thanccz 4 tha help all.... and thanccz 4 tha responses...very helpfull... much respecct.

 

Turn down...

My wife is not into porn at all.
She hates it and considers I am waisting my time...
I'm not hiding from her, so, if she sees me watching porn, than, that evening I don't get any pussy...

 

My husband feels guilty when he looks at porn and he is in an "accountability group" to deal with it and to keep from looking at it. He doesn't like me looking at porn and so he has no idea how often I do.

 

When our PPV bill reached over $300 in one month and the only time I saw my ex was in the morning when I made him his coffee, breakfast and his lunch to take to work I figured porn meant more to him than I did...heaven forbid another guy talked to me or looked at me in the grocery store though. My porn collection was hidden in plain sight on the pc at the time but he wasn't bright enough to figure out how to open the containing folder or he'd have beat the living shit out of me....so I guess in a way...I had mine and he had his...and then I just switched to porn and left him...one of the best decisions I ever made:excited:

 

damn i wish my wife thought like you. She gets pissed if i even look at girls in bikini not showing anything.

 

Mine really doesn't like it. Hates it infact. I have promised to cut back (and have) and I don't look at it when she is around.

But I told her I was looking at porn before her. Im not gonna stop stop, get over it.

 

My wife told me the other day that she realizes now that I'm just a pervert, and that's ok.

 

thanccz 4 tha response blue eyez

 

My wife is okay with it, but she has pretty much lost interest in sex since having babies. She looks at porn here sometimes and is freaked out by some of the bazaar stuff that shows up here. She gets a kick out of catching me check out women when we go places and tries to figure out what type I like. She thinks I'm a pervert. Whatever gave that idea, I will never know?

 

I love it when I catch my husband watching it, it means I'm gonna get a treat
I don't know if he does it on purpose, but every video he's forwarded to me to watch, has women that look like me in it. Maybe not in the face, but similar body shape, so I don't get jealous at all.
Maybe you should look for ones that look like your wife OP, and talk to her about it, mentioning how hot you find them and comparing her favorably with them.
He also watches amatuer porn mostly, not the really good ones with insanely gorgeous women, he says they look like dolls.

 

my wife loves story erotica and I like the pictures.

 

Lol, that's how it usually works for me too, I'll be reading and he'll be playing on the computer.

 

I'm with the 'wife doesn't watch it' crowd. She just doesn't see the fascination of it at all. She does read racy detective novels, damn-near softcore porn stuff and gets excited by that, but she doesn't do 'real' porn. :lol:

She does have an issue with me looking at it, but we talked and she realizes it is her own insecurity that is the root of it. I assure her she is my only love and that I always find her beautiful and desirable, and she recognizes when she is feeling down on herself and either comes to me for assurance or lately (I'm so proud of her) is able to kick herself out of that thinking.

Furred, you may want to do the same with your hubby. I imagine he too is passionately in love with his wife and wishes she could believe that wholeheartedly as well. We men are idiots, but we really are not that blind. If we love you, we love YOU, the whole package, not just the bits you think are okay.

 

Some people are luckier than others.Maybe if you surfed together on the same computer and drifted across some porn....test the water?

 

Hey, I f I want my wifes opinion, I'll tell what it is and she can repeat it back. NO NO Seriously we've been married so long she knows she doesn't have any competition, and she reads and comments sometimes - but mostly she's like me and just doesn't give a shit.

 

I do, is often considered the longest sentance

 

Okay, who revived the five-year-old thread?

 

Ovid58 it seems. :lol: Ah well, he either worked it out or is in a shallow grave by now.

 

My wife has no idea how much porn I look at. She has no interest in sex so I have no doubt that porn for her is out of the question. Many years ago I showed her a very mild site on the internet, no sex just naked women and men. Her reaction was "gross! Why would you want to look at that stuff?" I guess cuz I never get to see any of it at home??

A woman's naked body is nature's most beautiful sight in my opinion. Why would I NOT want to look?

 

Omg! Some women can be so annoying! Porn is about fantasy and self gratification. When a guy watches porn he uses it as a masturbation aid because men are visually stimulated. That's all. Men are so less complicated than women think us to be.

My gf has a big black dildo that she uses whenever she wants. I'm not complaining that I can never live up to her dildo! She uses it when she feels like then dumps it away when she's done. Same way I treat porn. We have emotional connections with each other not with a dildo or a porn scene.

But just to be on the safe side, I'm never getting married :mrgreen: