So recently I'd let one of my ex girlfriends stay with me for a few days because she was leaving the state and I was trying to save her money on a hotel. We had both been sharing my bed and in the morning she rolled over, looked at me, and said "I'm feeling pretty horny, wanna watch some porn?"
Obviously I went along with it, and we'd started fondle each other as we watched a gang bang scene.
I began kissing all over her body but when i got to her lips she refused to kiss me. I didn't think much of it at that moment and continued but as the minutes passed I started to go soft, all my lust went out the window instead because she wouldn't let me kiss her. So my question is how weird is that? The fact that I could have big firm tits, nice lil bubble butt, and tight pussy laying right in front of me and I had absolutely no interest in having sex with her. Does anyone else have this type of problem?

 

I don't know, I tend to assign kissing to the realm of soft, languid, romantic sex, and in that context I think it's essential. But if we're talking about rough, hard fucking, I'm not sure it's necessary for such an intimate thing to take center stage.

I'll tell you when I really adore kissing, though....when I'm with another woman.

 

Lesbianism makes so much sense.

 

Its the sensuality of sex that makes kissing essential to sex.

 

I enjoy kissing very much.

 

yes, it can B a turn on

 

Kissing a must for me

 

I would say kissing is really a must for me to really get horny
and do some serious fucking.

 

Kissing is KEY

 

pretty hard too, when your

 

why wouldn't she kiss you?

 

Kissing isn't very important during sex itself. I find I like it more during foreplay but even then it's not that big of a deal to me.

 

Kissing often feels more intimate to me than intercourse. From her kisses I can often tell if she wants it soft and sweet or hard and rough or something in between. I would probably get bored with sex if kissing wasn't a part of it.

 

Yea?

That and sometimes hooking up with past exs can be a mistake, I wish all women could just live in the moment and enjoy themselves more.

 

It seems kissing is more important to guys then girls, It is key to me when I have sex but not when I'm fucking. (I'm sure you can tell the difference.)

 

Not really....considering that my mouth is full of thick, juicy cock :excited:

 

To me.. Kissing is very important..Most times kissing is a great way to tell on how hot the sex will be..and if they will be any good at it. A great kiss leads to mind blowing screamming sex

 

I think the thing may be because she was an ex, and was just looking for sex, and kissing adds another level of intimacy that she was not looking for. I too love to kiss, but I have been in some situations where the woman has not wanted too, because they did not want to take it to that level of intimacy.

 

I think kissing is the key to great sex. I love to kiss and be kissed. I think women in general love to kiss. I know that when I am with a woman, we kiss way more than when I am with a guy.

 

i think kissing is important, but some people like prostitues for example say its too personal so to remove themselves from the personal side refuse to kiss, maybe your mate wanted just sexual relief no intimacy babe