i let the woman sleep in a wigwam, when there in bed with me...

 

Well I have slept with a person of both male and female with no sex and I don't know how many times.

I also slept with my mates without sex many times, after all married couples don't ALL have sex EVERY NIGHT.....(possible except for a while at first!)

 

Next time don't take your makeup off.

 

Done it a couple of times with a friend and another time with a different one. I must confess that the second time I stayed with my friend, I was closer than what you might call appropriate and I started rubbing her back in an attempt to get her in the mood. I could even kiss the back of her neck, but since I got no response I just fell asleep. I wasn't pushed away either and I'm completely sure she wasn't sleeping. So I guess that if I had slept with her a few moer times, something would have happened.

 

A few years ago when I was still living in the dorms, a girl I know knocked on my door at like 3am. She had "forgotten her room key" and locked herself out "and her roommate was at home for the weekend" and wanted to know if she could stay in my room for the night. I said sure, and without even asking where she should sleep, she hopped in my bed and laid down. Well, I had met this girl a year before that when she was a high school senior and came to visit her sister, who was dating a friend of mine. I told my friend that I had a thing for the younger sister after that visit. He says "dude don't do it, shes got herpes" and I was like "oh yeah? who said?" and he told me his girlfriend (the older sister) had said it before. So I let this girl sleep in my bed with me that night, but I didn't try a thing, so I never did find out if she really does have anything. She joined a sorority and thought she was hot shit so I don't see her much anymore now that I quit my fraternity. Oh well. I wouldn't trade my Sara for her anyway

 

I sleep with the Mrs everynight. 90% of the time there is no sex at all.

 

only slept on my couch with a chick friend before, nothing happened, I just held her and we slept, but if we were in my bed, something probably would have happened.

 

That guy is guilty of sexual assault!!

Yes I agree.

I find it really comforting and nice to sleep with a guy in my bed instead of all alone. Sex really doesn't enter into it most of the time.

I also like sleeping with female friends. Girls are really soft and warm and fun to cuddle with in bed.

 

It's possible, it is also possible to have a friend of the opposite sex where there is no sexual attraction.

If he isn't going to have sex with me, then I would put him on the couch.

 

I have slept with many girls and not had sex. But usually before time to get up I would wake up to them being cuddled up to me or find there legs and arms across my legs and chest.....Was tempting to start something but never did.

 

It obviously depends on the circumstances. I had a girl come to me after she ran away from her female lover. She was not lesbian, but she needed a friend to just hold and appreciate her. We sat watching TV with my hand on her breast, then went to bed, both nude, and snuggled against each other. Her tits were in my back and I definitely got a hard-on, but I held off. She wanted solace, not a guy to fuck her. That night we slept.

The next night, she told me how she appreciated me being considerate. That night we made up for lost time. We did things neither of us had tried. Later, she told me she would have let me fuck her the first night, but that would have been the only time we ever fucked. I liked the option I took. It definitely paid off.

 

Honestly, anytime I've ever had anyone in my bed, I've tried to at least do SOMETHING with them. Sometimes it works, sometimes I have to jack off.

 

Huh, what if the other person is like really ugly?

Maybe he was asexual. :/

 

Unfortunately, I have experienced it's possible, although I have wished it wasn't...

 

I do

Every night, with my wife .............. same again tonight!!

 

Thats mean Kay! lol

oh yes there is always going to be cuddling. I dont sleep with anyone if I cant cuddle with them. but sex doesnt have to enter into it.

 

OK, Lisa....we're just going to have to sleep together and SEE if we can do it without sex....

 

Sleeping in the same bed = sex... NOT

What kind of shallow moron friend is this that you have? The genitals don't always have to be involved regardless of what you're doing.

Same thing has happened to me. I'm gay and male. My best friend is straight and male. I would never think of violating him or taking advantage of a moment for a cheap shag with him just because one night he might get a little tipsy or whatever. I have more class than that.

 

i have done this many times. I'm not gay, been married 22 years, and the women were very attractive. Sex doesn't have to happen everytime although most of us guys prefer it to happen.