize how many (if not most) men would find such a sentiment impossible to understand, if not downright "sick." I'm not sure how to reach such people other than by trying to expand the conventional definition of sexuality.

In any case, welcome to the forum, and thank you for an honest and thought-provoking first post.

 

Yes!

I would love to share my wife, with many guys. But only guys we approve of. Have shared another guys wife with him several times and even got to meet with her alone at my place. Was only sexual. She was amazing and I even enjoyed watching him fuck her and getting sucked while I fucked her. I just want my wife to enjoy other cocks while I watch her being pleasured and satisfying another man. Maybe I'd even join in. She could do anything she wanted with him. Eventually, I'd love to let her go home alone with him for the night and come home to me in the morning so I could clean his loads out of her. Maybe a little kinky, but turns me on. Enjoy!

 

depends on my wife. If she wants it i will share and may even watch, if she allows me