It's one thing to call my lady my good slut. It's quite another to call her a worthless slut. I believe in an equal but opposite partnership. If one person wants an extreme something then the other person should be equally extreme the other way. I'm more than happy to work to meet my lady's needs as long as she doesn't end up harmed. Tying her up and spanking her is one thing as long as it does not become abuse. The same thing can happen verbally.

If that means I am not a Dom or cannot sufficiently dominate my lady then so be it.

 

i am very into it being a dom and also as my title dominus. its not about the actual degradation or humiliation its about the trust in a subs master to bring him or her(the sub)to a point of their weakness and gaining strength from that(again the sub). sort of like climbing to the top of a tall building and looking over the edge to gain strength over ones fear of heights. for me being a dom isnt about the domination of one person just to be better than them. its about mutual and absolute trust in each other and if this is what the sub either requires or desires then it shall be so. with my subs there is constant talk of what is and is not wanted or desired and with talking and training constantly, both the sub and the dom and fulfilled. subs or slaves are not actually treated as less than human with out first discussing that type of "play". if the sub is subjected to that with out his or her consent or anything else then it is abuse and is not the true nature of the dom/ sub relationship.

 

That makes sense to me.

 

And your self esteem is really small. FAIL

 

Don't worry, I'll sign myself into the "don't have a fucking clue" school of sex then. I'll see at recess behind the bike sheds. We can compare notes.

 

No, it's me but then I don't look like a fucking dog either.

 

Have you just joined? Take a look around, hopefully my comment will be the worst you see because I don't think you'd be able to take anything stronger.

 

How the fuck would you know? Have we talked before? Go get a pencil and paper, draw yourself a bath and plunge in head first and breathe deep.

 

You haven't seen any pics of her have you Norty? Hardly a dog - more a fox.

Back to the classroom for you my boy.

 

Shooo, adults are talking!

 

That made me laugh, nice put down, degrading and humiliating.

 

Good Christ. with all of this ^ degrading bull shit between members anyone who loves being humiliated would just have to join right meow.

Over it.

 

Love being the weak submissive one. Treat me like a bitch an call me what you want. And more.

 

I am a DOM

I love to use, abuse and humiliate fuck slut cum bags. Things I do to useless pieces of whore meat.

1. Chain up
2. Whip
3. Gag
4. Face Fuck
5. Give Enemas
6. Insertions (brushes, broom handles, candles, bats, dildo, anal beads etc...)
7. Piss on and in
8. Nipple and clamp torture

And a whole bunch more

 

It depends on the TYPE of D/s relationship xiara. For some they are pretty equal out in public. You'd never know anything were "different" in the bedroom. But when it comes time for play time, foreplay might include humiliation and degradation. Some women get off on it..some men too for that matter.

Then there are other relationships where one is always submissive and it may stay that way in the bedroom or be more extreme.

Then there are the ones where they're fairly equal but the sub is given humiliating or degrading punishments should they break a "rule" or upset the Dominant.

And then there are the millions of "normal" relationships where one person is dominant but in a far more subversive way. I honestly can't think of any couple I know that is EQUAL. They may THINK they are. But it's obvious that one of them always gets their way. Either because one just always gives in. Or one pushes and argues till they get their way. Or one manipulates the other into giving them what they want. I have never EVER seen a relationship where close inspection couldn't peg one as the dominant and one as the submissive. Hell, just ask a couple's kids some time. One of the parents is ALWAYS boss. Kids know who to go to when they wanna get what they want and DREAD hearing "go ask your Mother/Father" cause they know that'll be the final say and the other won't bother arguing on their behalf.

 

Well, you certainly are getting a variety of answers !! Being Dominant or Submissive is not something a person turns on or off.... it is in their make up... their personality .. it is "natural". With that said, degrading or humiliation would be something that turns both of them on... example: I take my wife out to dinner wearing a button up blouse and short skirt. (She doesn' wear bra or panties). Each time the waiter comes to the table I have her open another button until it is open below her tits. This gives her a humiliatting feeling and also makes her very wet. Once he starts lingering at our table more and looking down her blouse the humiliation increases and so does her wetness.. to the point of dripping. Sometimes I will go out for a smoke after dinner and he will enevitably come to the table to check our drinks and try to talk with her while he is staring at her tits... when I come back she is very hot !! Sometimes there will be a man (or men) at a table near us that can see under the table... I put my hand on her thigh and slowly rub higher up to her pussy while they are staring in unbelief !! She has orgasmed many times while sitting in a restaurant this way..... and we also do these types of things in many other places !! This is an example of how we enjoy humiliation in our relationship... and it is VERY HOT !!So...... what was your real question ?? What form of degradation and humiliation interests you ?? PM me. Alphaone

 

LOL!!!!!!!!!

dude I still can't stop laughing!

 

i enjoy being degraded and humiliated. it's sexy and a turn on. it's not everyones choice, so to each their own. i don't push my partner to do it. however a steer in the right direction and most are down to play