I am praising strong men for their roles in life I am not discussing women

 

Yes, I agree.

 

But the topic of this thread is strong women. What is your opinion of strong women? What is your opinion of a woman who educates herself, has a career, marries, has children, a full time job, still cares for the home, cooks, tends to her children's needs, contributes to the household and enjoys a partnership with her husband? What is your opinion Catrina? I never hear you speak of strong women - only those who would serve as opposed to those who would partner.

 

hugs thank you michael

 

If that makes them happy more power to them for me to raise a family and serve a husband and to stand together in life is the geatest role for me.

 

You still didn't answer my question - what is your opinion of strong independent women who particpate as a 50% partner in their relationships? For that matter, what is your opinion of a man who would help out with the cooking, laundry and child care?

 

Orion would question why men HAVE to be strong and protect women....

I'm not saying all men should do this but I certainly like being strong and protecting women if they need it...

 

How about "they are more interesting" as an answer.

Thinskin

 

If that is what they want I am happy for them for me it isn't how I would want to live my life.

 

Hugs Origen many women love being protected and looked after.

 

I have been sexual with two different men over and over again for the past 2 years that know me very well, close friends outside of the bedroom. They are shocked that I am so submissive in the bed room and in my real life I control the shots and what is going on. So I really do not think my life and bed room are anything a like... In addition women are more dependent that every before in the work force, being parents and their salary.

 

Catrina - I didn't ask if you were happy for them or if you want to live that way. I asked your opinion about the modern married lifestyle. With today's economy, most families need two incomes. Everyone has to participate in homemaking and child rearing. What is your opinion?

 

I think you were right the first time. See red type above. :excited:

 

It's my belief that it takes a strong woman to be able to submit. It's an opportunity for her to let down her guard and allow someone else to take control. But notice I said, she allows it to happen.

 

It is a wonderful way to life if that is how they want to live I would never tell someone what is the proper way of being in a relationship.

 

..........With her mate, I presume. Does she offer him the same facility?

Thinskin

 

I think a couple decides together, spoken or unspoken. In a true relationship, there are boundaries decided, games chosen, and sometimes a reversal of roles. Doesn't make either one of them weak or strong - it makes them equal.

 

yes each couple defines their roles and must leave room for growth and change.

 

I like where your head is at Ejls! And I agree, bc if I do not trust him and am confidant with myself I will not let my guard down!

 

But you said it takes a strong women to submit.

Aren't strong and equal mutually exclusive?

Thinskin