/facepalm

Cantrina's got a fucking dick, Christ.

 

Rememeber that men and women are not very much different.

While in the beastial way, men are the creature that protects the females, and loves her and blah blah blah.

Reality is that, men and women are equally strong.

How do you determing you're strength?

Well in my opinion Try this.

When something awful happens to you in you're life, do you get crushed and need to finds "someone" to be strong for you? or do you become strong for you're self.

LETS SAY ..pretend....that my mother died. I would cry like a cry baby man, but i would be stronger.

I value emotions, because with emotions, men and women can get strong.

ANOTHER THING IS

in today's world some mom's are divorced, with children. So it's OK and PREFERED to let the man assume the role of Protector and father.

ALso gay man, one of them could assume the role of Mom.

In the end, stop making fights about men being better then women ,or women being better then men. The only thing that seperates us, is our human child creation and organs. Everything else ( in my opinion) can be looked upon a certain perception.

 

Have you ever looked at Craigslist personals?

Those women are blunt. They sure don't look weak to me.

 

There are a few muscle women porn sites on the web those women scare me a bit but if thats what your into

 

I don't think BEING STRONG has anything to do with you're body.

Being strong has to do with MIND and SPIRIT

you can be a weak little man (like me) or a weak little women, and still be strong.

Muscle does not eqaully true strength. Spirit, fortitude, and Iron Will are STRENGTH

but im just ranting my dumb opinion.
TIP : when a women is divorced she assumes the role of man, to protect her children and family. Divorced women are strong.
AND weak men are weak in spirit and mind. And vice verse

 

There have been great posts so far, so not much new to add...but seriously soymoy...these two posts made me frown

I think you´re being a bit general here...women are ruled by their emotions? That sounds like you copied that out of a book from about 200 years ago....I for one am not ruled by my emotions...more the opposite and its definitely not gender specific today anymore, its just about the person you are....sure women get raised in a more accepting way of showing their emotions and men are raised not to, but that doesn´t mean that men don´t have them, they just are afraid to show!

And as to men being better thinkers....i´ll write about that in relation to your second quote

Men get straight to the point and women are unfocused? :lol: thats so bullshit...you know why you´re thinking that? Because women do think differently, yes! Let me try to come up with an example....

lets say for instance you have a poor family in Africa, not much western influence, so it would be natural in a way! So, if you gave a man money, what do you think he would THINK to do....he´d buy stuff! He´d buy maybe something to drink and to eat and if his family was lucky he´d bring something home!
Now give a woman money, she, would not think straight and think oh I need to buy food, no she would think of her children, her family and her future, she´d think around all the little corners and think...oh I´ll buy a goat or some seeds, I´ll plant something so the stuff I buy won´t only satisfy my needs right now, but it will LAST for the future!

Women don´t think straight, that is right...they often choose the more complicated, less beneficial decision because they think about the people around them...whereas a male boss would often just thrive for profit in his firm, a woman would oten consider what the price is and if she really wants to fire people just for profit...

Now I do realise this is a generalisation by far! And men make absolute good decisions too...I just wanted to give these examples, not to state women think better but that women often consider more!

I don´t think women or men think better...i think it always depends on the individual PERSON no matter the gender!




As to the original topic I think maybe women are trying to get more power, etc. in businesslife...they are trying to get equal pays, etc. and women are nowdays in high positions...perhaps that may be the reason why they feel like relaxing and not having to be in control all the time at home and enjoy the man bringing them pleasure, instead of being in control....

 

Basically i feel that to find god, you have to feel god.

If you try to think you found, god, or find god with solid logical evidence, you wont find him

I believe women are better feelers because it's innate for women to feel Life, Nature, mother-earth.

Man, they think a lot, as do I

But our thinking to find the truth causes damage to our world
That is why the world is run by men, and why we have so many world problems.

I think if men were to be more feelers, and less thinkers, we all could find god, and be a happier human race.

 

Sorry didn't mean to bash you. Just needed some time to meditate and think how i could say my point of view more clearly.

