I was wondering if women who don't usually like anal sex enjoy being penetrated by smaller things. Have you ever had anal sex with a small guy? Or tried using a small toy? Does anyone not like having anal sex because it's too painful, but liked being fingered during oral sex?

I guess I was just curious if it was a matter of size, or if it's just a no-go regardless.

 

I don't mind anal. Done properly, size doesn't matter.

But I have some friends who only enjoy anal with smaller guys and boys, toys and fingers too. Biggies? Not quite.

 

Yeah, dude.

Your girl doesn't want to take it up the butt because your cock is so fucking huge. If only you didn't dwarf a normal man, you'd be riding the chocolate slide ALL NIGHT LONG.

 

I think as Anal was basically created and promoted in the porn industry (I am same sure different sex couples have tried it before that though) - anal seems rather to be the last resort... If he cant do well in the vagina because its too loose, he is too small or both; anal seems to be the choice as its tighter. The main problem usually is simply down to the guy not knowing what to do with the vagina or even before sex.

This said many girls like anal as of the influence, instead of vaginal sex or in addition afterwards regardless of his size and her tightness. Typically most girls are pressured into it to try and like it although some would never try it.

 

I'm afraid you're a little off base there. Anal sex, or Sodomy has been practiced for thousands of years.. There are tales and documented history of it in the Roman empire, Greece, etc.. Where do you think the name Sodomy came from? Biblical references to Sodam and Gamora?

Now I won't argue the current popularity isn't influenced by the porn industry, but that's just a generalization to the sheer popularity and ease of access of pornographic materials right now. More and more fringe kinks are gaining increased popularity because of most peoples desire to find that new thing.

 

I've never had anal, but I've wanted to try it.
And I use to like getting fingered back there during oral, but one time the guy just shoved his finger up there and that hurt like hell.

So, now I pretty much don't want to unless I find a guy I really really really really trust because I'm not going to get hurt badly for something that won't feel all that good for me anyway.

 

Trust me, you find someone who will take their time, be patient and do it right for you, it won't hurt and you'll enjoy it.

 

Yeah.
I'm going to see the guy I've liked on and off since my freshman year in high school over spring break, which is the 7th, and I DEFINITELY trust him with everything, so I might try...who knows?

 

If he's done it before and is patient, it should be no problem. If he's never done it before, make sure he uses plenty of lube and takes his time...stretching you a bit with his fingers, starting with one and working up to three at a time, all well lubed, should relax your sphincter and stretch it enough to make entry easier. Don't worry, it will reduce back to its original size and tighness afterwards. Make him take his time and be patient, and you should find it quite enjoyable.

 

Can't say never tried it no guy has ever asked

 

Yeah. he has done it before.
He and I talk about things really openly so he knows that I'm nervous and why and all of that. But, he's such a sweet heart. He was like "Hon...don't worry. I understand. We can take our time. And if you change your mind, that's perfectly fine." He's just a good guy.

 

Well if I were there, I would.

 

Nice to find someone like that. Good luck.

 

I have never tried anal and I highly doubt that I ever will. I'm not pain tolerant at all and my boyfriend is HUGE. I all most died when I lost my virginity to him a while back and I'm not trying to relive it with anal sex. Thank God he never asked me for anal.

Do you guys think that he will eventually?

 

Smaller might help some women get to a point of being comfortable with it -- although some people are just never going to get into it. But with enough lube, and enough time, a woman can take a big guy without pain. The problem is that too many guys rush it. Be patient and you'll be rewarded. Even smaller things (toys, fingers) can hurt if you're not prepared.

 

I am still geting used to anal. My BF LOVES it.. but it hurst like hell! sometimes, I just suck it up, pretend like I'm really enjoying it, and let him have his fun. I can only take soo much untill it's unbearable!
but, having a finger up there is better- obviously cause it's smaller. I think girls just have to get used to anal. I'm all for doing it again, untill I'm used to it!
PS: For the ladies-- IT's best when you're drunk! doesn't hurt as much! hehe

 

Take it from someone who's received anal...it does hurt at first, but you learn to relax and let yourself open up.
Plenty of lube, stretching the sphincter with toys, etc, of increasing sizes — especially while giving oral — helps, but the biggest factor is a willing, relaxed partner. Another thing that helps is to masturbate your partner while fucking his/her arse.
Oh yeah, I've given it, also. I've been lucky enough that my wife's let me do it on a few occasions, and, surprisingly, I've not had to stretch her that much. I've just taken my time and used plenty of lube.

 

I'm always amazed by what women will put up with to please their men. I've done it to my ladies but only upon request. I prefer pussy.

Knowing what you've said and what curiousgirl has told me about women and anal, I think I'll be a lot more understanding of my women in the future. You girls rock!