maybe its hard to know I told him how bad it is. and he doesnt seem to think I have a problem I also mentioned my libido before he did

 

Desiree

antidepressants etc can directly affect sex drive. Theyre chemically active on the brain. Very very very few chemicals are.. most get weeded out at the blood-brain barrier. And since 90% of sexuality is mental. Personally i think youre lucky and should get a man/woman with equal sex drive. Or maybe both eh?

Theres something weird about your psychiatrist asking you about your sex drive every session yet not acting to change what you obviously view as a problem. You should not even the psychiatric industry itself openly admits there is no science backing up talk therapy. It is Not science based and statistical studies have shown it is ineffective. In other words its a big scam. You might want to look into getting another one.. one with a more scientific education.

 

perhaps your right Ian. I really have to think about it its a big decission and I have had him for 2 years

 

i have a female friend

who has a literally uncontrollable sex drive. Shes tall, pretty, big boobs. Was married to another friend of mine.

It has destroyed her life and honestly, has caused all of her friends (including me ) to abandon her it has messed her personality up so much. So i DO feel for you though like everyone else i came to the threat because "insanely horny woman" is a fun idea.

 

Damn, I.m always at the wrong place at the right time.Your fuck buddies must be duds. I'd like to spend a couple of days with you Desiree:rose:

 

thanks Ian and knot lol

 

Lol gonna answer this one too Desiree, hope you don't mind!

Trust me, they weren't duds that's why they got to be fuck buddies! I want you to sit, and really, really think, about how long you could physically have sex for. I know guys say "oh I was sore the next day", I'm talking sore as in having cramps for two days after, sore as in you can't get hard anymore, because the stretching of the skin on your cock brings you too tears, that I've had sex for 20 hours in a day, slept, and then woke him up for more. And still wanted to fuck! Do you really think you could take a steady diet of that? Every day? I doubt it. Me and my husband deal with it, and before I met him, it was nothing to go through four men in one day. And I don't mean they came once and shows over, I mean I got them hard again, and again and again. Until they were dry-cumming, and asking me to stop because the lightest touch, hurt. It's not a good thing to have this kind of sex drive. It's destroyed relationships, friendships, and every person you look at isn't seen as "Just a friend". Your very first thought, is I wonder what his cock would feel like and it's extremely hard to say no, even when you should. I'm actually pretty amazed at Desiree that she can control it, I sure as hell couldn't.

 

thanks villans wife. It seems im not in league with you so thats a good thing. Though I do want to keep going but only ever found a guy that came twice and wouldn't keep going after that so I don't know my limit yet. my current fuckbuddies consist of one thats experienced but will come quickly sometimes in 30 seconds and hardly ever sees me. Another that I havent gotten around to sex yet and wont even cum but some how ends up with us cuddiling wtf. and one who I know can go up to 12 hours who wont have sex with me because I like him and hes afraid of hurting my feelings

 

That's the hard part about sleeping with friends, there's always more involved. It's safer by far though, and I'd be glad to have a male friend smart enough to say no, to be honest. And lol at the cuddling guy, maybe he thinks he's doing the right thing? and congrats on making a guy cum in 30 seconds, that's always a bit of a power trip, for me at least. I think my fastest was a minute or two. I'm glad for your sake your not as bad off as me. I saw what you said about your psychiatrist, I really think he should address that issue. Sorry if I;m a little disjointed in here, it's bed time I just logged on for a few minutes. Maybe your doctor could talk to him, or you may have to pressure your psychiatrist into listening to you. I know it took me a few tries before my doctor listened to me, he'd just laugh and brush it off. I guess the key there is it was a male doctor? @.@ Have a good night Desiree!

 

ok thanks villans wife im going to get some sleep to think I might have food poisoning groan

 

I go through phases like this sometimes, thinking about seeing a doctor now.













Hopefully I get a female one.

 

Have your progesterone tested. Not a blood test but a saliva test. Blood test wont show it. You can order this test on line. look up "saliva hormone tests" on google. here are a couple of sights you might want to look at

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persistent_genital_arousal_disorder

http://womenshealth.about.com/b/2003/08/05/pulsating-throbbing-tingling-vagina.htm


You may want to get one that includes testosterone.

This is something you can do privately from home.

My wife had this many years ago and it drove her crazy until a woman doc found out what it was. Her progesterone levels were through the roof. She had been using a progesterone cream improperly. once she stopped it went away. There may be other reasons you progesterone levels are abnormally high.

hope this helps

 

Those are good sites Oldiegoodie, the first one is very similar to what happens to me. I hope they help Desiree!

 

thats great goodie i will definitly check them out

 

well went to see doctor and asked to have protestogen levels taken. but instead he refused to saying that its not his area and to talk to my psyciatrist and he will look around for other avenues. fuck this is frustrating but atleast i had an idea im going to make a libido diary maybe then someone will take me seriously groan.

 

I'd love to read your diary.

I'm going to PM you hun

 

That's actually a pretty good idea, I know my sex drive goes in cycles. If I'm single, I try to find a guy just before I go into lust, when I'm still able to think sanely.

 

Hi Desiree,

I can see the frustration in your situation. Just to get it out, I would love to be one of your fuck buddies. I know I am hard almost all the time, even wake up in the middle of the night because I roll over onto my hard cock.

As for the medication you should look them up online and see if they have any side effects that are similar or exactly like what you are experiencing. Talking to your Doctors is always a good thing. If they are not answering you, then see if there is a local health care center or planned parenthood center. Not sure if they have something similar in your area. They may be able to answer some questions or direct you to the right source.

 

It's normal to be horny. More so then ever, if it's alright to have multiple sex buddies.

Men are cheered for having many women, but women are called slut for having many men.

Don't let society judge you or tell you what you feel is bad, or taboo or wrong. Being horny is simply Nature taking it's course.

Remember also that feeling horny, and having an orgasim are 2 different things.
Maybe you want to cum (to flow or squirt) but you have not found the right guy. I wish you luck, but to me that is not a problem. Be happy you are extemely horny, because when you get older, you might wish you still could get horny

 

Unfortunately soymoy I don't think you have grasped the topic fully. I think the issue is not that she is horny all the time like a young and fully healthy woman of her age. But the fact that even after she has some satisfaction her sex drive does not diminish like it does in some women and men. As has been discussed there could be many reasons why and she is exploring all of those to make sure that there is not a medical issue she needs to be concerned with.