i hate being on top
but i know how much guys like
n i really want to enjoy it
i feel like i dont know what i am doing
like i know how to suck a cock
i am great at it
but when i get on top
i get nervous
n i feel unsexy

i know it sounds stupid
but do have any tips
or ways to make me feel more comfortable while i am doing it

 

The great thing about a girl being on top is that you control how deep you go and how fast.

If you sit on his cock you can go up and down or just move your hips around.

It is a great view for a guy especially when the girls tits are bouncing around. If your fella has asked you to do it then it is because he finds it hot.

Maybe try facing away from him to start of with?

 

Come here

and try betting on top. I'll make you comfortable with the position and see what variations we can devise to make you happier and more omfortable.

 

thanks guys
i guess ur rite
i know it would drive him wild if i would do it

n i love pleasing him

 

Just give it a go. You have control over the depth and speed.

It really is great from a guys perspective because he can just lay back, enjoy the ride and the view.

 

What I find sexy about girl on top is letting her use my cock like a hot fleshy dildo. I get to feel like her own fuck toy for a while. When you are on top try to do what feels good for you and gets you off. When you cum so hard that we can feel your juices dripping down onto our balls and legs then we tend to enjoy it. After you cum there is no reason that he can't fuck you senseless while you are on top. Get in a position where he can grab your hips our wrap you up in his arms while he thrusts up into you. For me, the orgasms are extra intense when I'm lying on my back.

Have fun.

 

Squat on him with your knees up and feet flat on the floor , either hole, and grind yourself on his meat. Backwards and forwards , drags the base of his cock out a little each way and forces it as deep as it can go as you slide back over it.
You get similar to an extent with circular. All the time your clit is there to play with also.

 

My ex-gf LOVED being on top. She really got into it ... loud and wild. But after a while it got kinda boring. I mean for a guy in that posit. there's only so much you can do.
Still, tits flying around was nice. :excited: But not having that much control was frustrating.
Maybe I'm missing something.

 

I'm just curious why you wrote this in the style of "rap lyrics via text message" ? :-|

 

I took it as beat poetry of the 2000's...

 

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i just did no real reason.... i guess i text too much lol

 

thanks for all the advice

keep them coming ​

 

the best thing i can think of is have him talk more when you are on top. Also think of it like "posting" or "cantering" a horse. I have tought two women by using that likeness

 

i would love more dirty talking

i am just worried that he will not like it
if i am on top...

that i will not be good

 

if a man complans about a women being one top...he is more than likely gay. i have never once in my life heard a man complain about a women sucking on top

 

i just feel so unsexy
cause i dont like my boobs
n when i am on top
they r rite there
in his face​

 

there is nothing wrong with your breast they are great looking

 

try talking more.
maybe close your eyes,
also playing with your nipples and maybe even your clit :-0
may help you feel more relaxed hun.

i hope this helps.........if not pm me and i`ll think of something else hehe!

p.s. from what i can see you have nothing to worry about! wishing you were rideing me!

 

Do you only do something because it makes the other person feel good? If you don't feel comfortable being on top, have the courage to tell him. He might enjoy other positions just as much, or more, if he knows you are completely comfortable with them.

Talk with him about it. Tell him your feelings and he might be willing to help you find ways to feel more secure, or open to suggestions for him that might work better for both of you!