You? A twat?? NEVER!!!

 

Sometimes I am love, but never where you are concerned, now you do know the way to my place?

 

Oral sex doesn't count does it?

 

What the Fuck!!!! Weird enough to even spell it out as in Twilight Zones and Worm Holes. I posted in this in the GD. Before My post came up I came out in the Sexuality Section and now its on the GD again.

Never mind we've got enough WTF threads going right now.

 

Of course not. Just like sex doesn't count if you don't make eye contact.

 

Survival of our race in adverse conditions compelled our ancestors to be polygamous. So it's natural to want multiple partners.

I was a faithful boyfriend and husband for 18 years of my life. After being cheated on in ways that were appalling, we seperated and divorced. I spent some years as a single boy in a man's body chasing everything in a skirt and loved it. I also missed steady companionship. I remarried. My wife loves me. I love her. But now I am changed. I am a cheater and a liar. I will not apologize for what I am. I blame noone but myself. To spare my partners feelings, I endeavor to be discrete, so I dont take stupid chances.

 

Mr. President?

Your honesty is refreshing. :rose:

 

Thank You.
Can I see your nipples now?

 

I don't know I know that when I found out what a perv my wife was, I'd be hard pressed to find another who was equally perverse... or at least a woman who would admit to it. So no real need or desire to cheat. Why play around with snack food when you have found the nine course meal?

 

Of course not.

Perhaps this will do?

 

Easily explained, a mod moved it down to sub basement 4, this poor little thread got scared by all the weirdness that goes on down there, it broke free and after hours in the dark ether between the basements of depravity we play in it made its way back over the border to the relative safety of GD, it as been granted asylum so should now be able to grow and prosper in relative peace.

Or maybe Chrissie asked a Mod to bring it back up here as the question asked is morality rather than sexuality. I prefer the tale of the plucky young thread escaping the gulag of perversion and striving against the odds to cross the border to safety and a life in the semi sunlit arena we inhabit.

 

Ah... I see you're back on the Irish... :excited:

 

Good point about "they will mention it first".

I was in a serious relationship, and she did cheat on me. I never did on her. I then got married to someone else who was always accusing me, though I never did, after talking about it, she admitted to seriously thinking about cheating on me.

Did she? I don't know she was honest in everything she did.

Can a cheater be "cured"? Sure, anything can happen.

 

haha Weird, huh? This does seem like a Sexuality thread.

I don't think past experiences determine future actions. Extenuating circumstances and all. Still, I don't think I'd care to be the next one he cheated on.

 

You're forcing me to do another bad photoshopping

 

Bring it on. :twisted:

and for the love of God, make me hot this time please.

 

If I'm going to do this regularly,
I really need to take a course.

 

I did ask that it be moved because it's not so much about sex per se.

I just wonder if people are really capable of being a cheater but then changing and becoming a faithful partner to someone they once cheated on. Is it even possible?

 

I wonder if why people cheat has something to do with whether they will continue? I cheated out of sexual despiration. If I was getting any sex at home I doubt I would have allowed myself into a position of being able to cheat. Cheating is not really in my nature so I probably get a divorce before having sex with anyone else, except the person I've already been with.

I don't think that makes me a repeat offender.

 

Of course it is possible!

I'm astounded at the number of folks in this thread who seem to believe that people are so easily defineable as "cheater" or "non-cheater" and that a characterization of that sort is immutable what silliness!

I think the problem lies in trying to ask a simple question about a wildy complex issue. First, what is cheating, exactly? That discussion alone is a long one, with parameters that could change over time. What were the circumstances involved in the "cheating" incident? It's easy to soapbox about moral issues when they aren't your life's details at stake. Is there a statute of limitations on loss of trust? Can a reformed "cheater" do anything to be redeemed? Does the "cheatee" have any responsibility to forgive and/or move on? All of these questions deserve serious contemplation, in my opinion.

I think life would be boring if these things were as easily defined as some folks in this thread have made them out to be. They're tough, complex questions and make life very interesting