My wife loves it when I play with her breasts. She can even have an orgasm just from me playing with them (it takes some time, but I am only too happy to oblige). She loves it when I slide my cock between her breasts, and my cumming on her makes her orgasm as well. Just one of a number of fun, dirty things I love about her!

 

to me its like going to a steakhouse and ordering salad. Now don't get me wrong I love Salad hell I enjoy salad at least once a day but when you go to a steakhouse you want some rare tender meat

 

i second that thot! seeing just the title of the thread i thot~wtf! is like sayin~sucking hard, but quitting way before he blows! :excited:

 

thank god for sanity

 

I certainly wouldn't say its how I would prefer to do it, but if thats the deal, I would do the complete opposite of objecting. The secret to enjoying only breast play is you have to really, really love tits. Luckily, thats very easy to do.

 

It can be fun ...

... I dated a girl in college that had tiny breasts, so small that she rarely wore a bra. She loved to be touched, for hours on end. Our sessions would seldom turn into sex, but she loved the sensation of getting aroused. Her nipples would be rock-hard.

I miss those days.

 

Yeah, right, like the boob offer is the only one out there. There's a lot of competition, sweety. So, between "nothing" and "fun with no sex" there's a third option: "fun with sex". Now, do you get guys a little more?

 

Do you also get turned on by rubbing your pussy's image in the mirror? :excited:

 

Sometimes. What's that got to do with anything?:excited:

At times I'm in the mood to have my boobs played with..sucked on..whatever... but not have sex. I really don't see what's wrong with that but whatever!

 

i love it! my girl has 38DD's, and i cant get enough of them. i can go days without sex, as long as i get to play with them

 

I'd love to have an orgasm someday just from nipples getting played with, I thinkt hat wold feel amazing, but so far I can't.

 

I didnt' read through the whole thread, but here is my two cents in response to lisa's question.

1) You have to realize, that when it comes to sex, most men are like a machine with only an on off switch. Once you set the switch on, it's hard for us to processes anything else in our little brain other then shooting our load. Once we shoot our load, that switch is generally turned off until it's turned back on. A lot of guys on here will deny this, but I have heard more then one sex Therapists refer to men this way and as a guy, I can tell you, this is true.

2) Here is the key though, at what point is that switch turned on? That is different for all guys and it isn't always just about being hard, but about how far along you are once you are hard. I am 41, and I have been married for 13 years. I can tell immediately when I cross that line with my wife, and so can she. At that point, I am going to cum with or without her and if she was to not participate in that, it would leave me feeling VERY rejected. We really know each other's bodies and she knows how far she can tease me and then prolong it by getting up to make dinner or go watch TV or go to work and us save it as 'prolonged foreplay' till later and I know the same about her body. When you first start dating someone, your not going to be that comfortable with their body and they are not going to be that comfortable with yours. So, unless you are both willing to go all the way each and every time, that is going to lead to some frustration on both your parts. If you work past that and stay together, it can lead to some fantastic sex, that you probably won't get again after you have been with each other for 10 years. That's not a bad thing, there are trade offs once you really know your partners body. But it can be a hard thing to get past, especially when you are young, and especially if you are both HOT and have a lot of other possible suitors.

3) Most girls are a tease up to a point, so don't be too distracted by the name calling.

4) Now, I am not saying this is you, but some girls get off on JUST being a tease. To me, these are the ones that I would call a cock tease. It's a power trip for them, and literally the only way they can get off. If that's you (and I am not saying it is) I would get counseling for it, because you will find yourself very lonely when your 40 or 50 and not able to attract the same number of possible suitors.

5) Damn, this is getting long!

6) As for me personally (this is the real answer to your question), my wife's breasts are very sensitive when played with in the right way, and I can give her an orgasm just by playing with them. I can do that without getting so excited, that I cross that line in #1. This is even easier, if we have already crossed that line once together. There have been a couple times (just as a power trip for myself, yes I can be a bastard) that I have made her cum over and over by just playing with her breasts, but that was again after we had already crossed that line once. Once I had cum, it was harder (or easier depending on how you look at it) to get me to the point of crossing that line i.e. I had better control over how I reacted to playing with her tits. Now, as far as just doing a little grab ass, I can grope, feel her up tease her nipples, what have you anytime without even coming close to crossing that line, but I couldn't do it for say 20 minutes. Just enough to tease her but not get me worked up. I will often do this such as when she is washing dishes, stopped at a red light, if I think no one is looking in a store, etc etc.

7) Had to scroll up to see what number I was on... :excited: All that said, I hope I answered your question, but also gave you some decent insight into at least one dudes mind. The more we all learn about the opposite sex, the better the whole world will be, so purely in the interest of furthering that goal I strongly suggest to you and Kimiko that you and her play together for a couple of hours and let me watch so that I might further my ability to understand women. After all, its all in the name of science. Just think of the good you would be doing for humanity!

 

I like tit play sometimes and will stick with that if that is what you want, but when you say you don't have the same problem with chicks, do you mean if they go for the crotch you are ready, or that they respect your wish for boob play?

(I think I know the answer, but ....!)

 

cinnamon

I'm sure you will soon make orgasm from this activity that you like.

 

I was reminiscing about all the play that took place before being deflowered, and I miss it, too. Those loooooooooooong sessions of attention.... mmmmmmm. Although attention is still given, it is not anywhere near what it used to be. One of my favorite nights was my bf making me cum a couple times only by focusing on my titties. What a yummy boy he was for doing that.

 

There can be multiple meanings to the phrase about buying the cow if the milk is free. LOL!

We guys, are not always as sensitive to what a woman needs as we should be. For some women, it's as easy to get off as it is for us guys, but not all and we don't always keep that in mind.

 

LOL, my milk ain't free, and I'm no cow. I'm the whole damn herd. Bought and paid for dearly, at least that's what I hear on a regular basis.

 

I would consider any girl who would show their boobs on the first, second, or third date a slut.

And if you're going to be a slut, at least give them a boob job, or hand job.

 

Yea, it builds the anticipation and it makes me look forward to the next time....

 

i cant but i believe its a heat of the moment thing