Hey guys just a question to see what your views are.
I met this gorgeous girl whos nice sexy and rich as, which is strange im just a ordinary joe blow, problem is i can easily take her to bed shes liked me for a while now eg.( sends me messages saying she misses me nearly every second day). Problem is id love to take her to bed but she wants a relationship and i dont for a while because i recently got out of one and i know if i do take her to bed and not start something more serious with her it will hurt her and im not a real big fan or doing that to girls like this shes a proper girl and has only had sex once Should i keep my distance? or tell her how i feel bout it all?

 

Contrary to popular belief bedding someone isnt the end all be all of life as i can tell you know by now. Jst be honest with her. Explain your situation...which will also explain our sightly standoffish ness. Then go from there...If you do end up going to bed enjoy each other for as long as you can. gl man

 

Just tell her how you feel about it. Then if she still wants to hit on you and bone you, then you can't say that you didn't let her know. Well... keep telling her afterwards if she keeps being all over you. So you know that she's aware. After

 

Sorry! It posted before I finished haha

I was gonna say that After that, it's up to her what she wants to do.

 

Sounds like fork in the road on one side money and sex on the other feelings and relationship. Personally I would just tell her im not ready for a relationship just to keep it real. Its all in how you speak to her, say the right things and shes still going to want to fuck you. This way you let her know your intent and still keep her, the money, and sex as a bonus

 

If she's rich you could always whore yourself out to her and make some money.

 

Technically, I'm a female, but I feel compelled to offer my two-cents worth. If you just got out of a relationship, then you definitely don't want to go rushing into anything too soon. And if you think she's really cute, and if there's even the slightest chance of there being something there, definitely don't sleep with her. You should let her know what all is going on for you. Let her know you think she's cute, and you wouldn't mind screwing her brains out, but you also don't want to hurt her because you aren't an asshole like that. You just want to let her know what all is going on, and get her perspective and opinion on it. It is either one of two things: A) she is wanting to just have sex, or B) she is wanting a relationship. If it's A, then you don't have a problem really. If it's B, then you could have a problem. If it is B, just let her know that as of right now you are not specifically looking for a relationship. You would really like to be friends. And if over time that turns into something, then great. But if not, no harm done. I hope it works out for you.

 

Serious question- at least you are taking the time to think about it. I'm sure you'll come to the right decision.

 

shouldn't!

 

yeah u should

 

go for it

 

maybe you should get to know her a little better,,,,you never know she could be the one and you could end up passing her bye
i havent been able to establish any real long term relationships because of work and travel and living in crazy places, wish i had a steady girl
so think of it like that,,,she could be a real keeper

 

I agree with GW

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should

 

Thanx everyone its good to get your opinions its a tricky one

 

+1

Everything I would have said, only more cohesive.

 

i very much agree with dalia on this as i just got out of a ten year relationship and its tearing my insides out just talk and see if she still feels the same way

 

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do watcha gotta do... Either go for it, or don't... Either you want her as bad as she wants you, or you don't... Is there really that much to think about?