Yup but if my bf tried to dom me I'd just laugh, I can't take him seriously ever .. But it is a turn on .

 

We're pretty even in bed...we switch. I'm more of a sub, but I can be dom when needed and it drives him crazy!

 

The best way to describe me would be like a wild horse that needs to be broken.
I come off pretty dominant and I like to make my man squirm for a little, but as soon as he shows some aggression or control, I melt like butter.
There's something about having control and then losing it that makes me...wet

 

Mm, it's definitely the case for me. I...feel odd, actually, when I'm in a straight relationship with a guy who wants to treat me like a proper equal. I honestly ache to be submissive, even though my personality outside the bedroom is...definitely NOT submissive at all. I adore being pinned down and told off and swatted. (I'm technically a switch, though, although I've trended towards being more of an exclusive sub—at least with men; my relationships with women tend to be 'vanilla'—over the past few years.) My husband is my dominant, and he'll definitely make it known <3

 

to each their own - i like being dominated but do get off on the occasional switch

 

I'm not a sub in any way shape or form.. during the day. I work alot and go to school, any everything I own is because I worked my ass of for it. I'm pretty well in control of my own life, which is why I think I love to be dominated =]

It's such an awesome feeling to NOT be in control at that moment.

 

As a woman, I don't have theories that ALL women secretly love anything in particular, except to be loved. Maybe your wife likes to project her desires on the entire female population so that she feels it's more acceptable. Personally I have NO desire to be dominated or to dominate. I'm all about equality; always have been. Of course, some men may see that as dominating. Whatever!

 

I'm quite a bit sub. but I can Dom too, both are fun and everything depends on my mood and his mood

 

it really depends on my mood at the time... mostly i dont particularly like to be in control, but i wouldnt call myself a sub.. it works both ways as i will often grab a sudden burst of energy and completely dominate him.. i suppose im more into the surprise and having a very active and vivid sex life especially when with the same partner.. variety is everything!!

 

This is exactly what I think too. Said on another thread.

I think a forum like this will tend to attract more submissive women, since pornography and related industry tends to focus more on submissive women. . .

 

My wife is the same- both moods strike her. We have to have collars for either of us depending upon her mood. We have also done 3somes where she dominates one guy and is dominated by the other.

I think it is definitely an overstatement to say that all women are sub.

 

Being surprised and taken by him because his desire for me is out of control...oh yes. I love knowing that I turn him on that much. Being a true sub though, not my cup of tea.

 

I think the majority, not all, women are at least somewhat sexually submissive. That doesn't mean in other aspects of their lives they're submissive or that most are to the level of master/slave or s&m or anything like that. But most women I've met like to be "taken" or held down or tied during sex. My wife doesn't take shit from anyone, but when it comes to sex she is definitely on the submissive side and loves to be tied up.

 

I think this is down to cultural conditioning. Women are still expected to be sexually demure.

 

I have found that most women appreciate a man that is a MAN in bed. The whole love of sensative artistic guys with tender feelings and a facination with decorating go right out the window when the bedroom door closes. Most of the time....

 

Agreed to a certain point. Don't be a sissy la la when you see a spider or a bug, heaven forbid a mouse. Be passionate and show me you are passionate about me as your woman and then be sensitive when I'm vulnerable as you will be at times. Artistic can be knowing how to tie certain knots in a sexual and/or aesthetic manner as well as knowing what colors in the spectrum go together in a whole slew of mediums. Most of all, we may as women, not be as visually sensitive as men are but we do love being stimulated mentally. That's just based on an opinion formed by having "girlfriends" that share thoughts.....

 

Yes

I think part of the thrill of it is getting to be "bad" without being responsible for it.

I am wayyyy more willing to have my boundaries pushed when I'm being dominated by a man that when he's begging me.

 

Agreed

 

my sexy wife

same condition is with my wife
she like to get fucked like a slut
she likes dirty talking n abuses

 

I'm a pretty dominant female when it comes to everyday life/relationships, i know what i want and how to get it.

Sexually speaking, I enjoy being submissive and told what to do, and made to do it.