I've NEVER done anal but husband has tried and it KILLS! So, how do you do it without it hurting?

 

I agree with that

 

Actually, I love doing those to my girl, you're very wrong.

 

I really, really, really...like anal - I mean, REALLY guys!!

 

For those who dont like the pain of anal sex...YOUR DOING IT WRONG!!!

Seriously...start small and well lubed and work your way up to bigger and bigger things. As you work your way up there will be no pain and when the time comes for your significant other to penetrate you (or be penetrated, depending on which one you are) you will be able to take it without a problem.once you start doing it on a regular basis you only need to be slow and careful in the beginning then you can hammer away at it.

Why does it seem that everybody wants to try thier first time by getting slammed (or slamming) something the size of a sewer pipe in there and then whine "it hurts too much!"

 

i tried that. it didn't work.

is that what worked for you?

 

You are picking nits. My point is that we guys do all sorts of things that we would rather not do just because our women like it.

We aren't asking for much in return for all of the crap that we do just to make women happy. All we are asking for is that they let us pop that ass every now and then.

 

But women do more. . . Just read these forums and you'll see.
But men always want even more.

And it's not picking nits. . . because if these guys do these things willingly, then in invalidates your point. You're asking for something she'd rather not do, when only doing things you want to do anyway.

I'm just glad I don't have to deal with men like you.

 

Some guys might like performing oral sex on a woman. But I'd rather not do it. It makes me want to puke to even think about it. But I'll do it because 1) that's what a woman wants and 2) I want a woman to give me a blowjob.

Some guys might enjoy foreplay. But I'd rather not do it. I want to get right on down to the action instead of going through that boring crap. But I'll do it because 1) women want it and 2) I want some action.

Some guys might like to lick a woman's asshole. But I'd rather not do it. However, I'll do it....

My point is that we all---both men and women---sometimes do things that we don't enjoy (or even find uncomfortable or distasteful) simply because that's what the other person wants and we want to please him or her.

Regarding the discomfort of anal sex....

As others have pointed out anal sex is not to be done like in the porn movies on the very first try. All of the pornstars did a bunch of preparation before doing the scenes that we see on screen. It takes practice to be able to take a big dick (or two) in one's ass. One has to use plenty of lube. One has to start out small and go larger slowly. First...a finger. Next...a small buttplug. Then...a larger one.

I learned the "hard way" that you can't just jam up something big before your asshole gets used to it. But I can now take a fairly large dildo up my ass. :mrgreen:

The sensation of having something in your ass is fucking amazing! :grin: You are really missing out on a very pleasurable experience simply because you can't get past that momentary discomfort.

 

Wow. The thought makes you want to puke?

I've never heard a man say that before. I have to admit that giving a blowjob isn't my most favorite thing in the world but I still enjoy it because it really turns me on. Even when I think of some of the aspects of it that I don't enjoy as much it definitely doesn't make me want to puke.

 

Joey, foreplay isn't boring!! And if it is, you're doin it with the wrong women

 

That's not the point. He probably doesn't really think it's boring.
He's just trying to stack as many things on one side of the argument so he can justify his demands for anal sex.

And at the same time conveniently forgetting the things that women do for him . . . like blowjobs etc.

 

Never been fucked up the ass, but been fingered and I enjoyed it. Not willing to have anal as a constant thing.. don't want a loose bum hole when I'm old.

 

Most women don't shave. (Most guys don't either, but there usually isn't any hair on the part that women suck on.)

So just imagine having to get your face...and mouth...anywhere near the vicinity of THIS....

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Seriously... I'm just not into eating a woman out as I am into intercourse. I was exaggerating just a tad bit earlier for the sake of emphasis.

No. It isn't boring.

(See my comment above.)

It's not exactly a "demand" for anal sex. It's more a "Please let me experience my favorite fetish at least once in my lifetime...before I'm dead."

 

What?!? Where on earth do you live? My friends and I all shave to keep things tidy. I think most women do.

 

The hair, when a man doesn't shave, does come up the shaft. Unless you only want us to lick the head. . .

 

I shave. All my friends shave. And the guys where I live are also able to groom themselves. I also love taking it up the ass, but I don't think I'd be giving it up to Joey.

 

Nothing that some shaving cream and a razer could not fix.And that could also be fun.That bush is not all too bad either.Now 60's and 70's bush? That is a bit different.


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Noooo...That's hurt.

 

if done correctly its amazing. its such a different feel but you have to keep up the clitoral stimulation and finger her pussy to get to her g spot thats what i like an it gets me off good.
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