are there some things that cross line?
and what are they?
whether you are a guy or a chick.

 

I think racial/ethnic slurs in dirty talk not ok- especially when not agreed on/okayed prior.

 

Yes, a line can be crossed.

Sometimes pushing the envelope also reveals some very interesting characteristics about one's partner. Discovering my wife liked to have sex with other men was revealed by the wetness of her pussy when the topic was brought up during bedroom talk/foreplay. For some, that would be the end of it; for us, it developed into a very open relationship that, when appropriate, we share with others.

But this is subjective. Some people role play forced sex, or bondage, or pain, or groupsex or bareback gangbangs but have no intention of actually doing the behavior.

The problem is that if you do cross the line, can you come back without having a fractured relationship?

I am male.

JMHO

 

Yes somethings cross the line.

The line is different for everyone. There are some things I wouldn't want to hear/be called that others would love to.

I'm female.

 

Reminds me of that Sienfeld episode about Jerry's girlfriend panties, and her dirty talk. He said "you mean the ones your mother left out for you"? She freaked out. That was damn funny.

 

Actually, yes. I can only listen to "give me that big, fat monster" and "you're splitting me in two, Baby" three or four times each session before it gets redundant.

 

Depends on what it is I suppose, although you should always clear dirty talk in general before hand, otherwise someone's going to be left high and dry.

 

Know your audience.

 

Yes.
When you are both finished and one of you can't stop talking about cleaning the windows, or washing the car.:excited:

 

there is always a line that can't be crossed.. everyone has their own boundaries and things they can deal with.. know your partner and what they like and dislike is the key i think.. that way the boundaries of dirty talk wont be crossed

 

This actually reminds me of an old joke...posted after my reply...but I agree with ThomP "know your audience".

Uhm...Umpire..."you're splitting me in two, Baby" is not your fault...however..I think we talked about that


TO MY DEAR WIFE:

During the past year I have tried to make love to you 365 times.

I have succeeded 36 times, which is an average of once every ten days.

The following is a list of why I did not succeed more often:

54 times the sheets were clean

17 times it was too late

49 times you were too tired

20 times it was too hot

15 times you pretended to be sleep

22 times you had a headache

17 times you were afraid of waking the baby

16 times you said you were too sore

12 times it was the wrong time of the month

19 times you had to get up early

9 times you said werent in the mood

7 times you were sunburned

6 times you were watching the late show

5 times you didnt want to mess up your new hairdo

3 times you said the neighbors would! hear us

9 times you said your mother would hear us

Of the 36 times I did succeed, the activity was not satisfactory
because:

6 times you just laid there

8 times you reminded me theres a crack in the ceiling

4 times you told me to hurry up and get it over with

7 times I had to wake you and tell you I finished

1 time I was afraid I had hurt you because I felt you move

TO MY DEAR WIFE-RESPONSE

I think you have things a little confused. Here are the reasons you didnt get more than you did:

5 times you came home drunk and tried to screw the cat

36 times you did not come home at all

33 times you came too soon

19 times you went soft before you got in

38 times you worked too late

10 times you got cramps! in your toes

29 times you had to get up early to play golf

2 times you were in a fight and someone kicked you in the balls

4 times you got it stuck in your zipper

3 times you had a cold and your nose was running

2 times you had a splinter in your finger

20 times you lost the notion after thinking about it all day

6 times you came in your pajamas while reading a dirty book

98 times you were too busy watching football, baseball, etc. on TV

Of the times we did get together:


The reason I laid still was because you missed and were screwing the sheets.

I wasnt talking about the crack in the ceiling, what I said was, "Would you prefer me on my back or kneeling?"

The time you felt me move was because you farted and I was trying to breathe.

 

This sums it up!

 

It's different for everyone and every situation. Couples have to find what works for them and what doesn't.

Some things are a turn-off for me when I see/hear them in porn, and I would have trouble saying them. For example, I see videos where girls exhort the man to "tear them apart". I don't think there's anything remotely sexy about that.

And then there's the racial stuff...you know, "fuck me with that nigger cock". I would never say something like that unless I was absolutely certain my partner really got off on it, and even then it would be difficult for me.

 

Actually, I sometimes wish they would talk more and moan less. That can REALLY get reduntant!

 

I can't call a girl a slut, whore, or bitch. Can't do it. The most I'd say is "DON'T be a whore"...

 

for me know say anything the dirtier the better. degrade and humiliate me

 

i agree. girls who just moan gets boring and redundant like these girls in porn movies who sound 100% the same when they all moan and say the same exact 5 things over and over that all porn girls say like
"oh yeah oh yeah"
"oh god"
"oh yes YES!"
"oh yeah baby"
"oh shit" if they feel extra crazy.

but then some can be real slutty about just moaning only where they sound like total nympho bimbos getting off, it's certainly better than no sound at all.
or a girl who screams and yells non stop like her arm is being cut off is just distracting and annoying and trying too hard.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LafoDMH6Tw

 

YUP

YOU CALL THAT DIRTY...LOL

I LOVE TO HEAR A GUY TALK DIRTY BUT DON'T GET DISGUSTING....WHEN IN DOUBT DON'T SAY ANYTHING, JUST MOAN

 

ditto