I have never had sex and i am nervous that when i first penetrate into a vagina that i will instantly cum. has anyone ever had this happen? or have a problem with coming too fast?

 

well, coming from a chick, i'd be flattered if a guy came instantly-- like my pussy felt soooo good to him he just essploded. buuut if it happened everytime that'd be a problem! you could try rubbing one out before your dates so you can go longer if the opportunity presents itself?

 

Don't worry about it. We make allowances for guys their first time out. '

Just say your sorry, admit that it's your first time, and be ready to give it another go.

 

Virgins on this forum make me nervous.
I always assume they're WAAY underage.

 

Bust a nut before you go out, if you are that worried I doubt you will even get it up. Remember there is more then one shot in the barrel and ya honesty as Kimiko stated is a very good approach to almost everything.

 

Everyone either comes too soon or not at all their first time. If the other person knows you're a virgin they probably won't care. Like everyone said, you will probably do it again in like 10 minutes so no big deal!

 

don't worry about cumming to fast. you'll be ready to go again in no time and i'm sure your girl will understand.

 

+2 on this thought....even if he is 18 or more , he just sounds TOOO young and naive, almost like the maturity of a 12 year old. " when i first penetrate into a vagina" this comment is what makes you seem naive

 

I remember when I had sex for the first time, I was like 13. She was 17. I think I shot my load within 20 seconds! She just laughed and said "well, I guess you liked it!" It's a case of practice makes perfect. Lot's and lot's of practice!

 

My first time i didn't cum i was impressed. but fuck me the second time i was a 2 pump chump. don't stress about it its only sex you'll get betterover time trust me

 

She'll understand

 

First time i had sex i came in her in like 10 seconds. We were in the hot tub and didn't have a condom so she just said put it in. Thank god she didn't get pregnant

 

Until you get the hang of it, expect to be Mr. Speedy - as others have pointed out, your ability to recover quickly makes up for it. Here's something embarrassing so you know it's no big deal - the first time I gave oral to a girl, I blew my wad all over the sheets underneath me, while trying not to groan too loudly or pass out (it was intense for me). Another 3 or so minutes of that and I was ready to go again! :lol: She figured it out when we got up and there was a big puddle on her sheets, though.

 

Ha! Been there. Don't worry OP, I started out as a quick draw, turned into a marathon man, and now can just cum when we're both ready. Plus, like many others said, just reload.

 

first time having sex i exploded the second I entered lol, but 2 minutes later I was going to town and fucked her for a good 15 minutes, now i have no problems going for hours if the woman wants...

 

i find that guys who masturbate regularly last longer. couldnt hurt to try

 

this could be true, but I myself have no idea since the first time I masturbated was after the first time I had sex.

 

Very common for first time. I was 15 and on vacation my first time....the girl got on top and put my dick inside her, and for like 3 to 5 seconds was kind of wiggling a little, just trying to get comfortable before she started going up and down, and boom, I came. Literally, 3 to 5 seconds. I didn't say anything and she started riding me, but after like 30 seconds my dick was limp and fell out of her. She grabbed it to put it back in, and realized it was soft and asked me if I came. I said yes, and she said "thats cool" and we just laid there for a while. I was embarresed, but she was cool about it. We did it again the next night, this time me on top, and I lasted about 2 minutes. I didn't get her off this way, but both times I had fingered her to orgasm first. Next day vacation was over, and I didn't have sex again for 2 years. At that point I was good for about 5 minutes, which is pretty much where I am now.

 

lmao, blowing your load just from eating her out! Sorry I feel guilty for laughing. I've never cum from my cock not actually being stimulated.

I think I lasted at least a few mins when I lost my virginity my GF at the time was really drunk and I had a couple drinks earlier that night. I think we fucked a few times that night she even didn't mind not using a condom, then got all paranoid about being preggo and got the morning after pill.

 

i love how you're understanding towards the situation. It is a fear of nine as well.