obviously you do not because that's all you got to say, or you are in denial of the truth.

we all know men are much more easy and easy going about sex than women.
we see it all the time.

just because a few women are easy and a few men are not doesn't mean we live in a world where men and women are just as easy about sex 100% to the bone. gimme a break.

 

don't be afraid...wait a second...

 

i'm ignorant? and you are the one telling us women are just as easy about sex as men because they like it as much.

how many men here have tried to get into PMing a girl here with just dirty talk? and how many success stories have you had or them going along with that?

now how many women contact men for the same thing? LOL.

i'm asking everyone here that because this chick is done here.

we all know the answer. even if you deny it.

 

Maybe the women you meet are in fact not so uptight about sex, as much as they are uptight about sex with you.

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This.

 

so you are saying women are just as easy with sex as men? you believe that so long as men have the right charm then women will go along with sex the first night meeting? or are you saying men do not go along with so easy with sex right away?

 

I’m slightly confused as to the intent of the question, or maybe he is actually asking multiple questions as one. He referred to women getting angry, distraught and freaking out when men act like perverts. Then, later he mentioned a guy grabbing a woman’s ass.

The first example that came to my mind was just that: If a female coworker grabbed a guys ass or slapped his butt and made a comment, I think that most men would either blow-off the situation or maybe even laugh about it. Take the reverse, where a male grabs or slaps a females butt and chances are that the guy is going to be out of a job for sexual harassment!!! Hence, the females are uptight about sex.

Apparently, after reading a few more posts, he is asking why women don’t just hump every guy that gives her the opportunity; whereas, men will pretty much jump on anything at any time if given the same chance. But then he gives this example:

Wow. What does a person say to a comment like that?

In the first example, (discounting the appropriateness) it does have a lot to do with the “women empowerment” bullshit (as mrstennbabe mentioned), along with the societies push for the “victimization of women” crap. Plus the fact that women are raised to be more sensitive, while men are raised to suck it up and take it.

Answering the second option, is quite easy. If a woman is the least bit attractive, she is use to guys fawning over her. The men are willing to wine, dine and please her in the hopes of getting sex themselves. I would bet that most women have at least a couple guys on speed-dial, just in case she wants to get laid. Sex is a hell of a lot more important when you can’t get it any time that you want: trust me, I’ve been on both sides of that situation.

Concerning the “BJ” comment, I can’t think of a worst example. I noticed that he didn’t say go to the car and have “SEX”, he said “BJ”. Even as a guy, that seems to me as if she should just jump at the chance to get a guy off, be grateful and then on her way high and dry. If doing things right and the woman is into the guy, why is he not taking her home for some wild and passionate sex. Sex does not always have to be soft, slow and romantic, nor does it always have to be wild and/or kinky. If she’s not worth one guys effort, you can bet that some other guy is standing in line to take his place.

BTW, I think that most women have a lot higher sex drive than one might give them credit. They just have far more ways, opportunities (guys) to have that drive satisfied.

 

Sex is not just a physical act. Women have more responsibility when it comes to sex. She's the one who can get pregnant. She's the one who is more susceptible to diseases. Those two things alone means that generally she's had to be more selective about who she sleeps with.

Societal. We all know that men get kudos for sleeping around and sowing wild oats; women don't. Yes, even in the 21st century women aren't expected to be sexually free. If a male celebrity came out and said he slept with thousands of women, we'd be thinking he was a hero. If a woman did the same, people would say she's not fit to be a role-model.

Even the language we use here in an sexually-open forum, doesn't present sex on equal terms. One guy talked about "violating" women. You hear about "stuffing" her. You think it's cool to use names and acts of degradation. It doesn't seem pleasant at all. Not that it isn't. But it doesn't sound pleasant.

Just think of how many ex-boyfriends put videos up. They only do that because they know it hurts her. Why should having sex be a weapon against her? But it is!

Speaking of weapons. . . sex is often used as a weapon against women. Rape, is the key example.

So it's natural that women will have a different attitude about sex. It doesn't mean they're uptight.

I'd freak out too. Blowjobs are not sex. They're one-sided. Only one of us gets off. If I'm into you, then show me that you're into me too. So let's mutually get each other off. Not ask me just to get you off. What's in that for me!!!! That's what I'd ask you.

On a different note. . .

I actually believe sex feels better for women. A woman's got many more nerve endings in her clitoris than a man has in his whole penis. . . and then you add the vaginal stimulation. . . and the other bits.
Plus multiple orgasms.

I can't imagine it could get better than that.

x74

 

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Ummmm

You have a ill-lined high IQ. As a MAN I will not, can not speak for females. BUT as an out of the box BISEXUAL male. I think I have a very tiny understanding of vulnerability. All guys want unprotected sex!! HELL.... so do I if the RIGHT guy comes along for an LTR. Their bodies are meant to capture everything! I'd be wary too!!

 

I've known some women that are, as you say, 'uptight' about sex; but I've known more men who are more uptight.

 

because we can get pregnant if we screw, duh. everytime we have sex is a possible death (pregnancy) sentence.

 

amen to that. D< freaky fuckers who say they've never masturbated. I do not believe it is physcally possible for a male not to masturbate.


... anita blake?

 

Then I guess I've met the only women on the planet who aren't uptight. Amazing, isn't it?

 

you should be saying that to the OP, not me. he's the one that claimed women were uptight about sex.

 

nice sexism here.

 

don't try to fight it. there is worse in the general discussion section with "can a lady really be a pervert"

 

Don't try to fight sexism? I'm still going to find it inappropriate.

 

that makes sense except the blow job part. if blow jobs aren't sex then if your husband gets a blow job from your best friend then your best friend did nothing wrong?
i don't know if it's true but some girls have claimed to have cum when sucking my dick for a long time.

but yes i know that men are mostly to blame for women being uptight about sex.
then there is just being uptight because men are perverts. even if the man is not trying to hook up with the girl and the girl knows that, but she is still disgusted that he is such a pervert.

 

that's cute. you're right. men are much more uptight about sex. that's all you ever see. maybe if you women didn't treat us like a piece of meat.

i know i speak for all men when i say that i am tired of going to a bar and women offering to buy me a drink and trying to pick me up.
we hate that, right men?
and then there's taking us out to dinner and expecting something/sex in return. how about showing us you care about us first, ladies?
and like i said about walking down the street and a girl offering a "ride" like we are that easy.

we are not sex objects ladies.
i think i'm gonna cry now.