How many girls here have a rape fantasy?

 

I've heard that it's surprisingly one of the most common fantasies, especially among women. Myself, I've fantasized about it plenty. The kind of thing I wouldn't actually wish upon myself though but is hot to think about.

 

I don't have a fantasy...

I've had somewhat erotic dreams revolving around it, but apparently that's common for women that have been raped before... which I have.

 

It's my biggest fantasy!

 

Why does rape turn anyone on? If you are dimented and enjoy pushing your will on others and most likely violently do you really consider yourself a part of the human race? I have never had a rape fantasy and most likely never will. I like bondage and being submissive but only if I know I am in control if I ever want to back out. +

 

See, I don't quite get that. I like reading stories about it for some reason, I really don't know why, I can't explain it. I've never fantasized about it before, but I've had dirty dreams about it before (which I have no control over).

From people I've talked to, it's not uncommon at all for someone like me (who has actually been raped) to have subconscious fantasies about it.

 

I guess I have had dirty dreams also concerning sexual control but never rape in the terms most think of. If you were raped Miss Monica I hope you are ok and I can empathize with you because rape and abuse share a common thread. I completely understand your position MM I guess for me seeing the effects of a violent rape on someone I know made me kinda sad. peace always +

 

It's the domination aspect of rape that people find a turn on. Making someone do something totally against their will. that and the sex without guilt as you are being fucked and it is not you that instigated it. I must admit I like the sex without guilt part of it and I have role played with a girl raping me with a strapon and thought it was fun, but like I say that was more the sex part that I liked.

 

Also, before it happened, I never had thought about it as something that interested me. I was lucky in the fact that it wasn't anything violent, just some douchebag drugged me and yea. It took me a year and a half to deal with it, but when I finally did, it felt so much better to let it out and now I'm okay and at peace with it.

I believe the reason I like reading about it is that I'm aware that it's purely fantasy and nothing more. I'm disgusted by real accounts and even the scene in "The Last House On The Left" I couldn't watch because it actually almost made me sick. My fantasies aren't under my control since they only show up while I'm asleep.

 

wow wow u bin raped.
that must have bin terrible. since i have never bin raped. so i cant imagine what was going threw your head.

 

Jason, I think I understand the male view here of domination and why that would turn you on. No worries, I do. My stance on this issue is completely mine and the only reason I don't understand rape is because when you see someone you care about with their face smashed in and emotionally scarred for life it's hard for me to fathom such manners towards anyone. Fantasy rape is understandable but real world rape is something completely different in my opinion. :rose:

 

I know not all incidents of rape are violent so I can see why you feel the way you do Monica. If all men had access to GHB and it was legal they would not hesitate using it I can only imagine. Fantasies and expressing certain desires is healthy for sure and I try not to hold secrets in either. When you can talk about them it does get better. +

 

I have rape fantasies all the time. It's one of the most dominant ones that I have.

 

Thats the problem with rape, it is a very violent act. Even if performed gently it is still an intrusion into the body. I do not like real rape, but get off on the stories and having the act role played on me by a girlfriend.

 

I have to disagree. If I had GHB I would probably just leave it at home and tell the girl I was with that it was there so she could take it or not, or spike my drink or not. I would not use it on a girl that was not consenting.

 

It was fantasy that my son and I worked out...played out. We talked about it...how to do it....our SAFE words. The first time we acted it out... I used our safe word"YELLOW" a couple of times..and "RED" once. Once we had acted it out..the 2nd time was much better...and by the 4th or 5th time....I was able to stay in the fantasy without total panic. It was "realistic" in that I never knew when it would be acted out..but I knew it was my son..and that it was controlled...

 

wow I would have loved to have a mom like you

 

That makes me feel better. Would all men do that? I seriously wonder. Why would you have sex with someone that does not want it from you?

 

problem

I have a problem writing rape stories for someone and I have done it but it is not easy.
I can write the bondage okay but rape is hard to picture or imagine.

See I figure a rapist should be castrated with a broken bottle or an emasculator(interestign farm tool)

 

I think only a tiny % of men are capable of commiting rape. However I also think that this tiny % are quick to generalise that all women would love to be raped; when they see posts saying they fantasise about it.
This is course no excuse for any rapist, but rapists are not bothered too much about rights and wrongs.