Yes, I think women feel because they are closer to nature, and men think because that's what men are good at doing. Why?

Um..i can only assume it's the penis. LOL

Now i know there is execeptions, i am not trying to save not all men and women are the same, but i feel that this is a generalization.

Now if we can just be more feeling to each other as a human race, we could find the god beneath each of are bodies, into our souls.

 

so if women are so bad at thinking how come that SO many women wo have been left by their straight thinking men manage to raise several kids, earn money and do what do I know all on their own? I think women are very capable of thinking and deciding whats necessary!

Sure give us a 100 pairs of shoes to choose from and we´ll be in heaven thinking about which pair to chose, but that is a wholly different scenario....just because a man doesn´t care what he´s wearing doesn´t mean he is the better thinker!

 

oh and about god, buddha etc. being male, have you ever thought that the reason for that might be that at the time the bible etc. was written women were supressed...of course a man who thinks women are weaker persons wouldn´t depict god as a woman!

In the past women have proven themselfes to be great thinkers too....for example many women being able to make healing substances from plants, etc. just because they were supressed doesn´t mean they weren´t there!

 

Well all i can say is if you like to think a lot. Goodluck. I learned that the reason i think a lot if because of fear

I am glad i am not a good thinker. Atleast i can be pratical to save this world

I'm not trying to bash women Jamie i'm sorry if i sounded like i am
Women are better then men because they are feelers.
Feeling in my opinion is better then Thinking, by a long shot.

Sorry if i made you upset

 

I understand that when men leave a women to raise a family, it's hard very hard. I know there is anger, and pain in the feelings and emotions.

Not all men are bad and not all women are bad but i think that when women has to go though an experience like that, she shouldn't resent all men.

Also i think while thinking could help a women with her family and children, when the man left her, she had to heal her mind and spirit, and suffering can make us better feelers.

The more miserable my life is, the better i can feel , and the more understandinf and spirtual i can become.

Misery makes you stronger ; it makes you more spirtual, makes you're emotions feel stronger, and makes you more spirited and independent.

 

No you did not...I just don´t see why you´re so focussed on saying one is better....I don´t think one is better at anything...(ok maybe physically bound but not mentally) I think its always the individual, regardless of the gender!

 

Ok.

 

Well jamie, Moderator. I want to say lets agree to disagree shall we Have a safe night.

 

ha ha alright I can live with that

 

HOLY HANNAH!! Where we started and where we are ending on this thread is confusing at best. My toast to women, no matter your choice of role in a relationship. You want to be a sub, by all means...let him tell the general public HOW you think, what you want and need...
For those that have freedom enough to think, feel, realize, discuss and nurture a relationship, with or without difficult complications, another toast.

No matter your opinion and preferecne though. It is what it is, with whoever you are with. Be sub. Be dom/me, be who you are.
Soymoy.............all you are doing is irritating at best.
Stop, please stop, trying to make a valid point, instead of the switch hit, meditation bull you keep shooting. You think you understand and know women? You are one of the farthest off on the forum right now...meditate some more.

 

I'm just saying, emotions are better then thoughts in this 3rd dimension. That's how i feel.

Feeling has helped me a lot in my growing up. Sexually, spirtually, and intellectualy.

Sorry if i was annoying

 

SoyMoy. you're going to be left to drown at this point.
Your best bet is to hook up, opinion wise, with Catrina and nix the rest of responses you get. As is apparent in responses from women, attached or not, to the original OP, there are plenty of strong women. Attracting them however, is a whole different matter. A strong woman will seek a strong partner. Not to submit, but to reach a status of equality. She will do things you don't, and you will do things she doesn't. Strength in your opposite or other half, is not comparison or competition, it is a balancing act. That makes a general and wide sweeping statement, however if you are looking for half, you will get half. It's what you're willing to put in half of, that you're going to get completion of.

 

Yes you are right i don't know, with love, i feel i can love a person no matter what so dreamy..... they might not love me back. But i love them anyways. The best love is too love someone for their free will --- and if they choose to love you back. So much better