Aren't there any women out there who like to fool around with a guys penis without needing to have sex too?? Sometimes I like to do this but the girl always pushes for sex and it turns me off if its not something im ready to do with them.

i dont have the same problem when im with guys.

 

You are a legend, thank you!

 

If I'm in the room with my wife, I usually don't go longer than 20 minutes without grabbing her boobs at some point. We have been married for about 3 years and it has been that way the whole time. It rarely initiates sex, it is just something I do in my everyday activities.

 

In my oppin ion the breasts have a certain comforting quality about them as well as a sexual quality.My ex girlfriend and I used to sit on the couch with me at the end and her between my legs laying with her back against me and watch movies.More often than not my hands would be cradling her breasts.It was warm and comfortable and she loved it.There was no fondling or anyhting...just hands for a bra baisicly.Sure...we would have sex later but that wasnt what we were up to.It just felt good.

 

Personally, I like fondling girls' breasts. Gives me something to think about later!

 

Honestly I can play with a girls tits without needing sex but then again you can find a way to please the man without sex either

 

I have no problem doing just that. Sometimes the foreplay can be just as fun. :excited:

 

SO you get pleasure but the male doesnt? I thought a relationship was all about being equal, play with his nipples too

 

Yes and sometimes sex is better saved for later in a relationship. DOesn't mean some fooling around can't happen. Finish it later when you are alone! I do it, whats the big deal

 

Sweetie, if I didn't know any better, I'd say you were a bit of a cock-tease.

 

I love to suck and play with boobs, and it doesn't have to lead to sex. I just really love boobs!

 

lol kimiko you might be right but!!:excited:

see?? some guys can agree with me!

 

Alright Lisa, lets cut the shit.

You want a guy to feel you up and help get you off with some type of physical stimulation while leaving him high and dry.

This dear is called being a tease.



You said that you are not ready to have sex with them but have you told the guys this? I am guessing not. I bet you meet a guy, talk to him and act like you really like him, get alone with him and start kissing and rubbing, let him take your shirt off and and spend 30 minutes giving you his best and warming you up, and the minute he goes to undo your pants you get fucking prude on him and act like HE is out of line for assuming that vaginal sex was on the menu for that night.

Once again, tease.



You also mentioned that the guy should "consider himself lucky" that on the third date you let him motor boat you? Seriously, do you think that you are that fucking amazing?

Now we have reached all the way to "crazy ass game playing bitch who enjoys being a tease".


Not trying to be rude here, but it sounds like you have some issues that you need to deal with. Either you are ready for a physical relationship with a guy or you are not. You need to discuss this with your partner before he is standing there with a hard on and not get all bent out of shape when he tells you that he is not willing to play your games, because in the end, you are a game playing tease.

 

I don't want to associate myself with KevinFlynn's remarks on the matter, which I think are rather harsh, but I do tend to have the view that if you're going to purposefully get a guy hot, you have some obligation to at least get him off....by whatever means. That doesn't mean you have to give him the keys to the kingdom, but I'd at least send him home with a happy ending. It's the humane thing to do.

 

Sometimes people need a little harshness to crack the layer of crap they insulate their lives with. I read some of the other threads and posts by Lisa and she talks about how her nipples and breasts are some of her most sensitive areas. Actually, read it for yourself...

From a different thread

So she gets her rocks off and then tells the guy to pound sand. Also, a second thing I picked up on while reading some of her past posts is that she likes to pleasure herself to a point and stop, delaying gratification. That is fine and dandy but it seems she wants the same in her partners but is not finding it. Once again, understandable but after the first couple experiences end unsatisfactory I would think she would start looking at what SHE is doing that is causing things to go wrong. Is she being honest with these guys about what she is looking for? Is she being unrealistic in her demands? When she say things like...

...Are the guys really "pushing" or does she take and mention or movement towards vaginal stimulation/penetration as the guy pushing or forcing sex? This girl sounds like she is confused and frustrated on how to go about getting the physical relationships she is looking for. That confusion and frustration seems to be leading her to blame men for a natural sex drive while in all honesty it is her kink that is less mainstream.


***DISCLAIMER***
Please do not read into any statement that I am bashing, making fun of, or impugning anyone's kink or fetish. I just think that some need to realize that what they enjoy sexually may not be what a larger percentage of people fine interesting or pleasurable. Due to that fact, you cannot really hold it against someone for not understanding its importance or significance to you.

 

Well, I'm not quite that ready to judge her. I don't know what she actually does with her boyfriends....she has spoken only about what she thinks about what she does with her boyfriends, and what she'd LIKE them to do...

And there is something to be said for the art of the tease, and the slow, delicious build-up of sexual tension. I'm guessing, at this very moment, that you'd love the opportunity to fuck Cinnamonlisa until her eyes bugged out.

 

110% agree, one of the best parts of being intimate is the build up to intercourse.

Nope, not even a little. From the way she comes off in posts, I can be pretty sure that we would be like oil and water. Moodiness and drama are two of the biggest turn-offs in my book. Not only are they turn offs, but they seem to get me, a generally quiet and polite guy, to utter phrases like "oh shut the fuck up you annoying little pain in the ass" or "please, go away".


Lisa seems to be brimming with both moodiness and drama.

 

Okay, if you say so...but I personally wouldn't mind giving some personal attention to her boobs. A nibble here, a lick there, a suck over this way, teasing those pert little nipples into eager erectness. Maybe a few hours worth...and then a half a day or so focusing on her clit.

 

but...

:laughing:

 

I'm confident that she'd let me have my way with her...my gentle tongue-tip can be wonderfully persuasive. I'll bet she's touching herself as she reads this...