So, my wife has a theory that all women secretly love to be controlled, have their arms held down, that they really want a man to be dominant and just take them. I know she does, she always puts her arms up behind her head and wants me to hold her down. How about you? Do you like having a man be in control during sex?

 

My gf is definitely the dominant type - except in the bedroom.

In the bedroom she likes to be treated like a slut, held down, tied up, slapped and fucked like a cheap whore. And she'll do anything - and I mean ANYTHING - to please me.

 

my gf is defenitly the sub type--she won't admit it but loves to be dominated. And the fact that she is "forced" makes it ok for her to do all kinds of stuff in bed.

 

I do, yes. So much so that I gave myself to my Master for Christmas as a sex slave.

 

do u have a contract?

 

No, there are legal contracts for this kinda thing?

I have a collar and stuff.

 

i think some people have them.
a past gf and i had one--it was like a 2 week contract..it was fun.
she did not have a collar

 

Oh, there's no time limit on this... He's going to offer to take the collar off at the end of the month to be sure it's the lifestyle I want, but that's his decision.

 

Yes. It's a turn on for me.

 

seems to be the consensus

 

From my expeience: the same girl can turn from total submission into beast next evening, so I would rather avoid general statement. Are you forgetting about whole lot of mistresses?

 

Yeah, I like a guy to take charge and I guess I'm pretty submissive when it comes to sex. I like to be taken forcefully. I gave myself to a Master once but decided that life wasn't for me.

 

Not everyone like the man to be in control. I'm one of those who don't.

 

I love to be sub but my hubby won't so I go elsewhere to get it u can hold me down tie me up pull my hair clamp my nipples oh I could go on

 

I'm sub as well. Although what I would like to remind people is just because I am His sub doesn't mean I am your sub.

 

So, CG, what kind of guy gets to enjoy you as his sub?

 

love not being in control during sex and having the man take over. surprising this is the only place in my life that i dont want to be in control...

 

My girlfriend is a beautiful, very well put together, extremely talented, powerful woman in public. Privately, she is highly aroused by completely succumbing to my power. Much of the arousal is that it's a demonstration of the intimate and complete trust that has developed between us. Restraints, coerced exhibitionism and masturbation, blindfolds, prolonged edging (bringing her to the brink of orgasm without letting her release), even light spanking, hair pulling and back fingernail scratches are used in our eroticism. I have talked of posting her nude erotic photos on here for your comment. Being completely exposed in such a public forum, even the discussion of that possibility, has immediately heightened our play. Her dedicated service to me is amazing.

We are reunited high school sweethearts from 28 years ago. We should have known where this could lead, even back then, when I called her my wench.

 

Boyfriend and I are both switches. One day I'll be his slave, the next he'll be mine. It really depends on the mood and is very fluid. There have been times where roles were switched in the middle of having sex. So not EVERY woman is submissive. :excited:

 

It bugs the crap out of me when anyone says "all women" want this or "all men" want that. We're individuals with unique wants and needs.

I've heard that some men that are powerful at work spend so much time being in control that they want to relinquish control and take on a submissive role at home. I had a very demanding boss that wanted everything perfect and he wanted it yesterday. Then his wife came in for a visit one day and you could tell he was totally PW'd.