well it's painfully obvious that women will be uptight if you approach them wrong, but that's not what this is about. it's not picking them up, it's about why are they so uptight about sex. a woman can be very into you and you are doing it right, but if you ask them for a BJ in the car they get freaked out like it's a big deal.
if you're into the guy then why not do it.

 

the title to this thread is a question. so that right there tells me you will not get my logic if you can not see what's right there in front of you.
plus you are a bi-sexual.
i don't mean to sound like an ass, but bi chicks are usually not that bright as you displayed.
they are cooler than most chicks though, and not uptight usually, so that's another reason why you may not get this.
are you mad at me now?

 

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that made me do a double take!!! Hell, I'd be all over his cock before he even had a chance to ask for a bj!!!

Where are you finding these women you talk about? The psych ward?

 

Hmmm, I tried to get the general feel for what people are saying...and idk. Here are my thoughts.

I'm as horny as the pervert secretly trying to checkout tapes at blockbuster. But it doesn't mean everyone has to know it and especially that everyone has to treat me like I'm ready to open my legs and fuck like I'm a girl in porn. Yes, I do like to do that, but I won't do it with a stranger and I definitely won't let people see that side of me if I don't care for them. So to me it's not really about being uptight. It's about who we open up to and who we let see that side of us. It's about still keeping our reputation for the public, but being your little whore if you're the right man.
Well that's my point of view..

 

Well see now you're getting into the individual woman and how she feels about things like that so your sweeping generalization about why women are uptight doesn't apply. Some women are into it, some aren't. Its a process to figure out what they like, they're not necessarily just going to come right out and say it. Some like it and don't realize they do (i.e. never tried it), some are just completely repulsed by the idea, others are willing to try anything once.

As I said previously, take your time in drawing that side of her out. Some will be more responsive and will let it out quicker, some will take a lot of patience and coaxing. The most important thing is to understand her limits, if you push them she's going to get defensive.

 

maybe you have a fetish for walkers. bottom line is that women in their 80's wouldn't like sex being that the older women get the more they lose their sex drive. unless they are on the rebound which many middle aged women are when divorced and many divorce around then.
but i would let an 80 year old give me head, but anything else may require removing their depends and i don't even wanna think about that.

 

i see what you mean but that seems incredibly dumb on their behalf because if i didn't like what i see then i wouldn't go for it.
it seems hard to believe that older women especially do not get that men are usually dogs and are not usually that picky to get sex.
if you are age 18 or older and do not realize this by then, then you gotta be very very stupid when men are on the prowl all the time everywhere.

 

You obviously didn't get what I was saying. But whatever. Just seems you wanna try to start something.

Why are men so stupid when it comes to realationships?

that's a gerneralized question..

a LOT of women aren't uptight about sex.

just like a LOT of men aren't stupid when it comes to realationships.

 

if that's what they want to give up sex then it's not sex they want, it's not a physical thing then...it's purely emotional.
maybe they can't help it to be wimpy like that.

 

i feel sorry for many women too because they don't get to enjoy the sensation of sex the way men do. sticking our dicks inside them obviously feels waaaaaaay better than them getting our dicks stuck in them.

men like to fuck, not make sweet passionate love every time.
boring.

 

you are not really what you say you are if you are another woman who acts like most women are like what you claim to be. women are not as easy about fucking as men and the more people keep pretending things are like that, the longer men and women will stay apart.
people say communication is important but nobody is being honest so what's the point in communicating?

if women were that easy men wouldn't go to hookers for sex so often unless they just had a fetish for it.

 

but you are uptight then. men are uptight too, but not nearly as much. even though most men i know posting here will say they don't like casual sex with strange women either and they need to get to know her and feel their mind first and share their feelings.

it sounds to me like you are only acting when it comes to sex then if you have to get to know them first. the better the guy then the better the act? maybe?

 

i did get what you are saying 100%, it just seems odd to me. i don't agree that people should only ask questions if they are going to only agree with everyone's answers.

it is a generalized question i ask because it's true about most women. it seems childish that you have to point out that a lot of women are not uptight about sex when that is beyond obvious for everyone who is an adult that some women are not uptight. but most are.
this website would not exist if even half the female population was as easy about sex as men.

and men don't give a shit really about if a women acts and says everything just right for him to give her sex. LOL.
please do not explain to us that some men are not like that, i know there are them types but not most men.
any guys who say they would turn down a bj from some strange girl on the street who asked him in a rude fashion is a liar.

 

AWESOME point. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to tell guys that contact me through this forum that I'm very responsive but I need more than "don't you want to just suck my dick?" or "if you were here I'd be titty fucking you". Ugh.

As to why women get "stressed out" about not being in control of who likes them or if someone grabs their ass? Ha ha ha. It's not just women. You talk to a straight man who just got hit on by another man and see how stressed out they are. Part of it is sexual hang ups. Another part is that, even with your old lady targets, this does have to do with how to approach women. You may feel you are bestowing a tremendous gift on un-layable old women but they don't see it that way. You should really work on your approach. It would get you farther...

In regards to the ass grabbing, that's bullshit. Keep your hands to yourself. I don't want anyone touching me, especially so intimately, that I didn't give an invitation to. I would argue men feel the exact same way, maybe not YOU, but men do too. You try grabbing a strange man's ass, just as an experiment. Tell me how that works for you when the swelling of your eye(s) goes down.

And Mrstennbabe, it has NOTHING to do with women's empowerment (face palm). Check your own signature. Pretty clear: women like telephones, yeah it's about approach.

 

a gay guy hitting on us is a bad example because that is the same sex and has nothing to do with the comparison. if a woman talked to us like a piece of meat we'd love it.
that's what i am saying about being uptight, women need men to be masters of charm to get it? why is that? if he's good looking then so what?
men are not so uptight.

and i am not saying grabbing ass is okay, but why would you need years of counseling and self help books over it? over a one time ass grab.

 

WHAT AN IGNORANT FUCKING STATEMENT!!!!!!

You know that you sticking your dick in a female ( which I very seriously doubt you have with your sucky attitude) feels better for you than for the woman? You know this how? because you were a woman at some point?

if so that exsplains a LOT

 

Dr love, you obviously have no idea what you're talking about.

 

well if it felt just as good for women that it does for men then all the women here would not being saying things like "he needs to have exceptional charm, get into my mind first, approach me just right, say and do everything just right" and what not. that's basically what women are saying here. women would just go for it to get that penetration with no names or games.

and let's not pretend that just because you're dating him you are suddenly his personal whore because men still complain about getting sex then all the time from their wives, etc.
just like make up sex, women do not do it immediately after fighting, they have to cool down for a while first. not men, they can fuck while still arguing. LOL.

and believe me if we met you would fall for my used car salesmanship approach and my looks...if you didn't know me from this thread at all.
i am well experienced on bullshitting women i meet, it works about half the time.:excited:

 

This is a debate i wont get into, lol.

 

Yea I'm done... I'm pretty sure he just proved his PURE ignorance!^^^