What is the "guy code" when it comes to blow jobs? I'm talking heterosexual here.......Would a guy pretty much accept a BJ from any reasonably attractive female who offered-regardless of his/her relationship status?

Reason I ask is: I have this overwhelming desire to suck my neighbor's cock. I've had this little crush on him since he moved in 2 years ago, and while in reality I do NOTHING about this (we're both married, after all, and our young kids all play together) if I ever got the opportunity, and expressed my desire, I'm wondering what the chances are of him going along.

I'm not a vain person, but I'd say I'm as attractive (or more so in some areas) than his wife, (I'm sporting 38DDD while his wife is your average B/C ); he and my husband have become buddies, and on Friday nights it typically ends up being me, hubby & Mr Neighbor in the garage shooting darts, having a few drinks.......and since hubby is basically a Puritan, I'd have to find some errand for him to go do.

Anyway, how receptive are you when it comes to someone wanting to suck you off, and nothing else? I mean, is there any reason to turn down a "no strings attached" GOOD blow job?

Thanks for helping a girl out.

 

it depends on what kind of sex life he has with his wife at home. If she does not like to give him the same pleasure that you seem willing to, he will take it without question. Id say try and get him to open up about his relationship with his wife and whether or not hes satisfied if your really wanting to do this.

Before you do this, look at your family and decide whether giving this man a blow job is worth compromising your family or his, and remember of how things can go so wrong.

 

I will accept a blow job from any reasonably attractive female...with one exception. That is, I would never allow a friend/family member's wife/gf to blow me without the consent of the friend/family member. Considering the circumstances you described, the stakes are high and you might be flirting with danger. I'd say you better make sure he'd be receptive to this prior to making any overt moves.

And that's the tricky part.

 

A few years back I had a long stretch between sex, a good 16 months. I was at a party and this one chick and I got to talking. I told her about how I hadnt had shit done in a long time. 40 minutes later she is blowing me in her Durango. She was not pretty. I just wanted my dick sucked that was all. If you really really need to blow your neighbor, make sure both him and your hubby have had a shit load to drink and pass out in the garage, then blow him. Its not like he will know. You get what you want and its your own little secret.

 

This really depends on the guy. I can't speak for your neighbour. You know him better than us.

I think most of us would strongly consider it in the correct setting from an attractive female, but we do have moral codes and concern for disease, getting it bit off, etc, which makes us a bit apprehensive about jumping into getting oral. Honestly, I'm opposite most guys, I'd be more likely to perform it than receive it.

 

He must be mad to turn down a BJ...if you ever do offer it of course

 

Thanks for the input. *sigh* More than likely, this is something that would never happen, but it sure makes for some good late night "thoughts...." :excited:

I wish my husband were more open to things-we could have a lot of fun.

And he'd have to be conscious when I do it-the biggest turn on for me is seeing (well, and feeling) the effects of a good BJ. I don't want to rape him or anything....lol. I want him to want it.

 

interesting

just some thoughts

well first as a guy I would be skeptical that it would be just for the bj and nothing more. You'd really have to be convincing, if I was a guy who was looking for just something physical.

And maybe you may not want any ties but perhaps he would want more.

Mostly likely both or one of u would want tis more & more, and I can't help but see it go further. And if it does ur chances of getting caught will increase and that would ruin everything,

With kids /family/ perhaps a happy marriage on the line
I would suggest NOT doing it, just try working on improving relations with ur husband. I'm a little ignorant to the Purtian thing??? they don't have oral??
Shoot u start sucking one of ur husbands morning rockets, I'd like to see him try to stop you.

just my 2¢

 

I have accepted bj's from a few select women. I have even had a great glory hole experience. If you are attractive as you say I know that I would probably jump at the chance. Gl and be careful if u decide to go through with this.

 

Suicide may be your only option.

 

i personally wouldnt do it, but having friends who have or would, i would say its all a matter of how you truly feel about it, both good and bad, weighing the options and believeing that you're your own sexuality.

 

I know I wouldn't accept a blowjob from you. I'm married and faithful and your neighbour might have the same reaction. If you make a move you risk ruining the good neighbourly relationship you guys have, without saying that you might lose much more...
You would be better off trying to convince your husband to be a bit more open minded in bed with you, have you talked about your lack of satisfaction with him?

 

You're better off staying faithful...I mean, you did pledge to be just that, right?

This is why we have 50% divorce rates. People don't talk over their problems and just go find the BBD (bigger better deal) to fill some void.

Wise up, folks.

 

Stop being a stupid bitch and suck your own husbands dick. This is a exact reason why you females are treated like stupid sluts.... Oh wait you are.....

 

ok first off i would say keep your thoughts to yourself just because you dont want to create drama between family and friends.

second i know i love a good blow job and my girlfriend and i are very open and she would love to watch, but thats a different situation.

also something to think about, i always get so turned on by getting my cock sucked that after about 5 mins i just want to return the favor and get into it, its hard for me to just lay back without wanting to have sex.

but that could be just me.

anyway hope that helped a little good luck, hes a lucky guy

 

It's tricky.

I would approach him, alone, and tell him honestly. Put your cards on the table. The likelyhood is probably high with the success rate of marriages today, that he'll accept. Because it's common with married couples to get complacent and allow their sex lives to wither up after the sexual relationship is no longer 'new'. The problem however, is that he might want more than you're willing to give. So you need to be prepared to deal with that.

If you were to approach me, I'd decline at first. I'd also talk about it with my wife and see what she thought about it. We've discussed things like having a three-way so I know she wouldn't storm over and yell at you about it. If nothing else... it's a flattering gesture that you'd want to suck my dick.

Your choices are to approach him and maybe cause friction with their family and potentially put your marriage in danger. Or hold onto your fantasy.

 

Our survey says.....

...if he has a good opportunity, with no risk of being caught, and you make yourself very clear about what you want...he'll go for it. 90% probability. Guys are easy.

But you have to make it clear that this is just a fling...that you don't want to get into any kind of heavy-duty affair or anything, you just want to suck his dick.

And as others have said, things CAN go wrong. Do you really want to risk it? Is it worth it?

 

OK... you want to know the "guy code". In this case, the married man "guy code or rules" so here it is:
1) You don't fool around with your wife's friends, relatives or someone she knows.
2) You don't fool around with someone that works at the same place your wife does.
3) You don't fool around with someone that might know you wife
4) You don't fool around with someone in your own neighborhood (let alone someone next door).

So there it is. For a married man to break these basic rules, if he is going to cheat (whatever you consider cheating to be) then he runs the high risk of substantial problems. And it is more devastating for the women if she finds out it was someone that she knows who was cheating with her husband.

 

Never shit where you eat, or vice versa. Neighbor/friend a little too close to home. In todays housing market not that easy to sell your home when things go awry. Nothing worse than living next door to a neighbor that hates you...his wife will have a problem with you and your husband will have a problem with him. Not worth it, but only my opinion.

 

personally ive never had or witnessed any intimate act of any nature that really had 'no strings attached' there always seems to be something