but see you only have insults without a theory to what you oppose
from my opinion, and look up the definition of politics because you
assume it only stands for government issues. my answers are
not always the same, but your defense is, grandma.

this is about married men. no married women really which you
might know more about that than me, but being your clueless about
men, then i doubt you are an expert on even yourself.

sometimes i just want to fuck a girl, not fucking marry her. something
else you don't get about men. i bet you only 'make love' and never
fuck your man like a back ally hooker.

i can tell you are one of them women that makes the common
sexually unsatisfied husband. of course you will claim otherwise
and never ask your man what he thinks about your sex skills.
you don't understand this union because you are too self involved

 

I'd guess that most married men are not satisfied, thus, such a high divorce %.

If we could get more women to be open minded and thoughtful of how a man's sexual thinking works, and better open communication between men and their wives, more married men would be satisfied. There is too much misunderstanding about sexual needs, and way too much jealousy out there.

 

i don't think that's a problem for a husband because it will only mean
more sex and if his wife is showing that she wants his dick, then
he's gonna mean more nasty perverted sex.
but if she's just laying there emotionless, quiet, legs spread like
she's getting a body cavity search and freaks out if he talks too
dirty then that's when things get boring, even if she claims to want
it and asks for it, but seems to be only doing that to do her job
as a wives expectation. then that's lame.

i know some husbands can be dead fucks but only because their wife
is, so they use her to get off. husbands don't want a wife who only
makes love and never wants to just fuck.

 

not wanting full blown aids is not a normal risk and not deserving
of to be unhappy if you don't wanna risk that or pregnancy.
i think the average man can be happy with the same women and
i'm not speaking for myself.
it's a matter of imagination and trust if they go to extreme sex.
most people don't have a good imagination though.

you aren't gonna get a std from your wife if it's just you two and you
are both clean beforehand, but if only you go out and get laid
with protection then you are running a risk of getting an std, even
if not much of one, then you will give it to her if you did get one
or crabs, etc. or whatever new disease hits the streets we don't
know of yet.
then again some people don't care either way.

 

some married men go for gay sexual favors because it's easier
than trying to find a women for that.
when they decide to find sex outside their unhappy married sex
life.
unless they can find a female booty call. but i assume gay sex is
more easy and common to find.

 

how do you know for fact you never been cheated on? have
you never been in a relationship is why? just curious is all.
i'm not claiming to be an expert on womens sexual needs, but i know
i am more realist and honest about sex than most women i have
come across when it comes to sex.
i never said women can't be sexual predators, so that right there
shows me you are grasping to make a point because i am right and
you don't want me to be.
we are all adults here so you should know i speak in general terms.
lets not pretend the prostitution business is just as booming for
women who buy sex from men. not even close, even if it happens.

insult me if you want, but if that's ALL you got then it's failed if there
is nothing on the topic mentioned.

bottom line is that many women hate this type subject, especially
if they really do love their husband, respect him and want to make
him happy but don't like to fuck, can't handle fucking so often
and can't take mind fucks that come with the physical fuck.
some can barely make love, let alone fuck him to extremes.

 

i think many women know what it takes but are too emotional to
handle it, they have too intense of issues with sex to be able to give
a husband what he wants and then some.

if she has to force herself to fuck him like a whore, then he
will most likely want it 2 to 3 times a day...everyday.
how long will it take before she snaps?
especially if some of the sex sessions are 2 to 5 hours long, which
could happen with when she is fucking him real good.

 

I didnt insult you. I stated a fact. Your childish and immature. I know I haven't been cheated on because I never asked a man to surpress himself for me. I want sex way more then most men. I would be VERY pleased if I could it about 6 times a day. My sex drive is very high as are the sex drives of many more women on this site. I don't only want that soft sweet loving sex either, I will often tell my husband to please just fuck me. You pretend to know me but thats false like the rest of the shit the seems to spew unfiltered from your sad excuse of a brain.

