hey i was wondering if anybody had any tips how to help me boost my confidence...
i am quite a shy and un confident person and i gets me down to no that
i am not at all confident in my self ...

your help would be great

 

What are you least confident about?

Is it your appearance?
Is it you sexual skills?
Is it your social skills?

 

Stop caring what other people think... and you will have confidence galore...

 

Impossiable. It's human nature to want to be accepted.



But to answer OP's question. Find things about yourself that you like, and play off that! I love my smile and my eyes, I play off of them, I make sure I wear things to compliment my eyes, make up to compliment them...my teeth do all the work for my smile lol

 

but thats the things i dont know what my best "feature" is

 

Confidence isn't about your physical features, its about knowing what you're capable of and what your limits are. Once you figure that out, you start pushing your limits and you start to build confidence in yourself. As your confidence builds you start pushing your limits further and further and your confidence grows and grows.

 

not ture Titop. Im very confidenent with my wife abilities, sex abilities, and parenting abilities, but my physical features, No way.

 

I have this issue as well actually. Unfortinately my "confidence" comes across as "Arrogance" which is an issue that I am trying to fix. Just wish i knew how.


I understand the whole "play on what you find are your best physical features deal". For me that is my Eyes....I wear glasses and I am alergic to contact lenses oddly enough. So I can't really play on that personally although I try.


For me it is also a social thing. I work two jobs and I am very confident talking to my customers and I am confident talking infront of very large groups of people. But one on one conversations in a random location I am useless ha ha.


How in the world I have Payton is a mystery to me ha ha.



Deron

 

baby it was your charm and sexual prowess your caring and confidence believe it or not an your intelligence and humblness that drew me to you i couldnt asl for a better guy
TwistedSoulS
:roseayton

 

Aww I got a love letter!



Deron

 

You have to force yourself into situations where you have to social. Been there, done that. I'm still shy but not as shy as I were before.

 

Exactly

What is confidence? It is being sure of yourself, trusting, knowing that you are capable.

How can you trust yourself if you haven't tested your limits? How can you be sure of yourself and know you are capable if you haven't challenged yourself?

You build confidence by pushing your limits and overcoming challenges. Hit the gym, lift heavy weights, become strong, that helps a lot of people build confidence. Eventually you will learn what you are physically capable of, which is important in many situations in life.

Building confidence in social situations is much the same. Push yourself into the situations you're anxious about. You may stumble a few times, you might make mistakes, that's how you learn and grow and eventually, you'll become
confident in your abilities.

 

A 7 inch cock is better than average. That should give you some confidence.

 

Dr Jack Daniels should be able to help you with that.
P.S all woman love anal sex they just don't know it yet. work with that.

 

Got to agree with 1st reply. fuck what everyone else thinks. i used to be the same but i stopped one day and thought to myself 'fuck the haters' now i've got oodles of confidence. it helps if you're happy with your physical appearance. good luck!

 

I agree about challenging yourself. It might seem tame, but if you can find a course on public speaking, and end up lecturing to a large group, you'll never worry about talking to people again. Then you could do something physically challenging for charity, like a ridiculously long sponsored walk, one of the big city marathons or even just join a group maintaining countryside or historic buildings. In the UK our National Trust sell cheap holidays where they provide board and lodging and you provide muscles to improve their properties. The only risk is that you might end up a confident mouthy environment bore!

Best of luck

 

What you have to think to yourself is that it's your lack of confidence, in and of itself, that causes you to fail. Your insecurity makes you appear weak and needy.

And the second thing you have to think to yourself is that you don't have anything to lose by appearing more confident than you feel. What's the worst that can happen? You try again with someone else. And if you succeed, you'll be amazed what it will do for your confidence.

 

Public speaking? Wow....I thought he just wanted to get laid.

 

hey thanks guys and why are you offering me a shag ?