Hi. Though my screen name may cause users to think otherwise, I'm actually a bi sexual male... I've had this account for a while now, and I've only recently begun to browse these forums regularly.

Anyway, I'm a 21 year old male with a girlfriend, but I'm extremely curious about men. I don't think I'm gay, because I love women and their bodies, but I like men's bodies, too. A few years ago, a male friend and I fooled around, and both of us really liked it. It became a semi-regular thing until he moved out of town.

And now, I have a dilemma: assuming my girlfriend and I ever break up (because I'm not the type to cheat), what should I do about my sexuality? I'm not sure that I'm interested in ever dating a man, but having fooled around with one before, I wouldn't mind doing it again... and again. =)

So my question to the ladies is this: what do you love doing to a man? I'd love some suggestions of how to make a guys eyes roll to the back of his head.

And to the (open-minded and/or gay/bi) guys: how did you deal with your sexuality? Is being with men better, and if so why?

P.S.
I've always fantasized about a threesome with a girl and a guy... anyone else had similar fantasies?

 

Not better, just different. With my woman sex means the ultimate extension of my loving feelings for her. With any other woman, or for instance an mff threesome, the enjoyment of her beauty would always be a part of it. (never done that btw).

My fantasy with men is just about hard dicks and hot cum, and the more the better. No sense of beauty anyhow, or the man should be both black and very girlish, and no feelings of love.

So which one's better? The hornier I get the more I long for men. When I'm more in the mood for love, it's a woman.

My wife and I did numerous MMF threesomes, but she couldn't (can't) deal with me doing anything with the other man. I respect that so I've never done that in her presence. The hot and horny sight of her having sex with another man also added to the loving feelings I have for her.

Just my thoughts.

 

hmhhm by looking at your name "geileklodders" you seem to dutch, like me

 

You're at the prime age to have a Bi relationship. Hurry and find yourself a FWB and explore as much as you both want. I had the opportunity once with a willing male FWB at 19 and never followed-up after sleeping with him once. To this day I regret not making him cum (I've never made a guy cum so I want to know what ejaculating in my mouth feels/tastes like) and I want to know what it's like to top and bottom a guy.

Kinda late in life to do that and don't want to run the risk of getting any STDs with strange partners.

Try visiting an adult movie & book store and check out the booths......bring some $1 bills and drop a chunk of cash into the slot and watch some porn. Before long someone will knock on the door and offer to suck your cock.

It can be a very exciting experience especially when guys in other booths are watching you get sucked and are masturbating themselves fantasizing they're you or are sucking you. It's quite hot.....

You have a choice at this point in a booth when someone knocks:
1 - let them suck you to climax and cum in their mouth and leave
2 - let them suck you to climax and cum in their mouth and suck them to climax after you've came and then leave
3 - play with each others' cocks and get a handjob. safe but overwhelmingly boring and you'll be left wanting more
4 - tell them no and masturbate yourself to climax and leave. trust me on this one.....you'll wish you had invited someone in!

So before you get married and committed or too old, get a FWB and start sexperimenting. Once you cum in another guy's mouth and he in yours you may suddenly find yourself grossed out about what you just did and flee. If so, you've satisfied your curiosity and have had a Bi experience.

Or you may enjoy it even though you feel a bit grossed out by the fact that you've consumed another guy's cum or that he consumed yours. It may lead to other experiences that are increasingly more satisfying and intense.

Time's wasting young man......go play today!!!

 

Probably no one can tell you if it is better to be with a man or a woman. I'm sure most people can come up with countless ideas but in the end it all comes down to your own preferences and attractions. Leave them to your own experimentation, the sooner, the better, just be safe and remember to go for it with someone you are really attracted to. [/my two cents]

Contrary to somewhat widely accepted perception of bisexuality as a "best of both worlds", I would like to point out that it may pretty much suck, e.g. in situations like this. I mean the OP has a girlfriend but clearly needs to experiment... but kudos for not wanting to cheat

 

I would talk your girl into a MMF three sum. Get drunk. Never know what would happen. Right?

Have fun with it. Maybe your girl would love to fuck you with a strap on.

Sounds fun to me.

 

Great suggestions so far... any others? =)

I'm seriously considering trying something soon, and I'll make sure to keep you posted.

 

if you trust your girl not to condemn you by being honest, share it with her. if you can be open to explore with her consider yourself a lucky guy. I lucked out and found someone i can be sexually honest with recently and its been great. be ready for her to open up to you and return the favor.