Here's a question for the married guys in here... How many of you are not getting enough from your wives?

 

Ya know thats a good.......... I have been married for 15yrs And at times it seems i wasnt getting enough. But thanks this Site:excited: Our Sex life is better Sometimes ya got to spice it up a bit

 

Since I am in Afghanistan and she is in Texas, I'm going to say that I am most certainly not getting enough from her.:excited:

 

(raises hand)

 

I can understand you military guys not getting enough. My heart goes out to you. I wish you all luck and a safe return home.

 

ill answer for my husband. He's not getting it enough. I'm still in the postpartum, no sex zone. (Not medically "allowed". However...juss because the ferris wheel is broke, the whole park isn't closed. He got a blow job 3 days postpartum...has gotten them fairly regularly too.

 

Ive been married for 16 years, and NO,..I definitely don't get it as much. Right now, it's been 2mths since we've had sex. The longest drought is 4mths.

And yeah, I think Ive tried everything imaginable. My ONLY outlet is to jack-off to porn.

Now to maybe take your question to another level,..ask if any married men have had to resort to having affairs to release the tension and to feel wanted again.

 

I don't get it at all anymore. Married 35 years, considering divorce. She became alcoholic, lost weight, got depressed and anxious, lost interest in everything. Under a doc's care, and sees a therapist, but she no longer turns me on, nor does she try to turn me on. So here I sit all irked and pissed off, came to fuck and only jacked off.

 

Yup,..I have a feeling when the last kiddo moves out of the house, we might as well get divorced. Even when all the kids are spending the night with friends,..she has NO interest in finally letting her guard down and having fun, chase me around the house, kinky sex with me .

 

Im not a married man but Ima answer for my husband and my self.

Him: Not only getting more then he can handle feom me and his boy friend, but also has freedoms to go else where should he want to/find someone.

Me: Not getting enough. I have masturbated 5 times today and Im still aching. I need him to come home! Ugh.

 

Try doing the washing up! It works every time in my house.

Thinskin

 

lol getting what

2 times a year maybe but she is a great wife a good person so i j/o you will have that lol

 

LOVE THIS ANSWER! LoL

 

cums in spurts

Been with my wife for 23 years, married for 17 of them (since high school). Our sex lifes is decent enough that I shouldn't complain. We average 2-3 times a month. The frustration for me is that she gets in the mood and those 2-3 times come in two days. Then the rest of the month is dry. There is also a bit of a routine to our activities that she doesn't seem willing to break from. I've tried, but she isn't interested. Part of me feels I should be happy with what I get while another part says it's reasonable to expect more.

 

Do you talk to her about it? Do you initiate it other times or is she the initiator? Sometimes ya just need to prime the pump...meaning she may just get distracted by "life" and doesn't think about sex as much as you...but if you suggest it, turn her on, then its harder for her to say no.

 

No, I am not getting it at all. Im not married but engaged. I have not had it in 6 months..and I used to get it 6 times a day.

 

Yes I try . .

I can't honestly say that I put as much effort into initiating things as I used to but I think that being turned down so many times is a big part of that.

So what brought you to ask this question?

 

Hope it isn't a sign of things to come..

Wow tcd, I would be more than a little concerned if your sexual activity is already dropping off before you get married. Good luck with that!

 

I guess I'm fortunate. I get all I want plus some and the wife is kinky. I can't imagine it any other way! I feel for all our soldiers (men & women) that are away from their significant others.