I agree....

Your right, too much of anything is a bad thing, porn I think can be fun and healthy, but when you find yourself losing sleep, missing meetings, not doing family stuff and making excuses then your in over your head....

xoxoxo
Love Rain

 

dang it!!!!!!!!!!!

When I was about 18 I hung out with 2 girls, and we were all dating three guys who were best friends, so this one girl, she kept talking about naked breasts and since I was older and had a car she talked me into buying her a girlie porn magazine, and one night she suggested we look at each other's breasts and get in the hot tub naked, I was like dude your weird and freaking me out....and I kick myself on a CONSTANT basis that I missed that!!! How stupid! I didn't realize what she was up to and now I am pissed I missed my little lesbie action, I would have loved that girl twirling my hair and licking my nipples omg! I hate it when that happens!

LOL!
Love Rain

 

It's amazing how many threads are started by:

"I'm a completely straight guy who likes to suck the occasional cock"

or

"I'm not gay, but I have the urge to suck cock"

 

I agree Dave.

 

I started a thread asking guys who consider themselves straight but have had a gay experience(s) to get it off their chests so there wouldnt be a need for these consistantly similar threads.

 

Either suck the dick or dont suck the dick. Dont over think it.
If you like cock and pussy your Bi Sexual. Simple. ok?
I love pussy and like to watch cock, i dont want to suck it or fuck it, but watching it is cool. Does that make me Bi Sexual, dont care if it does, as I know what I like, and thats what this dude who started the thread needs to realize, go with what you like and have fun, ok?




AND THERE CAN NEVER BE ENOUGH PORN.

 

Not really surprising though. People tend to be obsessive over sexual identity to some degree, and it's not unusual for people to have slight tendencies towards bisexuality.

Then again I like these threads because I find human sexuality to be interestingly difficult to understand.

 

exactly the same here, sfvcock1234... emotionally straight, sexually bi, once I cum, I swear to myself that I'm never ever gonna have anything with another guy again... and I also have a feeling that porn has much to do with this condition (not that I mind it, on the contrary, I like it), there definitely are detrimental effects when watching porn too much, that's why I'm wondering if sex stories do the same...

 

Exactly!! Human Sexuality... just one more thing that makes each and everyone of us an individual. The whole labeling thing gets on my nerves. There are far too many variables to even begin to label someone. Why must everyone obsess over labels? You are what you are. You like what you like. That's it. If someone else don't like it, tough shit. They are not you and they don't have to deal with it. Pretty simple ya think?

 

I agree, but my point was the number of times that somebody seems to be "bi" but wants to say that they are straight, but love dick. Those people are denying their sexuality.

 

I have the same urges - that is that I'm not attracted to guys but I fantasize about MMF threesomes and that includes me sucking a cock. I'm married and have always been very attracted to women and have never even had a bisexual or gay encounter. Others have explained this urge better than I. All I can say is that I'd like to feel what it's like to have a cock, very much like my own, cum in my mouth as I deep throat it.

 

Your description of your sexuality almost exactly matches mine. I am certain, though, that I didn't become curious about sucking another guy's cock by viewing porn.

Like you, my first thoughts about this started in college. While I most often dreamed and fantasized about being with women, I would sometimes have tremendous fantasies of being with another willing guy, and just suck, suck, suck each others' cocks. I would masturbate like crazy, thinking about sucking/being sucked, and as soon as I climaxed, like you, I'd feel stupid, silly, or bad about it. But eventually, I'd be doing it again.

Different from you, though, is that college for me was thirty years ago, not ten years. And this was before the proliferation of internet porn. Certainly, porn of all types was available then, but the only stuff I viewed at the time was in magazines--soft-core images of women, mostly from Playboy.

So, without viewing images of male/male sexual activity, I became very interested in sucking cock.

I haven't had as much actual male/male contact as you describe yourself having. I have, though, in recent years, found viewing images of oral male sex to be very stimulating. Whether the one doing the sucking is male or female. I imagine myself sucking that cock, and often masturbate to climax while having that fantasy. In this way, I believe that porn has made my fantasies more vivid, but I would still have the desires even without porn. However, there have been times when I'm looking at and fantasizing about being with a woman, when a nice cock enters the scene (photo or video), and my mind starts thinking about the cock. So then I have been influenced by the pornographic imagery, and am then fantasizing about the cock instead of the woman.

I hope this account helps answer your question. I also believe that the idea of MFF threesomes is hot simply because that's how we are, that's how most guys think--not because it's in pornography.

By the way, you gave an excellent accounting of your sexuality. I wish I knew someone like you who was willing to explore our desires together.

 

Love you rain and very interesting topic even though there has been many like this. And i need to cut on porn a bit....just a bit.

 

candid...

Love you! and I am new so I haven't seen stuff on it before, so your account of information just further emphasis how so different we all are and noone can be attached to one single situation. Or lumped together, it seems everyone is trying to, but I have been studying way too long to know that we are seriously each individual on a case by case basis, case in point my first husband came out after 6 years of marriage and said he was gay, and he had zero porn, but it was a result of being molested by men on multiple occasions, so everyone is different. I have seen porn for a bazillion years and I have a genre, and I never stray from that, I don't go for harder or worse forms so its all circumstantial, with the exception of our biology and even then that can be wrong....so good luck on cock sucking I wish I had mine around to suck, he is in another state for the next 5 months!

Love Rain