So, I've known for a while that, to some extent, that I'm bi. I mean, I'd much rather see a woman stripping in front of me than a man, yet I do get the uncontrolable urge for a cock. This is not my problem by far. My friends know that I'm mainly bi-curious and that I did once make out with my best friend [who was a girl]. Again, this is not my problem. It's just that I've been noticing lately that I have been becoming more attracted to girls than I was before. Not to say that I'm a leasbian now, just that I think I've solitified my bi-ness. I'm okay with this and was debating telling one of my friends before I realized something; I think I may be attracted to her. I'm not completely sure if I am though. She's a GREAT friend and I doubt she feels the same way [though she is bi] and at times I feel almost strange that I've ever thought about her in a relationship/sexual nature. But then at other times I can just see me being with her.

I don't know what exactly I should do, if I should do anything at all. So, I'm asking all of you. Should I do anything about this or just push it to the back of my mind?

 

well if i was you id wait till you guys are drunk then hit on her or throw some hints at her ....and if shes like grossed out about it...Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol

 

I guess you have to think about whether the possibility of losing her as a friend is worth it. Not saying that if she isn't into you that way and you let her know that you are, that you'll lose her as a friend but there's always that possibility.

 

Maybe you just need to buy her a strap on so u dont have to worry about nothing.

 

You are at the age of experimentation...don't sweat it girl!
The adult female brain is not completely formed until age 21 anyhow. This influences greatly your sexuality.
Come back in five years or so, and then tell us how you feel.

 

I don't think that I'd lose her as a friend. She dated a friend of ours in high school and she's still friends with her. I think what makes me so nervous is just that it's new to me, the thought of actually being with someone who isn't a guy

 

Just fuck her.....and enjoy it.

 

:excited:

 

Sometimes you just need to say ''FUCK IT'' and do it.:excited:

 

Blimey Waf.....

How patient can a man be?

 

I, too, think you should throw caution to the winds and tell her how you feel, or how you THINK you feel. These days it's not all that much of a novelty, and I doubt that she'll react too violently. And if she's REALLY a good friend, you'll be able to talk freely about it without it harming your relationship.

 

I agree with Kimiko, with the added bit that if she is attracted to you, once you've explained how you feel, she might help you explore those feelings a bit further, so to speak.

 

If you're really close friends you might just be able to be honest and talk about it... If she's interested or just curious you might be able to see what happens, take things very slowly... if not hopefully your friendship will be strengthened by your ability to be honest

 

'Hmmm... Puts 'me; in a pickle

:excited:.......this puts my pickle on HIGH ALERT!!! Just let her see your other thread... She'll fall for you - worked for me anyway!!!

 

LOL

 

wish i was there baby we could have grate fun