The difference is they are giving their opinion on the subject, whereas you are giving your opinion on their opinion.

My mistake I did not notice you agree with anyone, I will be more thorough next time.

But then again is this me giving my opinion on your opinion?
I'm not sure so I'll call myself a hypocrite and be done with it.

 

I don't really know what planet dr_love is from, but I've been saying for a long time that women are actually becoming bigger perverts then guys these days.

There will always be those women who are uptight about sex, even those who are married and husbands complain. However the opposite is also true where women complain and ask questions on how to get their partner more open and willing for sex.

Reason is that we're all different with different feelings, experiences and outlooks of life and that's what makes things so fun. Any women I've actually become proper friends with never had a problem talking about sex subjects, experiences, etc. I'm sorry but everyone is uptight (besides some morons) unless you gain trust with other people enough to talk about stuff. And even then, just because you're in a relationship/friendship with some trust doesn't mean that you should just let loose.

For many women, it just takes the right guy and the same can be said the other way around. Speaking as a guy, I can definitely say that it takes communication and honesty, as well as the ability to improve her confidence that makes her uninhibited.

And the fact that you assume most women don't watch porn online, etc, for example just shows your ignorance and your need to generalize. Most women don't like to just admit it but actually enjoy porn, if not more then guys. Many guys won't admit it either but do. Just like everything in life that might seem taboo to others. I'm sorry but I've never seen a guy just walk around talking about sex and porn to a general person. And newsflash, but I've never seen anyone openly watch porn and not be secretive about it unless with someone/others they trust and told

Maybe I'm just uptight too, but I don't like admitting to sexual stuff, talking about it, bragging, etc. Even though I do enjoy many things and am definitely not conservative. I won't just pull down my pants and tell my gf to get busy just like she won't either and nor do I expect it. It's called mutual understanding and compatibility.

We both enjoy it very much (more then most I'd imagine) but there's a time and a place for everything. There are times when I'll ravage her and there will be times where she'll ravage me. Sometimes I'll be asking her for it and she won't say no, even if she doesn't feel like it and vice versa.

I also have a problem with the make-up sex you talk about. In my experience I tend to sulk with an argument, but that's because I hate arguing with the woman I love and I always back down. She hates it as well and normally says hurtful things that makes her feel bad and she would nearly always initiate make-up sex and I'd be the one who'd have to cool down.

Yes, the myth is that all men are easy and in many ways it's true. If a woman walks up to a guy, strips and tells him to fuck her, it'd probably work and wouldn't the other way around. Reason being that guys are visual creatures whereas woman are more emotional and look for security. This isn't always true though. Not just any woman can walk up to me, do that, and I'd oblige. To me she'd have to be attractive to me to consider it. However, being in a relationship, even a hotty could do that and I'd decline as I have no interest in sex with other women even though it's a fantasy.

 

but your opinion is the opinion that i said everyone's opinion is the opinion that matters when my opinion is that of my own opinion, so if we say opinion then there is only the opinion left of the opinionated.
so yeah...

 

i wonder if women actually believe it when a guy says he can't sex a girl unless he is attracted to her, as if this guy would pass up a blow job and only that from some ugly chick that asked him. yeah right.

this guy sounds like one of them male feminists who brings his womans slippers to her like a good dog, i guess some men do get trained and trained well.

now this guy is trying to say women like porn just as much as men. you gotta be in la la land to think that and they are becoming bigger perverts than men.
we see this all the time right men? women asking us for sex for money, women browsing through porn shops at the videos like they are looking for their lost cat, and what's with lone women hanging out at strip joints watching men dance? i guess that's why there are way more strip joints for women than men, and so many porn mags for women i mean why not make some for men instead of just a few?
and the one that is really weird is womens obsession with watching 2 men have gay sex.
you don't see us guys doing that really? always women.
that's where the term pervert came from, womens perverted ways.
women are just pigs about sex and i guess that's why they are called dogs.

