My gf is mad at me cause i asked her to delete some of her exes photos fron her phone and she says why should she so we been fighting over this i mean am i wrong here?

 

Yes. In a word.

 

No. Why are they necessary to keep?

 

How so

 

honestly..its something called trust in her...if ur not gonna allow her to keep some pics of her ex then obviously theres something not right..i mean its not like shes gonna do anything with her ex..its just pictures..shes not doing nothing unless u see her sending pics to him or something..just chill

 

in one hand you are perfectly right but in the other you are dead wrong if you trust her.... and thats why she is so pissy about it cuz in her mid you asking her to delete the pics of her ex is somewhat of an act od distrust. for the sake of your relationship admit your wrong because if it gets dragged out not only could it come back to haunt you but you could also loose her over it too depending on her level of bitchyness

 

if be pissed too if i wasn't allowed to have memories...

 

It is her phone ... what you are asking is tantamount to asking her to throw away a photo album.

And really, why should you be so insecure? She's YOUR girlfriend now. Own that shit.

 

Im mad cause she asked me to delete mines and i happily did it but when i asked her she refused to

 

Depends what the pics are

If they are naughty pics then yes she should get rid of them if they are just normal pics the same as she would have of other friends then no she should be allowed to keep them

 

He's right....

....he's right...although she would have to understand that just SEEing such pics might/would piss me off. Let me put if another way.... I've never met the guy, but if even HALF of what my wife tells me is true, I would visit upon her ex-husband a fate worse than death, and may not even feel guilty "after the fact". That being said, she (my wife) still showed signs in behavior of physical abuse when we met. Innocently I would move or jerk suddenly and she would jump as if I was about to smack her.

To make matters worse, she once said that he's shorter than I am and has a little dick.

 

Maybe you should have given your phones to each other. Then you could blissfully delete each other's past.

Did she say she would, and has now backed out of her promise? That would be something I'd find unacceptable.

 

no

not at fucking all dude. i had to deal with that ex boyfriend shit too and its all bullshit. shes not with her ex for a reason why does she need his pictures? does she still have feelings for him? you have all the right to be mad about that. i quarantee if you had pics of your ex she wouldnt have that shit for a minute. put your foot down dude.

 

You boys seems so bossy and insecure.

 

ok

so say were dating. you find a bunch of pics of my ex gf on my phone. would you REALLY be cool with that? if you asked me to get rid of them and i refused? what would you think?

 

wow..thats a bunch of bull..i have pics of a few my ex gfs and the ones ive dated and had them around they didnt give a damn about my ex gf's pictures on my phone..hell i even have pics of one of my ex's in a picture frame and everything and they still didnt give a damn its just damn pictures!! gawd if shes telling u to delete pics of ur ex and u KNOW u aint doing shit with them and ur asking her to do the same and she WONT do it? damn u guys have major trust issues..seriously talk it out with each other...and as far as other guys saying that hes not wrong..if u cant trust or even believe each other in the relationship then obviously ur gonna fight over a lot of things over and over again and honestly thats not a great relationship..get on the same damn page with each other and ull be fine..end of discussion!

 

and oh..if u dare to bash me on here or thru my inbox dont bother...ive been thru a bunch of bullshit relationships and i know what im talking about..

 

I doubt anyone here could give you a good answer, because there's no way we can really know what has really happened.

If what has happened is problematic to you, I would suggest seriously considering if the relationship is one you want to continue. Fuck 'right' or 'wrong'; if the two of you have differing views on something like that, just ask yourself if it's worth it. Jealousy is for the birds - whether there's cause for it or not.

NO ONE here can tell you what you should work out with her. I can understand your request. But at the same time, did you really "ask", or did you "demand"? And did she get mad simply because you "asked", or was it because of how you responded when she replied that she would rather not?

Screw right or wrong. Just see if you can reach an acceptable conclusion, and if not.... well; I hope the sex is good.

 

dont worry if its that you cant trust her, this has nothing to do with trust. she should do it out of sheer respect for you. why does she need memories if shes got you? and if she made you delete yours and shes not doing the same thats the right time to say fuck you honestly...dont take that shit.

 

All this is the biggest load of bollox. How can anyone ask someone to forget there past. Delete the things that bring the memories back is wrong (unless YOU chose to forget them) How can it be you don't like her to have pic's of her ex but you come on a site like this. Your issue is not her or the pic you need to be happy with your self (you can see your not or it wouldn't be a prob)