and to add to my previous statement.. there'd be no porn industry and xnxx won't be so popular if couples always had things perfectly in bed

 

just don't ask her and she will come begging you

 

I've been married twice, separated by a six months gap on my own before I met my second wife. My first wife probably married me for security and a loving family life, but I don't think she ever really wanted sex, except in later years, as a way to get pregnant. Frustrating, because she looked fantastic and had a stunning come-hither look about her.
I think she needed a more mature, seductive person than me. In the end, she went and found one.
So if that is your problem - grow up fast!
Gentle, relaxed talk, meals, wine and cuddles were not enough for me to turn wife 1 on. After we split, she said I should have been forceful, ( I could never do that.)
So if that is your problem, grab her and be firm.

To illustrate how different women are, my second wife and I have had 20+ years of fantastic sex. I sometimes drop a hint, but just as often she grabs me and initiates sex.

So maybe your third option is to find a replacement woman who wants you for the right reason. And make sure you are sexually compatible before getting married.
Sorry!

 

Just keep masturbating till she asks.

 

Tell your wife that you didn't get married so you could not get pussy any more. Tell her that either you get to bang her, you get to bang other women, or you get a divorce.

 

I see you like to earn that 'bad boy" title.

 

I feel the same way others did. If she constantly has to fight you off, there's no way she'll develop any lust at all.

 

I have never begged and never would. I agree with the majority here. Slow down a little bit. Unless there is a problem on her end she will get horny and come around soon (hopefully).

 

that is tough

 

basically, people don't change. Either get used to it or get another woman.