How long can you last when having sex, stamina wise? Do you usually "do" the fucking or does your partner do all the work? Also, how long can you hold yourself back from an orgasm?

I realize sex is a "give and take" (so to speak) scenario, but I always seem to find that when I'm having sex with my "friend with benefits", they always get extremely tired within minutes and I usually have to take the reigns.

Maybe I need a new sex toy...

But anyway, please, let me know!

[And sorry if this question has already been asked!]

 

I can usually last a good 30-45 mins or so, sometimes longer. I made sure to practice a lot controlling myself when I was younger lol as for whose's doing the work, it depends. if she's on top I let her lead but we both do our fair share of moving. I actually cheat a bit because if I feel like i might be getting close i stop, get on my knees, and start eating her out. That way I get a chance to recover a bit and she gets a couple of loud orgasms before I cum on her lol

Ps- would love to become one of your friends =9

 

Usually I can go about 2 hours before I let the first one go, but it also depends on the girl. I've had girls that would only orgasm once and be exhausted and want to quit---'tiredness' is not gender specific.

Also, as far as who does the 'work' (and if sex is work to you, you have my sympathy), that too, depends on the girl. I've had girls that love to take charge for a while and try all kinds of acrobatic stuff; I've also had girls who want to lie back and be taken every way possible; most girls like the guy to take the lead, but aren't afraid to do some of the 'work'

 

Considering the average man lasts less than 15 minutes of penetration i'm sure we'll see an xnxx average of 2-50000000 hours.

For me, I can last 30 minutes or so if i want to, normally don't want to. I usually go about 15-20 with my current g/f. She is kinda obsessed with me so she can get off a lot in that time period and i can go a second time within a minute or two or getting off so that's a plus. The second time it takes me quite awhile to cum, i have to really pound it to get off the second time. Normally i'm a lazy bastard but with this one i've been pretty dominte bc she likes it better.

 

Cannot speak for all the women but men that last forever are not something I consider a good thing and find most not to be all that hot in bed. I want a man I can get all worked up that will cum making me feel it was me and not some guy that is stroking his ego more than my pussy. Much prefer a man that is closer to the average with good recovery time over one that lasts too long. I do not need a hour plus pumping to get plenty of great orgasms.

 

My reply really depends on the situation I am in.

I do enjoy long play sessions where foreplay and fucking can last 2-3 hours but I also appreciate the value of a something faster where we can both get off in 10-15 minutes and get on with our day or go to sleep.

In some situations, I may come faster, fucking someone with no care for their pleasure or allowing them to orgasm. At that point I am just reinforcing that they are simply there for my pleasure and are simply an object for me to use. But like I said, that is a special situation for special people.

 

I have gone 13 hours - 20 min "work" 10 min rest. The entire time thinking of another woman.

Also, if this matters - with the right woman I've finished about 17 times in about 4 hours. And I could go more if she didn't have to go.

Most men's sex drive makes me smirk. You can tell I'm a little depressed and talking about my strong sex drive makes me feel good. Forgive me and bear with me. I'm not lying.

Bottom line is - with the right chemistry between the 2 partners there are fireworks that none of you have ever seen.

 

I can go for about an hour,,, and cum 3 or 4 time before getting soft,,, and then I need a break

 

I can go a long time, I know how to edge. I like shooting a load multiple times during a session.

 

I bust in about 10 minutes. then im ready for round two i can go for a solid 45. bear with me im not lying

 

lol i guess pucnh of people lie xD just 15-20 min for me i am not lie and i guess thats the average and normal i can cum 3 times during the day not 20 min lol

 

I have trained my self to go for hours and it makes most women i have sex with screamin their guts out. I use a special trick haha xD But yes it's both mental and physical. Big problem for me though is exhaustion.....i can hold my climax longer then my body can pump ( usually doggy style ) but with my last ex it was almost 2 hours haha.

 

for mental you have to have control of your mind and if needed generate anxiety to last longer... resist feeling good haha ! for physical when i was with my Ex or while masterbating i push my whole frame ( stomach / chest / waist ) forward. It helps make me last a little longer as i'm almost doing chest exercise...can go deepeer....and also helps be focused.

If i don't push my frame or relax to much during sex / masterbation i think i cum pretty fast xD

 

im nearly always on top but i dont mind because i love giving it to her hard. id say 10 - 15 without conni or 20 - 25 with conni

 

finally a thread about this! so i dont have to post my own lol,

anyways i can go for hours constantly with no stopping, i literally have had sex from sun down till sun up, but whats weird is after cumming ill want to keep going but ive only met 1 girl that could ever go for hours and keep going is there something wrong with me for wanting to keep going?

 

i drink an enery drink before i fuck my g/f it give a lot of help plus she is really good at wat she does, 15 min in i cum, but sometime to last longer i get the first nut out the way..even after the first 15 i keep going for 5-10 min more on a good day

 

yea i understand i used to that but i used to do coke

 

Depends............on a few factors......

Generally I last about 45 mins after foreplay, that includes me fucking her her riding changing postions etc.....

I last a lot longer after a drink..........?

I last even longer second time round too.

 

Hmm i can usually control when i cum pretty well so i can go about as long as i want.

 

Cumming the first time, about 5 minutes, cumming the 2nd time, 20 minutes, 3rd time about 20 minutes, and the 4th or 5th time I can last between 5-30 minutes