1. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

    Dismiss Notice
  2. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

    Dismiss Notice
  1. Steel Rod

    Steel Rod Porn Star

    Joined:
    May 6, 2008
    Messages:
    1,826

    And Id say you have the BITCH margin wrapped up being that your 100% :excited:
     
    #81
  2. grig314

    grig314 Porn Star

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2010
    Messages:
    1,174
    I repeat what I say. The fact that you have no maybes in your vocabulary on this issue point to you as the problem.
     
    #82
  3. 2 Inch Jake

    2 Inch Jake Porn Star

    Joined:
    Oct 9, 2009
    Messages:
    2,528
    I used to run into similiar problems at my job, that's why I went out on my own. They told me the office staff didn't have enough time to be helping me with office oriented tasks. Their time was very valuable and he would prefer that I do trivial things like look up redundant part numbers in a book for the paperwork. I made a lot more money than them so it didn't make sense at all to me. (might as well pay someone 10-12 bucks an hour to look up numbers than pay them 30-40) I'd go in the office sometimes (I avoided it as much as possible) and those lazy fucks would be playing solitaire and looking up recipes. My boss wanted me to do office bs and NEVER do any sort of work, just supervise. I'm a hell of a lot more valuable doing what i'm good at, instead of office crap.

    The fact that I had to sit in my pickup sometimes for 15 hours at a time looking up fucking part numbers while they lollygagged around made me pretty mad. I had my fair share of angry rants and verbal blowups while I was there. When I first started everyone thought i was "such a nice guy, unlike your dad" (who also worked there) but it only took one or two rants for them to hate me. Fortunately for me, my value outweighed my bad attitude and anger towards laziness (for two years anyway, then the ratios changed...lol). I would have been fired at most places for the things I said and did.
     
    Last edited by a moderator: May 15, 2010
    #83
  4. 2 Inch Jake

    2 Inch Jake Porn Star

    Joined:
    Oct 9, 2009
    Messages:
    2,528
    The suckup thing is very true. You have two ways to do well at a job, be extremely compentent and buried in work all the time or suck up and fuck off all the time avoiding work. As said earlier, the only thing a good worker gets is more work.

    There was one dbag I used to work with that was awesome at sucking up, he got by with like 30 hours of attendance (i wouldn't call it work...lol) a week and made a lot of money. The boss thought he was great. He cost me thousands of dollars in bonuses and even after he caused a massive cost overrun on a job I still couldn't get him fired. I compiled evidence for 2 months bc I knew what was about to happen and after losing the company 240 thousand dollars on a big job and costing me a 5k completion bonus all I could get was him demoted to an even easier job that still paid the same. I am full of fail.
     
    #84
  5. grig314

    grig314 Porn Star

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2010
    Messages:
    1,174
    This makes a lot more sense to me than incubus's first statement. You gave solid data showing a lackadaisical attitude of the entire office staff. I worked in a big office and did my job in one hour, but had to sit around while everyone else muddled through. I luckily got a job elsewhere in a month that took all that I knew and kept me on my toes. So I know that there are deadhead offices.
     
    #85
  6. love_chocolate

    love_chocolate Sex Machine

    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2010
    Messages:
    909
    It's a hard job, but someone has to do it! Damn, you must work for the Government!
     
    #86
  7. ohms_law

    ohms_law Porn Star

    Joined:
    Apr 8, 2010
    Messages:
    1,612
    Damn straight! Put me in the fucking field, already. I'll do the office shit when I'm, like, 60...

    but, yea, let's hear it for nepotism! :eek: ;)
     
    #87
  8. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

    Joined:
    Oct 23, 2007
    Messages:
    60,666
    The 345 of us on deidre79's Friends' List would love to work with her. :)
     
    #88
  9. Wafarer

    Wafarer Supreme Warlord Banned!

    Joined:
    Jul 28, 2008
    Messages:
    62,707
    :rolleyes:Been there, problem is the companies that I have seen this occuring with regard to bosses, are too cheap to fire them, and rehire and train someone else more humane, or less of a dillettante.
    Some co-workers have been twats too, but they have been(and can be) easier to avoid.

