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  1. dr_love

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    i don't mean why are their hormones not raging like men and they don't have the same sex drive usually, but why do they get so upset, angry, sad, distraught about sex and animal magnetism or like when men (and even some women) act like perverts?

    other than the typical answer and obvious points that not all women are like that.
    i mean like when some women get freaked out when a guy they are not interested in checks them out, or tries to pick them up, or they spend the rest of their life as a total mess of emotional distress because some guy grabbed their ass once in public years ago.

    i guess men can try and answer this too, even though i know most men here will just claim they don't see what i am saying at all and women throw themselves at them all the time or they have the perfect sex life, etc, etc.

    i notice women seem confused about why so many men like sex the way they do.
     
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  2. mrstennbabe

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    Because of all this "women empowerment" bullshit!
     
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  3. dr_love

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    I'm not sure what you mean. what do you mean exactly?
     
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  4. darknhandsome65

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    I actually never had that problem. For me it seems women and everybody want to talk about sex with me and are sincerely open. These experiences definitely reinforced my view that women are way more sexual beings than men, but of course everyone sees me as trusting person And I am. I am the caregiver in relations, but I am getting tired, I want to be taken care of now.I suppose you experience these "uptight view of women" because of the attitude you seem portray when engaging in such events.
     
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  5. mrstennbabe

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    That NO man is going to tell her what she's going to do, enjoy, where she's going to go, ect ect ect.

    no man is going to tell her how to feel

    Just stupid crap. So alot women want to be the one to tell YOU when YOU are going to have sex with HER.


    like dark said.. sometimes men cause the "uptightness" you speak of..
     
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  6. dr_love

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    here we go LOL another self proclaimed sexual/relationship messiah on the boards here who has always had the magic touch and acceptance of women and acting like how you are around other people is a sure thing to make other people act how you want them too. if you're real smooth and cool around any women they will give you what you want. LOL.
    i also like when people say women have more of a sex drive than women. i really feel sorry for men, we can't even walk down the street without women trying to pick us up with their car offering us a "ride". we all hate that right men? LOL
     
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  7. mrstennbabe

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    Why are you going to get testy? you asked a question a PUBLIC forum.. meaning ANYONE can answer. Don't be like that. :)
     
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  8. dr_love

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    that's not what i was talking about at all though really. i wasn't asking why women don't do what we try and tell them to do. but at the same time i do see how women are uptight about some things because of men, but to need a head shrink over little things?
    even if they do along with sex, you still gotta be careful how dirty you talk. why?
    are you used to men trying to order you around? because i honestly don't see that from my experience. i usually see guys kissing ass and asking real nice to get what they want so the women don't get pissed and reject them.
    most all women don't take shit and men know this.
    unless these guys are at a bar.
     
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  9. dr_love

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    well if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen:p.

    i don't understand your double standard, you say i shouldn't oppose what someone else says here, then you say anyone can say what they want because it's a public forums.

    if you're looking for a place where everyone agrees on everything all the time then i would suggest not looking on any forums for that expectation. ;)
     
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  10. tiarasareforwhores

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    I think it's all how you approach. Whisper some sweet nothings in her ear and she might be more willing to be a bit more of a "whore" for you ;)
     
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  11. titop1mp

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    Pretty simple: women respond to attitude.

    If you're an arrogant prick they're usually going to get defensive about sex and do what you describe.

    If you're confident in yourself, know what you're capable of and know what direction you want to go in with your life they'll be more open and more willing to engage in the types of conversation and activity that leads up to the sexual stuff.

    If you're nervous, reserved and afraid they're going to stomp all over you.

    Make sense? Its very generalized but that's usually the way it works. You seem to be asking about why you can't find a woman to go home with you the same night you meet her, but is that really what you're looking for? I've seen those types and I wouldn't touch them with a stolen dick. The best ones I've found are the ones where you take the time to draw out the sexual side, and some respond quicker than others, but once they do you better be prepared for it.

    I don't claim to be some master at bedding women, and honestly I could give a shit if I do or not when I go out, but I watch and learn. Women aren't necessarily looking for someone who they, as mrstenn said, can lord over, but for someone who they can trust to let go with and be as slutty as they want with in the bedroom and who will treat them with respect outside of it.
     
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  12. BisexualKinkyGirl

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    is there a question in here?? I dont seem to follow your logic...
     
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  13. dr_love

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    i personally don't care about all that, like even if she rejected me. what i wanna know is why do women get so stressed about it?
    i can understand them getting annoyed if men are hounding them all the time, but why get freaked out about mens animal instinct.

    for example i go for old ladies at times and sometimes these women seem confused on why i would want to sex an old lady. they don't seem mad at me but troubled about the entire concept that a man who's much younger than her wants to fuck her.
     
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  14. MissK1975

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    why did I just envision an 80 year old lady with a walker?
     
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  15. tiarasareforwhores

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    maybe its a confidence issue - men seem to care less about flaws but women obsess over them to no end. we don't always see the appeal men see, so you just have to make THEM believe that you want them as much as you say you do, then that confidence will be seen in your sex life.

    just a theory.
     
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  16. 29mwcam0

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    LOL

    just look at mrstennbabe's quote

    Women are like phones: They like to be held, talked to, and touched often..................But push the wrong button and your ass is disconnected.

    this statement is very true.​
     
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  17. darknhandsome65

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    Lol i wish it would be like that. Nah i am not relationship expert, just a friendly guy with a friendly personality. I don't think i act smooth either, cool maybe:cool:. hahaa! My sexual appetite is quite specific unfortunately, I just cant fuck anybody like i wanted to in puberty, the women must caontain an unspoken intrinsic quality that can only feed my desire at the moment.I wish i knew what it is that excites my lust in the women i want to fuck, beside my fetishes. Or maybe i am just over thinking it, i am not to sure. Perhaps there is a sexual therapist on board. Anyways, Its just these days relationships are worse than before. We live in a Babylon of our time, everyone is seeking some sort of comfort and understanding.

    PS REVOLUTION!
    To each is own
     
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  18. darknhandsome65

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    Definately! We tend to think of ourselves as an almighty species, yet we are advance we are still animals. so women probably get uptight cuz your are not court shipping her? if so then not the right way according to her own insecurities and social environment?
     
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  19. tiarasareforwhores

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    Yes! Guys seem to just want to get in there and fuck away, but women are the "thinking" species and we need to have our egos stroked for awhile before we give you what you want. Tell her she's beautiful, tell her her pussy is beautiful, tell her that her lips look so sexy wrapped around your cock ...... and eventually she will want to do whatever it is ALL the time because she feels confident doing it!
     
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  20. 29mwcam0

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    honestly I feel sorry for females, men are complete dogs lol!
    in reality most men just wanna get off with 10mins of sex and leave. I think relationships are superior because you learn what eachother like and the sex tends to be way better(as long as you communicate)
     
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