Hi all. My boyfriend wanted me to fuck with he's friend, but after i did he started avoiding me and doesn't want to talk to me like before. he doesn't even want to have sex anymore. what shoul'd i do???

 

Talk to him about that, that's just really really messed up. Some guys find it hot for their significant other to have sex with someone else while they watch or have a 3some, but if he's avoiding you, then you have to talk to him and see what's going on in his head.

 

Some fantasy's people find hot in theory but not in practice.
He should have been more explicit with what he actually wanted from you, and you should have asked exactly what he wanted if he didnt tell you.

You both need to talk and find out exactly what is wrong and then see if its something you can work through, or if you need to call it quits.

 

Perhaps he thought it would be hot and is now regretting it.

Or maybe he was never being serious.

Perhaps he was seeing if you'd do it as a test. Maybe he wanted you to say no.

Ask him why he's avoiding you, if you can. There's too many possibilities.

 

he doesn't want to talk i tried that so many times, but he's to stubborn or "proud". i am considering ending it but hope he woul'd come to start talking eventualy

 

Yes, need to confront him and see what is going on and if there are issues what can be done. Stressing you did it out of his request needs to be stressed but not to the point of dumping the issue all on him. Blame game is counter productive. Talking about it and seeing if and how it can be resolved is the best way.

Some different things sexually for a couple are always bigger than some other things and this is always one. It is something to talk over and over to make sure the man truly wants it. My advice is to always make sure he wants this when his balls are empty and not just when he is horny from the fantasy.

 

He might be using this as an excuse to break up, anyway, in a way that allows himself to feel guilt-free and pretend it's your fault. Heck, he might have cheated on you and decided to have you cheat on him just so he felt you two were even.

One of my friends actually has cheated on his girl, but won't break up with her, but hopes she cheats on him just so he can break up without feeling bad.

It happens. I don't know if this is right it your case, and I could just be talking paranoia.:|

 

well, i did cheat on him several times, but i still love him and even told him hi could cheat on me, but he's saying that i only want to be guilt free and i think it only made matters worst

 

Oh, also, talk to the friend you fucked. Ask him if your bf has talked to him about it. If your bf isn't talking to you, he might be talking to the friend.

 

thanks. i will try and i will write about it. KISSSSSSSSSSSS to all.

 

Sit him down, ask him why he wanted you to fuck his friend, and what he expected to happen if you did. Then just sit back and listen.

Was he there when you did?
Did he talk to the friend after?
What did you tell him about the experience?
You say you have cheated on him before, maybe this was a test on his part to see if you really would cheat on him. If so, he's already written you off, so it might be good to find someone new. Next time - don't cheat on them. And if they say they want you to hook up with their friend, sit them down BEFORE you do and determine what the expectations are.

 

doesn't seem like it's your fault if you ask me....do you really like him....if you think it's worth saving talk to him....

 

if he's too stubborn or 'proud' to talk to you about it then he shouldnt asked you to do that in the first place.. now that he got what he asked for he needs to get a grip on things.. ..there's a woman that loves him involved in all this and he's going to loose it if keeps being stupid about this..

guys are so dumb..

 

amen

 

Good thing I'm a cat, I guess.

 

He pulled the old, I know how to break up with you.



Meow

 

is he an online bf... if not then make sure that you talk to him. act stalker bitch crazy

 

Did he watch you and his friend do it? If so, did his friend fuck you way better than he does?

If he didn't watch, did his friend laugh at him and tell him how he made you scream and cum for him? Did he fuck your ass?

There's more to the story, maybe you can fill in the blanks.

Besides, we like to hear this stuff.

 

My friend fucked her better than I ever could.

 

Or maybe you should just keep fucking his friend until he pulls his head out of his ass. Was his friend any good?