BLOW JOB.
Here's how:

GET NICE AND CLEAN. Social stigma seems to focus on the taste and smell of women's genitals. In fact guys can smell and taste just as much and as strong as women. If you're new to oral sex, you might be worried about taste and smell. If so, suggest a sexy bath or shower together and start with a clean slate. You can also add a bit of flavored lubricant to his penis or put a flavored condom, which is great for safer oral sex.

GET COMFORTABLE. Your comfort is the key to your enjoyment, and fellatio can put a strain on your neck and jaw. Kneeling before him on a pillow, while he's standing or sitting, gives you good range of motion and plenty of access. If you've bad experiences with oral sex where you felt lack of control, have him on his back and crouch in between his legs. Giving head can put you in a major power position, if you like that feeling, then go for it.

TEASE HIM WITH TOUCH. Using your hand first, gentle caress his inner tights, penis, testicles, and perineum, paying attention to his reactions (verbal and facial) as you touch certain spots. The most sensitive spot on a guy's penis is the head (known as the glans), especially the frenulum, an indentation between the glans and the shaft on the underside of the penis. You might want to brush on your knowledge of, to know what you're working with.

GIVE HIM A LICK. Follow up with your tongue, exploring the same terrain using slow wide strokes with your tongue. Don't be afraid to use lots of saliva, as this natural lube feels great and helps create friction and suction. There are many STDs that can be passed during oral sex, using flavored condom is a great way to practice safer sex and deal with any taste you may not like. It is also a perfect way to get guys who say they have difficulty with condoms, to gladly put one on.

TAKE HIM ON YOUR MOUTH. When he's semi-erect, slowly guide your lips over the tip of his penis, making sure your lips cover your teeth as you slide gently down his shaft as far as you're comfortable. Keep your mouth taut, as the pressure from your lips will feel great as they glide down the penis. Putting him in your mouth before he is fully erect is a good way of getting comfortable with the size of his penis, particularly if he is in the larger range.

WATCH THE GAG REFLEX. If you're not adept at deep throat (taking the whole penis in your mouth), don't try it or you'll trigger the gag reflex. It's not necessary and a similar effect can be achieved with the hand and mouth technique described below. With practice. you can learn to relax your gag reflex and take in more of the penis.

USE YOUR MOUTH AND TONGUE. As your head travels up the underside of the penis, flatten your tongue so it gives his frenulum a nice wide, wet stroke. Don't be afraid to try different types of licks or kisses, the lips feel good when popped over the ridge of the penis, but perform each stroke repeatedly before changing to give consistent pleasure.

FORESKIN FUN. If your partner is uncircumcised, insert your tongue into the foreskin and circle around the head with it. You can also use your fingers to gently massage the head through the foreskin, alternating with deep tongue licks.

USE YOUR MOUTH AND HAND TIPS.
1. A great blow job incorporates both hands and mouth. Place one hand around the shaft of his penis, while you move up and down on the top half of his penis. Try coordinating your movements so your hand and mouth are going up and down in unison. If your partner is thrusting, your hand will prevent his penis from from being pushed too far into your mouth.
2. If he likes this combination, bring your hand all the way up the shaft (following your mouth), remove your mouth briefly, use your palm to slide and twist over the head (as if you were juicing an orange), and then glide your hand back down followed by your mouth again. Repeat.

LET HIM COME. When he's ready for orgasm, keep your movement consistent and firm, don't slack off. Once he start ejaculating, see him through with a few strokes and then stop, as most men don't want continued stimulation once they've come.

TO SWALLOW OR NOT TO SWALLOW? This decision is entirely up to you. There's nothing wrong with you if you don't want to, but it's nice to let your partner know it's nothing personal. If you don't want to swallow and you don't know how to recognize the signs that he is about to come, let him know you want a warning. Remove your mouth as he is about to ejaculate, and continue hand stroking his orgasm.

 

BLOWJOB.
Tips:
Don't forget the rest of his body. The testicles (balls) are particularly sensitive, and most men like them to be stimulated. Try lightly licking or touching his testicles during oral sex. He might also like them to be cradled gently in one of your hands. Some men go wild when you place your hand around the top of the scrotum and gently tug down.

You can also apply pressure to his perineum (the spot between his anus and his penis) with one or two fingers, as this also can feel good.

He might like wearing a butt plug during oral sex for added prostate stimulation. Or you can apply pressure to his anus with one of your fingers.

 

No, I am not new to blow jobs and I am completly comfortable giving him one. I never fail to bring him to climax that way. I was just looking to inhance it for him. My orgasms have gotten so much better since I mastered squirting and I want his to be out of this world too. When we first started dating is when he mentioned that he was interested in trying the finger thing and its been 8 mths since then and we have been married for 2 mths and I still havent done it, so I guess its about time. I just didnt want to do it until I had some advice on technique. Thanks so much all. I will have to post an update on his reaction!

 

By the way, Angel, there's a big difference between a slippery fingertip teasing it's way just inside and a finger stuck way up in there in search of his prostate. You might want to try out the less invasive option the first time. Even just pressing your fingertip against his anus feels nice. That's where all the nerve endings are anyway. If he gives you more encouragement (something along the lines of "OH, JEEZUS, YES,.DO IT!"), then you can get progressively more daring.

 

Rockprincess has the right idea..Use plenty of lube..My girl uses Albolene (I believe it's a make-up remover) It feels fantastic

 

personally i don't like that idea, but hey theres a first time for everything maybe your husband would lik

 

Just my thoughts!

The way we do it is that my partner will tease my anus with her finger and let me sort of guide her in If I am not relaxed enough I don't move south if I am I do! Plenty of lube, we're always clean and make sure we wash after. works for us anyway..but hey we're all different and there's plenty of good advice above.

Good luck it seems you're relaxed with each other enough to try new things which is great in my view!

 

there is a way a woman can teach herself how to squirt? I gotta know about this!!

 

Speaking of Blowjob Techniques... My Girl does what she calls "A BLOW KISS".. Not Quite sure how to explain it,but,she starts at my balls and works her way all the way up the shaft..Kissing,Licking,Sucking,talking dirty and who knows what else she may do down there.
By the time she puts it in her mouth I'm ready to explode.

 

Welcome to the club!!

 

I love having it done to me...greatest feeling in the world!

 

Did it feel like all that pent-up cum was just being WRUNG from your body, every last drop pumping out like a volcanic eruption, until you were empty?

 

You know it. Even after I came, I had her keep fingering me. Although it's hard to concentrate when you have cum all over your stomach, neck, face, and hair.

 

Oh, well, I always make sure it's in my mouth when I do these things...

 

The world needs more people like you!

 

*laughing* Nooo, the world needs more nice hard cocks for me to suck and fuck.

 

i attempted a finger into the bf's bum while givin him head cuz i thought it was kinda hot, but only like a little little bit of my finger was in him, not the whole damn thing. after i was done givin him head he was like what was that all about ?, and i laughed and was like idk just wanted to do something different, and i was like why did u like it ? and he said ehh idk felt kinda weird but i didnt dislike it, but it didnt really get him hot either. so idk i dont think its for every guy, and i havent done it since, but maybe u shld ask ur bf what he would do if u eva decided to do that to him or something, i think just doin it on ur own to him without a warning could cause chaos haha in my case it didnt but hey ya neva know..just talk to him

 

There's plenty of those to go around on the boards.

 

kimi i have one right here for you

 

Mmmm...stroke it for me...nice and slow.