Men are such horndogs. They can be so goofy sometimes. Really guys, try thinking with the big head for a change. If you want to impress a girl, you have to be more respectful. Women don't respond well to creepy or perverted behavior. Try turning on the charm instead.

Women are not like men. A woman will not jump into bed with just anyone. We are more emotionally driven. We need to feel an emotional connection with a guy before we let him get into our panties. If you like a girl, you need to build trust and a good rapport with her.

Sure, some women are sluts. Most are not. When I have sex with a guy, I feel as if he is taking a piece of me. I don't want to give that to just any guy. My pussy is a special gift. It has to be earned.

 

Can I earn it ?

 

LMAO :excited: That's funny! I have been with a few girls. My ex boyfriend talked me into a few threesomes with other girls. I was in college at the time. It was fun and very exciting. It's fun to play with others girls. But I still like guys better.

 

Great post

 

Just because the men you know will jump into bed with anyone does not mean all men act that way.

"My pussy is a special gift"
I'll take you at your word that your pussy is absolutely spectacular, but I find it strange that you think your pussy is a special gift, but not you as a person. Sounds to me like you have been with men who have treated you like a collection of desirable body parts while ignoring your personality and your heart. Believing men are singularly seeking only your "special gift" does you, and men, a disservice.

 

Hey wait a minute...I am not easy, but I can be had.!.

 

When asked are you Free I usually reply either: "No,but I can be bought." or "No,but I am reasonably pri¢ed."

I too wonder though why you don't think of you being a special gift.

 

I like the question, "Would you like to go out for a nice dinner or would rather just have the money and go back to my Place?"...

 

All by myself ...

I stopped giving them that choice, they always took the cash and then left me standing at my door.

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Hehe no harm in asking ^_^ I've not tired a girl yet so can't tell ya which I prefer.. One day maybe ! x

 

Expect to be inundated with requests for participants/voyeurs from the fringe element.

 

I don't look for pussy, I look for a person....I suspect that most blokes concentrated in the general discussion section of this forum are the same..

Now show me your tits :excited:

 

I agree that men must be respectful and not creepy, you would have to describe your definition of perverted, it may be different than mine.

You're confusing Love & Sex with the emotional connection they're two unconnected things in my world. Now don't go saying "Slut" like it's a bad thing :excited:

Tina :rose:

 

You are missing the point. I meant that men in general tend to want sex from a woman ASAP. I didn't mean all men. I should have been more clear about that. Some men might want to wait, but not most. I think we can all agree that most men are horndogs. I'm not blaming you guys. I know it's not your fault. It's part of who you are and I wouldn't change that. I like the fact that men want me. I love it when a guy checks me out. It makes me feel good about myself.

I do consider myself to be a gift. How much of that gift I will give a guy depends on how I feel about him and how he treats me. I will kiss a guy on the first date if it feels right to me. I have even let guys touch my titties on a first date. If I like a guy and feel comfortable with him, he can touch me. My pussy however is off limits until after we have dated a while. I will not let a guy fuck me for at least a month. I need to know that he cares about me first. I don't mind giving a guy a blow job after a week or two of dating. I know how important it is to keep a guy interested. If he wants my pussy, he will have to win my heart first. If he does that, he can fuck me as much as he wants. :excited:

 

My pussy's a gift too. But I like to swap gifts a bit earlier than you.
I like sex. So it's not just about giving. I get something back too.

So I don't see the point in playing games and having arbitrary rules about things.

If it feels right, I go for it. Sometimes it feels right on the first date; other times it never feels right (and I move on).

 

Charlotte you bemoan the behaviour of men and then go on to describe your self as a game player with your own set of rules for keeping a man interested.
You are in fact self prophesying the very behaviour you say you abhor.
Giving blow jobs to keep a man interested long enough to care about and know you is the exact horndog role play you moan about.
Now I am a horndog I expect, but oral is something shared not dolled out to keep me in line.....but that is just me

 

I understand what you mean. I enjoy sex too. It feels really good to me. Especially when a guy has the right equipment and knows how to use it. When there is an emotional connection, it can be amazing. There is nothing else like it. You feel as if you are the only two people in the world at that moment. I like to cuddle with the guy after we are done. It makes me feel so happy and peaceful. It's very romantic. :rose:

There are other times when I'm just horny and want to be fucked. Sometimes I want my man to just grab me, strip me naked and fuck the shit out of me. Spank my ass, pull my hair and call me a filthy slut. That kind of sex can also be great. It all depends on my mood. I still want the guy to care about me though. I still want to cuddle after. :rose: That's just the kind of girl I am.

 

Gift or not, I want my fucking cock back when it's all said and done.

 

I don't go in for that. I like sex and I have sex. I don't need to be called names to be sexual. . . I will not stand for it.

Sounds to me you got a classic case of female repressed sexuality.

You're not comfortable with being sexual. You either have to be all coy and play games OR you got to be 'forced' and 'dominated' so can think that it's up to him and his desires and you don't have to feel responsible for acting in the manner you really want to.

 

love & sex

I think the two are connected, love & sex with an emotional respect for who you are with at that time, wether it be a one nighter or longer term, but hey thats my thought....:rose: