If your SO turns you down for sex tonight,..and you're fraustrated,..how do you normally handle it? Go to another room and masturbate? Stroke it / rub it right there in bed so he / she knows? Or how about going to the computer and doing it there?

As for me,..which is very often cuz the wife is ,..well we wont go there,.but for me,..I go to the computer. This web site first. If nothing comes up then I go to another site. Collect mental images and take them to the restroom. Fap, Fap, Fap,..and relief.

 

Have a wank after she goes to bed. SOmetimes I ask if she minds if I wank it while she watches. She might get carried away and join in or it turns into a mutual wank session

 

I usally just go to the bedrooom and play with my toys ^_^

 

I usually wander down to the computer, but sometimes I'll just wait a bit until she falls asleep, which usually doesn't take long, and then take care of things without getting up.

 

I've done everything you mentioned, if it's been long enough without sex that I'm mad about it I will walk over and shoot it on her.

 

Sorry to hear about that. I have a friend, an old lover, whose wife quit putting out about six months ago. He just goes to the computer. Sometimes he sees me online and I watch him jack off on his cam. He lives in another city. I figure it's the least I can do.

 

And if she's sufficiently surprised, often you can get a headstart before she finds the taser

 

Never been the case for me!!

If she were to refuse, it would be because she is sick or on her period, so once a month for a week I have to go without sex, big deal!!!

 

Ha! yea I can think of once or twice where that was huge mistake lol

 

I live with two older women so if one is not into it which is selddom I just turn over and the other one will get it on with me

 

I do the right thing. Get it from someone else..

 

typically once my girl goes to sleep if i gently rub her pussy and twist her nipples she wakes up and cant sleep until she gets off.

 

I used to ask for sex from my wife, but after 20 odd years of being turned down I quit asking. I am fortunate to work alone so I can take care of myself during the day. BTW She thinks porn is disgusting- not sure what she thinks I'm supposed to do without sex and when we do have sex it is very predictable and boring.

 

Yeah...

I usually just wait until he passes out then I'll go at it right next to him in bed. Not the same as the real thing, but it gets the job done.

 

I'll start right in bed before she's asleep after a couple of minutes she'll roll over and start sucking my nipples and playing with my balls and cock until I come. I even thank her. She just rolls back over and goes to sleep.

 

Unless she's sick, she'll give me what I want. Maybe with a little less enthusiasm but it still happens.

Then again, I give her what she wants when she wants it. Sometimes with less enthusiasm but it still happens.

 

We knew before we started this relationship that my sex drive is sooo much stronger than hers. She has those nights and I can tell that the shower massage is going to be my only relief. It is worth it though, because she gives in most of the time, even if she really isn't in the mood.

Love Megan

 

sorry, i know that sucks, have done it right there in front of her with mixed results ... usually wait till she is asleep and go in another room to take care of myself

 

Wow. I feel for you. Sounds EXACTLY like my life. Only it hasn't been that long because it's my girlfriend. However, we have been dating for 6+ years. Marriage is looming. I hate the lack of sex (once a month at most) but I love her to death. And no one else makes me as happy as her, sans the lack of sex. Ours too is extremely predictable and boring. With zero oral from her. Even though I always go down on her to completion.

 

IDK, It's never really come up.8)