 

Lol wtf. You're so ignorant. You post here asking why women are so uptight yet I can't see why you bothered. Obviously the only opinion you see is your own and you're not open to others'

You're obviously very narrow minded and believe your experience is greater then everyone elses even though there are 6 billion + other people with different experiences then your own.

I am far from being a male feminist as you put it. I'm a normal guy who doesn't kiss and tell. I'm far from conservative and no I'm not trained like a puppy dog for my partner .

Again you generalize about guys as well. Just because you can't pass up cheap sex doesn't mean that it's the same for all men. What you want is different from millions of other people and the faster you learn not to generalize over your own experiences and wants/needs, the better.

The same goes for the generalization that all men obsess with lesbian porn. In fact it's one of the genres that doesn't get me going. I prefer watching hetero, and group porn scenes because that's what gets me going. We all have different tastes. Heck there are many women who prefer mm gay porn over others. I'd rather watch my gf with another man then with another woman as that's more visually appealing to me. I have a collection of over 1000 movies and only about 10 or so is lesbian in nature. And many times it's my gf who asks if we can watch or suggests it to get in the mood, so please, don't give me your ignorant bs over it.

I think the title of this thread should be changed to: Why do some narrow minded douchebags generalize and don't accept others' opinions other then their own.

it might be long, but this thread shows more ignorance then actual debate on the topic at hand

 

i'm a douche bag? huh, I WISH!

but you are right about one thing at least, some men are kinda weird about being the natural dog they are with sex with women.
have you ever held your hand over a candle flame and severely burned yourself? you know because you touched a slutty chick? you need to stop doing that, wasting candles.
are you sure your woman is not watching you over your shoulder right now on the net? you know, to make sure you are being good.
i don't wanna get you in trouble...then again, that may be good for you.
and just so you know, i do agree with what some women said about all this here, of course when someone doesn't agree with you they are attacking everyone and they should just agree with everybody.

http://video.xnxx.com/video408307/ultimate_gang_bang

 

I think Dr. Love has just been told "no" too many times! Poor thing :-~ Can't IMAGINE why......

 

a very good point

that could be the case. a lot of women want CONNECTION after love
making. they don't want the guy to up and leave.

your being intimate and bonding.

NOT SOME PORN, WHERE THE GUY GETS OFF A NUT & GETS UP &
WALKS AWAY.

real women don't want that type of guy. they want respect,
comfort, acknowledge, & sincere in their relationship.
even right down to love making.

if it's a porn girl you want, there are plenty of them out there.

if it's a woman you want, there are plenty of them out there. but, the only difference is,

A WOMAN WANTS YOU AROUND IN THE LONG RUN. SHE WANTS TO
KNOW, DO YOU HAVE HER BACK IN ALL SITUATIONS.

CAN SHE TRUST YOU ACROSS THE BOARD. SHE WILL SEE THROUGH YOU
AND SMELL YOUR BULLSHIT.

A REAL MAN, WILL EXPRESS IT THROUGH HIS BODY LANGUAGE OF
BOTH VERBAL/NON-VERBAL LANGUAGE.

@ dr. love. my advice is, to go out and hang out with a group of women and observed. OBSERVED !!. you can learn a lot from women.

not just that, how women connect with other women, how they cope with situations in relationships and make it work for them.
it will give you pointers, on how to make your relationship grow and prosper too.

study a women's body language for certain signals. what you say has a positive/negative influence on the opposite sex.

all women love not only attention, but love to be complimented on as well.
as long it's not too extreme and out of character.

not trying to earn any points here from women. but, i work around a lot
and take notice in different forms.

enough said.

 

BAM!

Just had to

 

well i have been rejected before, but i don't care because there are more where that came from. then again i have not been interested in some women who showed interest in me as well, but if one just said they wanted to use me for sex i would do the deed if they persisted. have you ever done that? give some guy a mercy fuck? even if you are more open that most chicks.

 

Amen

 

seems like you're asking why women don't enjoy being sexually harassed or assaulted.