I am currently not in my country and yet I am still hearing about rapes constantly I am a soldier and yet there is rape everywhere... I cain't figure this shit out... what is so great about rape? male on male, male on female, female on male, female on female, its all the same someone gets demoralized... I even had to point this out to some dickhead over here because the subject was brought up and he said " well its no wonder why people are getting raped all of the girls just don't wanna pay no attention to us younger guys." Had to tell him look I'm twenty years old and I have a hard time finding a woman to be interested in me cause most guys my age have the bad rep. of cheating, abusing, being vastly immature, and RAPING women.... but its not bad enough for me to take it out on someone... So why cain't other idiots learn to keep it in their pants 'til the other party wants it out? and that is once again for all genders let me not forget to be politically correct...

 

In my opnion i think rape has to do with being in control.

Now how does that work? i like to believe that if you ignore someone long enough ( and if they wish to be given attention or if they want to be loved) they might feel resentment that no one likes them or cares about them.

Because they keep thinking like this, they start to think that only real way to get love, or to have them pay attention is to force someone to love them and force someone to pay attention...

And hence that is how i see rape develop. But intense ignore from everyone and everythinf can bring you insanity, which makes you crave attention, or control ,and so you seek it out by force.

That's what i think. I don't study psycholgy, i just meditate. So i'm not truly true JST

 

Those who feel they have no control of their life sometimes try to take control of another's to satisfy their own needs.

 

Rape is not about sex. Rape is about power, about violence, about anger.

 

Thats what the shrinks say, but I can't help but believe that some times it is just a hard dick looking for a hole for pleasure.

 

That is a liberal dogma. When a man rapes a woman all of the physical symptoms of sexual arousal are present. The man has an orgasm. He gets pleasure from the event.

 

You are correct insofar as you detail the physical characteristics. But I still assert that the main stimulus is not the act of intercourse, it is the act of power, dominion, and degredation. The sex is simply a by-product as well as a method to induce such degradation upon his chosen victim.

 

I am not a rapist. I assume you are not. We can only speculate.

 

Or, in my case, spend countless hours reading papers and listening/watching interviews with criminal psychologists, as well as hours of interviews with convicted murderers, rapists, and paedohpiles - all of which have led me to believe that these people are sexually aroused by wielding absolute power.

 

It is still sexual, not for the woman, but for the man. A rapist desires a woman he realizes he cannot seduce, he thinks he can get away with raping her, so he does. It is very simple, actually. Rapists are evil and deserve to be punished, but their motives are easy to understand.

 

Is that so?

 

What are you trying to do? Understand to the point of forgiveness? Criminals deserve to have suffering inflicted on them.

 

[My emphases.]

Pardon my Wiki, but...

 

Understand to the point of forgiveness? No. Understand to the point of - oh, I don't know - reasonable understanding of a difficult and controversial question? Yes.

Whitewash the entire question with a simplistic answer that doesn't begin to address the myriad of crimes out there? No.

 

9 out of 10 women enjoy being taken against their will, most women will fight ut then give in and enjoy it, hence the reason 1 out of 10 rapes are reported, also, why would any man say he was raped by a woman, only a gay man wouldnt enjoy it?

 

Back into your box with you. With any luck, no-one else will respond to your pathetic attempts to start an argument.

 

I've always thought that was the case some times.

 

People who are simply 'looking for pleasure' do not usually have the particular psyche required to maintain arousal through brutal physical assault.

 

I'm not saying every rapist, every time. I said sometimes but I do believe more often than not it is about power.

 

One way or another why whether it is the power or the pleasure I can find better ways to solve both problems one I am a deployed soldier it has been six months since I have had sex... I would love to have a "hole to pleasure myself in" but I am not in a relationship, do not care to find a one night stand, and I'm doin' fine with my right friggin' hand every once in a while, and as far as the power well there are other things to do to get that experience (I don't think I spelled that right but to hell with it) I'm military, there are positions of power there, also there are some men and women that enjoy being degraded, overpowered, and dominated, to extremes, that is how BDSM came around... I had an ex that begged me to smack her around which I could not bring myself to do...
Also while I am on it why are these sick twisted sons of bitches gettin' off so easily... armed robbery- twenty five to life no parole no nothin' (slight exaggeration I know but you get the point) rape- five years with parole in two... Why cain't we just take the sorry sons of bitches out back and shoot them?