 

Based on what i hear from co-workers I would say that no, most married men aren't satisfied. I've never heard so many guys complain about how they don't get pussy from their wives anymore. I kinda feel sorry for them but then again not.
When i'm asked about my sex life I simply say, "do you ever hear me complain". lol

 

Good Lord you make me laugh - yes, I am a grandmother. There are many of us on here, and we're proud of it. Married women who enjoy sex and frequent a porn site - which you say is rare. There goes that theory.

And let's see - I've been married over 30 years, so I do know married men. Friends, brothers, brother in laws, fathers, father in laws. How many married men do you know intimately? How could you know them so well? Do you have group conversations with couples? No? Really, my friends and I are very open. Oh, and the average length of marriage among my friends is 30 yrs. If it was so bad and so easy to get a divorce, why wouldn't these men have gone running? Why? Because they know how to make love to a woman and she knows how to make love to a man. That includes the time when a woman will turn to her husband and demand he fuck her. You see, wanting to fuck is not exclusive to men - women have that desire also. Another one of your theories shot to hell.

One more thing, you don't know jack shit about me. You claim I am self absorbed and that I don't care about my man. I will not debate you on this point, because I don't recall ever inviting you into my life, let alone my bedroom to observe.

I think you would do well to stop throwing out these uneducated comments about women, and take lessons from the real men on this site. The men here, I mean men, not boys, are among the most kind, generous caring individuals around. Just ask their wives - a lot of them are members, too.

 

Perfect answer

 

in my case it was enough for me after 11 years with the person, i never cheated on her.

 

you have no back up theory, that's why it's only name calling, but who cares? name call then if that's all you got. whatever.

it's funny to me when women pat themselves on the back about their
sexual appetite, but they never tell how men are the ones who tell
them this too. I am sure you will claim this now though.

i also have stated in the past that most real women on these boards
may be the exception to most women, if they are women on a porn
forums. so that might be true about you too.

but with the common woman, i know what i'm talking about. you
thinking most women are like you is not realistic, and not being
realistic about mens sex is why you get cheated on. just because
you understand yourself and are free spirited about it doesn't mean
you understand men and their true sexual desires.

maybe you think porn movies will teach you what men really want...big mistake.

 

you're kinda dim, you called me son so i called you grandma to be
funny and a smart ass...something else you can't understand.

this is about married mens sex lives in general. not about them
being generous.
i know you have not been married 30 years, no more than you
think you know how some people really are on these boards in real
life just because they kiss your ass here. gee, i wonder why they do
i know jack shit about you because of your beliefs you expressed,
it tells me you tell your man how he thinks and feels and you don't
pay attention to his needs and wants or bother asking because you
already know what's best for him, even if he tries to oppose that.

you tell others your man is satisfied, but you never ask him if he is.

 

yeah, if you're unrealistic and like to deny the truth.

most wives who get cheated on i think caused it, but they of course
will not agree.

 

many wives usually assume he is satisfied because they are. then when
they find out otherwise, then they are in shock.

"but i thought you liked doing everything for me and my way!"

when in fact he's just trying to avoid being completely alone.

 

you didn't cheat, but does that mean you were 100% sexually
satisfied?

 

haha maybe your right, I dont know:wink:

 

You are so unbelievably clueless. A real woman doesn't have to ask her man if he is satisfied. She knows, because he let's her know every day. A real man doesn't have to wonder if he's fulfilling his woman, because he knows by the look in her eyes.

Oh, and you're right about my not being married 30 yrs. It's actually 36.

 

Nope

Every Married men I know is definately not satisfied. You have to keep the lust and hot sex for your wife or gf alive to make it last. Still most of the time the Men easily fall for a younger girl. Men always want younger women. We deny it and lie to ourselves, but eventually the animal inside of us comes out and has hot sex with other women.

On the other had if you are swingers there is a good chance of the relationship lasting or at least lasting longer. If you swing you get to fuck other people and still be with your lover. This means that instead of going out and fucking a girl at a hotel. You bring your wife with and have a 3 sum, 4 sum, Orgy or Gangbang.

This great nation has gotten way to tied up with rules and taboos.
Guess what when something is made illegal or tabboo it just makes people want to do it more. Just like when you were a kid and you parents told you don't do ______. What did you go and to then just exactly what they said not to do.