    Some wannabee bosses with regard to your OP, Inc? Easier said than done, but they must be told off, is it seniority? Still. I would not stand for this all too long, I have been there too, and they heard from me!
    The CEO should not be pleased, I wouldn't be, as there is so much waste of your time, provided you are doing all you can to prioritize, of course.

    Excellent!:cool:
     
    Last edited by a moderator: May 15, 2010
    #89
  10. love_chocolate

    love_chocolate Sex Machine

    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2010
    Messages:
    909
    You got that right, D.L., But then I would probably think that I had died and gone to heaven!
     
    #90
  11. love_chocolate

    love_chocolate Sex Machine

    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2010
    Messages:
    909
    If the CEO is not to busy stuffing his pockets full, and counting his bonus money!
     
    #91
  12. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

    Joined:
    Oct 23, 2007
    Messages:
    60,666
    Hey, dude if you keep that up, I will need to go to eloquence school. I used to have no equals when it came to tastefully expressing my appreciation of certain females here.
     
    #92
  13. love_chocolate

    love_chocolate Sex Machine

    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2010
    Messages:
    909
    I am rather new to this, you on the other hand, (5 fingers, I hope), have this all down pat!
     
    #93
  14. grig314

    grig314 Porn Star

    Joined:
    Mar 1, 2010
    Messages:
    1,174
    Funny thing, I have worked for the Government, and there were a few nut jobs there, and it was wonderful when my boss died. No one was interested in putting in a penny when his secretary asked for money for flowers. But there were some nice competent people there and also fun people. The toughest thing is working for yourself: if you don't cut it you can't blame anyone.
     
    #94
  15. Incubus

    Incubus Horned & Dangerous

    Joined:
    Aug 2, 2006
    Messages:
    22,690
    how convenient that she just went on vacation :rolleyes:...... the bitch
     
    #95
  16. fantasyalive

    fantasyalive Porn Star

    Joined:
    May 11, 2010
    Messages:
    1,000

    :eek:
     
    #96
  17. smcaaphd

    smcaaphd zOMGorgeous

    Joined:
    Oct 4, 2007
    Messages:
    31,576
    Incubus - don't be such a pussy!! If this is the worst it ever gets in your working life, you're damn lucky!! I don't know many, if any, people who get to concentrate on just one task, or set of tasks, at work!!

    Time to put on your big boy pants, gird your loins and face this 'brave new world' head on, with your chin up and your ass easily accessible to those higher up the food chain than yourself :lol:
     
    #97
  18. chunky

    chunky Porn Star

    Joined:
    Oct 13, 2006
    Messages:
    8,198
    I'm lucky, I only have to work with one cunt.


    I'm self-employed.
     
    #98
  19. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

    Joined:
    Oct 23, 2007
    Messages:
    60,666
    If this means that your confrontational discussion with your boss has been put on hold, that is probably a good thing for you. This will give you time to calm down, and think how much you really want to jeapordize your job when 19.1% of the country is unemployed, under employed, or has given up on finding a job.
    http://www.gallup.com/home.aspx

    If your boss is the only one you can't get along with, and if everyone else dislikes her too, that sounds like her fault. If you dislike everyone you work with, and if they dislike you, that sounds like your fault, and it sounds like you will reproduce your problems in a new job.

    Go ahead and get angry at me for telling you this. A year from now with no job, and no money, you will wish you had considered what I am saying.

    Life is not fair, but to a considerable extent it is understandable and predictable. If you understand how and why things happen, you are less likely to make avoidable mistakes.

    An attitude of entitlement might work in politics if millions of others feel the same way. In your personal life it is likely to get you into trouble.
     
    Last edited by a moderator: May 15, 2010
    #99
  20. xnxxenophobe

    xnxxenophobe Sex Machine

    Joined:
    Oct 8, 2008
    Messages:
    606
    cant believe these people are trying to give an arrogant little prick like you any real advice are you sure youre not baller16 in disguise

    if you can go get another fucking job then stop talking about it and go do it brainiac or better yet start your own company if youre such a fucking genius and take the risks on yourself until then scrape the sand outta your vagina and get on with it