Just wondering what everyone thoughts on swinging are. Have you tried it, are you actively in the lifestyle, have you thought about trying it out, do you think it's a good idea? bad idea? etc.

My wife & I have been swinging for a few years now & have been having a great time & our relationship is stronger than ever & are curious to hear what everyone else thinks of it.

 

whatever floats your boat. . .

If it's something a couple wants to do? Then it's great.

I've met people from sites that are geared towards swingers. . .
I'm a single female so wouldn't say that I'm "in the lifestyle" but I have met up with couples from such websites. . . and I've chatted with many more.

Sometimes you can pick up a vibe that one part of the couple (usually the woman) isn't that keen, but is just going along with it.

But if that's not the case, then it's all good.

x74

 

We haven't done it and wouldn't do it. There's too much risk of jealousies, misunderstandings, etc.

Now, that's not to say we might not invite the babysitter to stay late for a threesome....

 

personally if i would have been married I wouldn't share my lady for nothing in the world.

 

I thought that kinda stuff only happened in porn films. I've yet to see a hot babysitter.

:excited:

x74

 

We're not into "swinging", but I do really get off on my gf fucking other guys.

 

That is very true. Unfortunately, there are some women who get talked into swinging by a strong willed partner. Those are the couples you try to avoid because nothing but drama comes from it.

 

We were also afraid of jealousy & the potential for misunderstandings. We took our time & started off very slow & maintained a very open line of communication & have not had any issues.

As for the babysitter... sounds fun!

 

For me its a fantasy. Something I would never act on because I know we would both end up getting jealous.

 

It all started as a fantasy for us about 4 years ago. After a few years, those fantasies became reality.

Down the rabbit hole we go...

BTW, nice pictures. She is beautiful!

 

That is pretty damn close. May as well dive in!

 

I understand Spanky. I shared my wife for years, but only a few times did I actually engage with the other woman. I just enjoyed watching her more than anything else.

 

To many in the lifestyle, this is a huge draw. Personally, I love seeing my wife being pleasured. It does not really matter who is doing the pleasuring... could be me, another woman, another man or several of us (personal favorite )

 

I got bored with it. We used to swing with a gorgeous couple, the woman was spectacular and the guy was handsome, but after a while I'd just as soon have played bridge with them.

 

I was kidding. She's only 14. But she's cute.

 

I have never try, but its really get me on, when I imagin my wife naked and playing some others cock