I have been made an offer by my girlfriends cousin, she offered to meet me on Friday to fuck like crazy rabbits. She is by all accounts smoking hot... She is one of the most beautiful women you will ever see. Its just sex, a bit of fun. I love my gf and we get along well but we got together young and I have not had a huge amount of sexual conquests although I have slept with more than one women. I often wish to fuck someone else because I just want a variety and this stems from being together so young. I am faithful, very faithful but I really want to have some fun. There is a 95% chance we wont get caught and it will be a one time thing since the cousin is in a long term relationship too. I would just like advice from someone who has had experience in this.

 

TRAP TRAP TRAP!!!!!!! Your Gf is probably trying to test to see if your going to be faithful. Something similar happened to my cuzin, but instead of the girl's cuzin it was her best friend. DON'T DO IT!!!




Unless it is definent that you will hit that......Good Luck!!!!!

 

It is definite, her cousin likes sex a lot. And it started out one nyt i was drunk I said to her I find her really attractive and she said well get off work early on friday and we can do something about it. but i forgot we spoke of that cause i was so smashed. Yesterday she calls me up and reminds me about it. So it was started by me and she has carried it on.

 

Yeah don't do it man, it will fuck everything up, and it sounds too good to be true man.. just stay with your girl

 

I understand how it seems too good to be true but her and my gf are not close cousins. They get along. When she contacted me I had let the situation blow over cause i thought no its too good to be true. But she came back and on to me. There is hardly any chance I can get caught and this is a once in a life time opportunity

 

fuck it do it then ur already telling us ur going to and want to say why ask for an opinion

 

Isn't that a bit of a contradictory sentence right there?

If you are faithful, stick to your word and don't have sex with your Girlfriends cousin.

If you are wanting a bit of "fun" like you said, then tell your girlfriend you want some. The worst she can do is put it off for a while. The best she can do is fuck your brains out. A win/win situation, wouldn't you agree?

 

How fun will it be for your girlfriend? I don't care how smoking hot this cousin is, keep it in your pants and stay faithful.

 

You know as I was typing some of the replies I was like fuck I already made my decision haven't I.

 

i want to experience it with someone else...

 

Well then you are not "faithful" then are you..

Go have sex with your girlfriends cousin, by all means, but please refrain from coming back for advice when you get caught out. 'Cos the entire board will most likely say "I told you so".

If you want to experience fun with somebody else, the decent thing to do would be to split up with your girlfriend and to tell her that you're getting bored of the relationship. Be a man, tell her, to prevent all sorts of shit happening.

 

a dilly of a pickle

 

i am a clean cut person. I can do this without anyone besides me and the cousin knowing. And just like the entire world is built on lies and deceit. So can I have a bit of fun. By no means wud I wanna be with this cousin in a relationship. I am happy wit my girl. But I just want to have some fun. Just a bit of one time fun.

 

Stop calling it fun, it's cheating, plain and simple!

 

Yeah ur right.

 

There's never just a 'slim' chance someone's gonna find out there partner is cheating...believe me...my best friends bf cheated on her with a girl she never even talked to....the first time my friend saw him since then she knew something was different and the day after that girl met up with her and told her what happened.

Chances are you gf will find out and you should hope you're lucky enough she takes you back....if not she can screw up all future potential relationships by letting everyone know your a cheating bastard, cause thats what I would do....but not all girls may be as revengful as me lol.

 

Well you've clearly made your mind up considering not once have you agreed with any reason not to be a cheating bastard. All this thread seems to be is you showing off the fact you have a chance with, what you call, a smoking hot girl. So go and be unfaithful, have your little "fun".

You, like many others, give men a bad name.

 

I love how men quantify their rationalizations. Don't worry. I do it too in moments of weakness. 95% chance eh? What you are really saying is you are hoping nobody will find out since both people in this fuck session will have something to lose if they "fuck and tell". Like another person posted, people will find out. For nearly all people, sex changes the whole dynamic of how those involved react to each other. Somebody will notice the subtle changes in demeanor, or attitude, and start to ask questions. Eventually they will put two and two together and when you least expect it, hit you with it.

You are 95% chance headed for a world of hurt, dude. I love numbers. Laugh.

If you and your girlfriend had a more open relationship of the sexual nature then this might be ok - as long as everybody knew. But it takes time to find these things out usually. And even more time to make sure all the involved people know and are ok with it.

Be a man and tell your girlfriend about it and how you turned your girlfriend's cousin down. But I suspect it's already too late to do that since you no longer have plausible deniability. Me thinks the numbers are going to come back and bite your sorry ass.

 

It will eventually blow your current relationship out of the water. Don't do it, yet.

 

Well you're clearly not happy in your relationship or you wouldnt even be thinking of doing it - so (1) talk to your gf about livening up your sex life, or (2) be a man and do it - but not like a snake behind your gfs back - tell her what you're gonna do and why and at least then you're not being a dishonest butt fuck