im currently 18 and a virgin.

i was waiting for the time to be right with a girl for 2 and a bit years. then found out a couple of weeks ago that she wasn't that interested in me and only kept in touch incase she screwed up with this other guy.

i broke it off by txt because thats all she deserved. im now trying to think of ways to get back at her. i want my two years back. any suggestions or any help with how i can move forward from this situation ?

 

Revenge will not help, young sir.

Life moves on, and so should you. You are only eighteen; you cannot envisage the time ahead of you.

Take the higher path. Shrug, and move on, and chalk it up to experience gained. Try to move past anger, resentment, and bitterness. They are not worthwhile emotions.

 

What did you wait 2 years for? Was she under age?
You're pretty dumb to wait 2 years for anything especialy if it might not even happen!!!

You the nerd guy that secretly is in love with the pretty girl that thinks your trash? You have a shrine to her in your bedroom? You have a lock of hair from her head that you snuck in her house to take from her bathroom sink?

And now you want to get back at her? Fucken grow up!!!! Stalker!!!

 

Just let it go and don't take the hurt into the next relationship.

I'm sorry that you were with someone like that. She will probably end up with someone that will treat her like dirt if that helps you any.:rose:

 

i dont know why i waited that long to be perfectly honest. she went on holiday with a couple of guys from work for two weeks in spain not that long ago, i trusted her not to do anything, but then the tell tale photos came up on facebook. they were more than a bit revealing. thats what brought it all about. so you're right i guess i am pretty stupid.

so now i ask how can i avoid this happening again, i've already wasted 2 years i really dont want this to happen again.

 

Ask a girl out on a date, don't jut stalk her from the bushes!!!
If your romantically interested in her, don't accept being in "The friends zone". If that's where she wants to put you move on!!!! Don't rape her!!!

 

Anger and jealousy will only breed more hate.

Don't worry about her.
She's obviously not the one to take your virginity.

So, just wait for the next girl to come along, and then blow her fucking mind with the best orgasm she's ever had... Research that shit, stay on here, ask the XNXX women how to please a woman, read through these forums...
And then, if you ever see her again, you won't need to worry that she's a wretched bitch.
:excited:

 

Good answer!

Meow! Hear me purrrrrr!:rose:

 

just let go honey, someone out there would be more than happy to pop your eherm, hotdog...

 

There is no reset button

I know you're bitter and resentful right now. But as much as its a cliche', its also true that good things are worth waiting for. And losing your virginity to someone who actually cares about you is a very good thing.

One thing about your story makes me wonder though. You broke up with her by text message - have you talked to her at all? Are you absolutely sure that what you heard about her was true? Was your source reliable?
I'm just wondering...it sounds like you're better off out of the relationship.

As far as "im now trying to think of ways to get back at her. i want my two years back. any suggestions or any help with how i can move forward from this situation ?" Yeah, I have a suggestion. Drop any idea of "vengeance" because its the opposite of moving forward - its dwelling on the negative, letting yourself stew in your own anger. Anything you could do would probably harm you as much as her, just in a different way. I don't know if you believe in Karma, but things do have a way of balancing out in the end, and she will likely be treated the same way herself.

Theres really nothing you can do to get back the time you lost. Sorry.
Unless you can invent a time machine. If you manage that, please let me
know, because I want back the like eight years I wasted on my ex-wife (some of the best years of my life!) :wall: So, I sympathize.

Probably the best way to move forward is to try to meet someone else.
Recognizing that now that you're 18, theres really no good reason to wait
and you shouldn't have any trouble finding a horny young woman your own age who will want you as soon as possible.

 

Um...whoa Em, a little bit harsh, don't ya think? You're assuming a lot.

 

Maybe, but I have had my share of distant admirers that thought WAY more was going on than it was, and when they figured out they weren’t my BF like they though they should be, they got very mean!!
I thinking this girl for sure didn’t have the feeling this guy had, and probably didn’t know he felt that way. So for him to want to “get back at her” doesn’t seem good no matter what!!!

 

. I think you are here for pity sex. I don't know whether to beat your ass for being so idiotic or lick your wounds young one.hehe.

 

someones a little conceded

 

someone seems a little conceded.... you probally just led them on

 

Yeah you're probably right.

So you think maybe he should kidnap her, scare the shit out of her, rape her for a few hours, and then leave her naked tied to the goal post at his highschool for everyone to see?

 

If its your fantasy to be tied to a goal post at a highschool after getting fucked I'll do it and be gentle to not scare you

 

just move on whilst you still obsess over her she still has a grip on you

 

Unless you have a committed relationship with someone of the opposite sex you should look for opportunities to date other people.

That advice, alas, is easier to give than to receive.

As far as vengeance is concerned, this girl never owed you anything.

 

Huh